Timing has always been a big part of dating. In Hollywood its significance has played out in various famous scenes, perhaps none moreso than in Swingers when Jon Favreau’s character is literally checking off the days in his calendar, waiting until there are three red Xs in a row before phoning his new crush.  Figuring out the ideal time to contact a woman after receiving her number is a puzzle that men have yet to piece together. Likewise, men have also been flummoxed by the ideal time to wait between a first and second date.   There is no three-day rule like Vince Vaughn proposed in Swingers. The duration of time you should wait until a second date is dependent on a number of variables.  Schedule a date too early and the tension isn’t given enough time to build, schedule it too late and the flame that you kindled on your first date has all but fizzled out. Together we’ll explore the ideal waiting time between a first and second date. Ideal Time Between the First and Second Date: Various Scenarios Best Day of the Week for a First Date When the second date is scheduled largely depends on when the first one took place.  The best day for a first date is Saturday afternoon when it’s still light out.  If you’re already a MegaDater you’d know that first dates should last no longer than an hour with no more than $10 being spent. Saturday afternoon as opposed to a weeknight enables you to easily adhere to these dating guidelines. Asking a woman out right after work will likely lead to dinner or drinks in a boisterous and crowded bar awash in 9-5ers celebrating the end of the workday. These aren’t ideal conditions for a first date.  First dates should also be daytime dates. Any date taking place at night takes on a romantic vibe. It’s also at night when women generally feel more vulnerable. Your objective on a first date is to make her feel comfortable and safe by creating a receptive and warm environment. A stroll and ice cream along the boardwalk on a Saturday afternoon illustrates a safe space. Shouting over fellow drunkards to get your point across in a rowdy bar does not.  If Saturday afternoon is out of the question, try Wednesday right after work. Just make sure that it’s light outside when the date begins and ends and that you’ve made it clear that you won’t be spending more than an hour with each other. Try not to spring this on her if possible. Instead, plant the idea prior to the date that you can only interact for one hour. I train my clients to spend no more than $10 and one hour on a first date because you’re essentially dating a stranger. Why would you promise to invest a copious amount of time and money into hanging out with a stranger? If Your First Date Was on a Saturday The armchair Don Juans might advise you to see her a few days after the first date, no matter when the date took place. In short, they’re wrong.  If the first date occurred on a Saturday, the second should also take place on a Saturday. Allow me to elaborate.  Midweek dates are difficult to pull off because of work or school commitments. If they do happen generally they’re looked down upon. The thought being that nothing really meaningful can take place midweek. We live for the weekends, not a Tuesday night date with someone you met on an app. Apart from the ease of scheduling a date for a weekend, there’s another reason for doing so. Each date should get progressively more romantic. Perhaps there was little touching at all on the first date, that’s fine – it’s a first date. However, the second date has its own set of rules.  Second dates should both be physical and free. Physical because it’s easier to touch each other and form a bond if you two are moving around. Free because free dates weed out both gold diggers and women that aren’t that interested in you. It’s quite difficult to schedule a hike, bike red, swim, or workout midweek. That’s why second dates are best saved for the weekend.  A first date on a Saturday followed by a second on the upcoming Saturday means that there’s a seven day waiting period. I know that seven days seems like quite a while and that you may have the urge to text her midweek – don’t. Carrying out an in-depth text convo midweek will deflate any tension you built and give you little material to talk about on Saturday. Wait until the day prior to text her just to confirm that you’re still on for Saturday and the express your excitement.  Should you two are both off work midweek, then go ahead and schedule a midweek date that ideally takes place on Wednesday.  If Your First Date Was a Wednesday Evening If you crushed that first date you had on Wednesday, awesome, but don’t let that momentum you’ve built hit the doldrums.  At the end of your first date -regardless of when it took place- use a TDL to ask her on a second. TDL stands for time, date, location. It’s what you should use every time you ask her out. An example of a TDL you might use at the end of a first date would be, “So you’re awesome and we should definitely see each other again. Want to go for a bike ride through the Headlands this Saturday at say, 1 p.m.?”  A TDL works because it defines the date in full. Most men ask women on nebulous dates by proposing, “hey, wanna hang out sometime?” That’s a nothing request. This on the other hand gives her a concrete engagement that she can either reject, accept, or amend.  A TDL should be used at the close of a first date. She may have been asking herself why the first date only lasted an hour. Rightly so, she may wonder if you like her or not. Quash these fears by using a TDL to ask her on a second date.  Should you two have gone out on Wednesday, set up a second date for Saturday afternoon, just three days away.  If Your First Date Was on Any Other Day Chances are that if your first date took place on any other day, it was a weekday. If this is the case shoot for a weekend date. Again, chances are higher that she’ll accept a weekend date opposed to a midweek date. No matter how awesome you think your TDL is, it will inevitably be rejected. Whether there’s no connection or she’s busy is something you’ll have to figure out. Do so by proposing multiple TDLs. Should she say she can’t make it Saturday ask her to a Sunday date, “No worries, how does Sunday at 2 at the Botanical Gardens sound?”  Whether or not you ask her out again depends on her response. If she doesn’t offer to reschedule or apologize profusely, then she’s probably not into you. Even if you sense this, give her the benefit of the doubt and propose yet another TDL. If she rejects you three times without suggesting a new time or activity don’t bother trying to coax her into a second date, and instead save your energy for women that are actually into you.  It can be awkward getting your TDLs continually rejected in person. If she already said no to two TDLs asked in person, keep that third request tucked away. Wait a day until you ask her out on an original date. Let’s say she’s turned down numerous date ideas. As a last-ditch effort write to her saying, “No worries Stacy. Seeing as how I don’t feel like getting rejected again, let’s swap gender roles so now the onus is on you to ask me out. You know I’m into you, now the ball is in your court.” You Should Never Be Asking Yourself the Ideal Time Between a First and Second Date The attraction you built on your one-hour first date can quickly fade. To indicate your interest and secure a second date you’ll need to use a TDL at the end of your first date while the feelings are still running high.  When you ask her on a second date at the end of a first you’re ensuring that you’ll see her again. You won’t have to play the game of purposefully waiting a couple of days to contact her again. Asking her on a second date then and there erases all the callow mind games from the equation.  A second date is just the beginning of your fledgling relationship. To ensure that everything goes smoothly schedule a 1-on-1 Zoom session with me, your new professional wingwoman. I’ll walk you through what a successful second and third date look like. Should this relationship go sour, I offer plenty of coaching and matchmaking services that are sure to help you reach your dating goals this year!

It doesn’t matter if it’s graduation time or time for your boy to set out on his own, it’s always nice to have a list of 10 songs about boys growing into men. They grow up so quickly and we desperately want to help them get situated on a good path in life. Here are some wonderful songs about boys growing into men that may inspire you or that you may want to share with your son before he sets out into the real world. “Tough Little Boys” by Gary Allan: Tough little boys is an inspiring song about boys growing into men. Performed by popular country star Gary Allan, it’s a great slow song about how tough little boys grow into loving fathers and how the experience can change them so drastically. “I Don’t Call Him Daddy” by Doug Supernaw: Sometimes things don’t go as planned. One of the hardest hurdles to overcome for many boys, as they grow into men, is dealing with the subject of divorce and someone other than their father raising them. This is a great song about boys growing into men, both from the father and son perspective. “Country Kids” by Colt Ford: Country kids is a great country song about country boys growing into men and girls into women. If you grew up a country kid, you’ll love this celebration of the simpler things in life. “The Boys of Fall” by Kenny Chesney: This is a wonderful song about boys growing into men, as it reminds them not to focus so hard on the future and what they’re going to be, that they miss all the wonderful things going on in their life right now. This song is inspiring, not just for boys, but for anyone that takes the time to listen to it. “Cats in the Cradle” by Harry Chapin: This is a classic song about a relationship between a father and son. “Cats in the Cradle” is one of the most popular songs about boys growing into men, as well as how important it is to be there for them as they’re growing up. It sure goes by quick! “I’m an Adult Now” by Pursuit of Happiness: Children often dream about when they turn eighteen and are legally able to do whatever they want. The Pursuit of Happiness wrote this great song about boys growing into men, expressing all the changes that occur when one crosses that line from adolescence to adulthood. “Back When I Was Four” by Jeffrey Lewis: This is a great song about a boy growing into a man as it starts at age four and tells his story, touching along accomplishments he makes through adolescence and adulthood.  In the end, it’s surprising how things turn full circle and find him enjoying some of the same things he did as a boy. “Watching Scotty Grow” by Bobby Goldsboro: This is one of the most touching songs about boys growing into men. Experiencing the milestones in a son’s life, through his father’s eyes, most dads can’t help but smile at this golden oldie. “Father and Son” by Cat Stevens: If you’re looking for a good classic folk song about boys growing into men, “Father and Son” is a wonderful choice.  Telling the tale of a father and his need to impart his wisdom upon his son before he passes away, it’s very thought-provoking and deep. “Spirit of a Boy, Wisdom of a Man” by Randy Travis: This is a powerful song about a boy becoming a man, and the tough choices he’s faced with. It’s a good song that reminds us that sometimes boys want to take on too much responsibility but, in the end, they are still young boys at heart. Previous articleTop 7 Powerful Tips On How To Keep Her Interested In You Alex Wise served over 5 years as relationship expert helping women from around the world figure out the men in their love lives from an honest, male perspective. Alex is one of the contributors and editors for Loveawake.com dating website. He is passionate about thought leadership writing, and regularly contributes to various career, social media, public relations, branding, and online dating communities.

 As you already know, attracting Mr. Right into your life can be a bit challenging. Unfortunately growing up with fairy tales as children and romantic movies as an adult, you probably got an unrealistic picture of who men are and how they operate in the dating world. Just think Hallmark Movies. Your heart just pitter-patters when the couple falls in love, right? The movies make it seem as though chemistry, not getting to know someone is the secret for finding love. I know when I first started dating; I was definitely looking for Prince Charming to just show up on my doorstep. In my dreams, he’d sweep me off my feet and take care of me forever financially and emotionally. Oh, and the other part of that dream was we would never argue. Funny dream and totally unrealistic for finding and keeping love in your life! I was forgetting something really important in this equation. I wasn’t looking at what I was going to contribute to the relationship, only what he was going to offer me. For some crazy reason, I figured my presence would be enough.  Today, this scenario makes me laugh but at the time, I really believed the PERFECT MAN would just walk into my life and I’d know him the second we met. Sound familiar? Fortunately, I’ve learned a lot since then, and to attract Mr. Right, I realized I had to stop letting men chose me. My power came from having a clear vision of who Mr. Right was beyond a couple of qualities I thought were important at the time. I had to dig deep on this and what happened is I ended up figuring out a formula called a Quality Man Template that showed me exactly who the right man was for me. My Quality Man Template is a comprehensive tool that includes looking at patterns of men you’re attracted to, your deal-breakers, the qualities you want in a man, the values that are important to you, and how you wanted to feel around him. This dating tool does two things for you. It sends a message to the Universe that this is who you are looking for. And it keeps you from getting involved with the wrong men over and over again. Now I have a question for you. What makes your guy the right man for you? Is it his values? The way he looks? The way you feel when you’re around him? Is it a man who can afford fine dining or expensive vacations? Or is it what he does in life? Does he have any of your deal breakers? (A woman settles when she doesn’t honor her deal breakers thinking a man will change…he doesn’t!) Is he anything like the last man you dated? Part of the reason you might be failing at finding Mr. Right is most of us get into a pattern of attracting the same man over and over again without even realizing it. At first, he seems so amazing until the same issues you had in your last couple of relationships come back up again to haunt you. It wasn’t until I created a patterns chart in my Quality Man Template that I was able to clearly see how and why I was doing this. Take a few minutes to think about whether you’ve been dating the same wrong men over and over again. It’s really important because the type of men you’re most attracted to are probably the worst men for you. Why? Because if you’re type worked, you’d be with your type right now. If you can expand beyond your usual type you’ll have far more quality men to choose from. There is a guy out there who is right for you. Just make sure you have a clear vision of who the right man is for you so you can see him. Met A Great Guy Who Has Everything I’ve Always Wanted! Thank you so much, Lisa. I kept thinking of the Quality Man Template you had us make and he has every quality! You have been such an inspiration to me and I thank you for all you’re doing for us single gals. Lesley, New Jersey I’d Have Passed My Guy Up Thank God, I became a member of Lisa’s Love after 50 Coaching Group because I needed help. Using what Lisa taught me about finding love at this time in my life, I ended up meeting my guy.  In the past, I would have passed him up if I hadn’t had my Quality Man Template. I also learned so much about men and understanding who they are that has helped me be in a successful relationship. Lisa, you are just a wonderful coach. You unlocked the key for me about men that got me the amazing man I am now sharing my life with. Maryanne, Connecticut Hugs~ Love this article? Sign up by clicking here to receive my weekly blog. Copyright© 2020 Lisa Copeland. All rights reserved. On July 8, 2020   /   Companionship after 50, Dating After 50, Dating in the Second Half of Life, Dating Mindset after 50  

Have you ever found some evidence – a text or a note or something – and thought – Is he seeing someone else? You might wonder if you’re just being paranoid or “overthinking” things.  But you can’t deny, the evidence is there. Is he seeing other women? This situation is related to an email I got recently from someone:______________________ QUESTION FROM A READER: “Is He Seeing Someone Else?” Hi Carlos, I have a suggestion for a topic for you to discuss … and I am sure many woman including myself will benefit from it or have experienced this situation and fall short on what to do… What if your guy suddenly has a friend of the opposite sex and they start hanging out frequently? I would say at least once a week and could chalk up to twice a week. You don’t know the background of this person, or how they met, who she is, what she looks like. He only provides very vague details of how they met just to shut you up. There’s no evidence of cheating yet but the fact that her background remains a mystery and the increased frequency they have been hanging out warrants for worry. Should woman be worried and possibly try to restrict this in a nice way without him feeling like his freedom is lost? Or what is your best advice to tackle this sticky situation? Thanks – Carrie______________________ Well, Carrie,  in short, your instincts are right. It sounds like he is getting very interested in this woman. I have to say that you actually do have evidence that he may be entertaining the idea of seeing this woman. The mere fact that he’s giving you “very vague details” tells you he doesn’t want you to know too much. Which means there’s something afoot. Why wouldn’t he say more unless he was trying to hide something? Besides the fact that I’m a man, and I’ve done this exact same thing before. (And don’t think that women don’t do the exact same thing to men!) If this was really just a friendship, he should be aboveboard enough to have you meet his new “friend.” And if you and him had a close-knit relationship, he should be eager to share details of this friendship to quell any anxiety you might have. But obviously he’s not that concerned about your feelings in the matter – or isn’t thinking about them. Of course there are two situations where this kind of “other woman” situation comes up:  You already have a relationship and a new woman shows up  You just started seeing a guy, and you suspect there’s another woman in the picture (or maybe you are the other woman) First off, let’s talk about some of the signals you’ll see if a guy you’re dating is seeing another woman. This could be a new relationship or an old relationship. Then at the end of this article I will tell you what you should do if you find out he’s seeing someone else. Let’s go through some of the signs and signals here that he might be looking to see other women – OR already is: Sign #1: “She” Isn’t Respecting Your Relationship Most women recognize what you did –  that a female “friend” to a man is cause for concern. There’s been a lot of debate about this point, whether or not men and women can “just be friends.” In my experience, and in almost every single situation I have ever seen, the truth is that straight men and women always have sexual tension between them. Even if there isn’t natural attraction present. What this means is that any woman that your boyfriend hangs out with is a potential threat. And you should keep your eye on that situation. Not only this, if she’s being a female “friend” and she doesn’t respect your relationship and that you would have a concern about her, that’s a problem. Let’s face it, if she knows his situation and is choosing to hang out with him, she’s got plans. Even if your boyfriend is not interested in her, it would appear that she must be interested in him. Now of course there’s a good chance that this “friend” doesn’t know about you. Which means it might not be her fault at all.  Most women respect the boundaries of a relationship unless they’ve been led to think otherwise. But you should figure out what the story REALLY is! Sign #2: He’s keeping you a secret There are lots of ways a man can keep you a secret. He can keep you a secret from his parents and family He can keep you a secret from his friends He can keep you a secret from other women he seeing If you notice that the two of you don’t seem to be “out” with your relationship, there’s a good chance he’s hiding you because he seeing someone else. If you’ve been dating a guy for a while and he suddenly isn’t as available, or doesn’t want to go out with you as much, that’s a big sign. I’ll tell you from experience, this is something I used to do. If I was seeing a few different people, I didn’t want to create an uncomfortable or awkward situation for any of the women I was dating. And so I would keep her a secret from the rest of my life, to avoid complications. Sign #3:  He tells you Some guys are up-front and will tell you that they’re not ready to commit to a relationship. This is also as good as him telling you “I’m going to see other people.” Can you handle the truth…? Some guys will date you for a while, and take the slimy, chicken$#!* way of looking around to find other interested women – instead of addressing his dissatisfaction with your relationship. (Which one or likely BOTH of you have a hand in.) In my articles and videos, you will hear me explain that almost any man who says he’s playing the field can be turned into a monogamous, devoted, adoring boyfriend or husband. Because if a man finds a good woman, he will want to keep her. (No matter how much he says he’s “playing the field.”) Guys use this excuse up front because they know women are much more focused on getting a commitment – faster than he may be ready. And I show women how to turn a reluctant man into this kind of devoted boyfriend that in my programs, such as Irresistible Desire. However, if a man starts out by telling you he doesn’t want a relationship, you should start off immediately believing him. Instead of trying to pin down a man you can’t possess –  probably only because you like the challenge –  why not choose a guy who starts out being eligible and available? If a guy changes his tune on you and starts saying that he is not ready for a relationship after he said he was, that means he’s trying to duck out of the relationship because he lost interest or saw some red flags. But always start out by believing what he says if he says he wants less commitment instead of more. Men don’t play hard to get. We simply don’t have the skill to do that. And yes, if a guy starts showing interest in his female friends, he’s telling you there’s something fishy going on. Sign #4:  His Relationship Status Doesn’t Change If you’re friends on social media, or maybe even on an online dating site – and you notice he doesn’t change his relationship status for quite a while after you two start dating, there’s a good chance you’re not the only woman. Or, he doesn’t think you are  THE ONE for him. Remember, if he’s into you, he’s going to show it. And he’s going to broadcast it! Sign #5:  He Treats You… “meh” If you don’t feel very special to this guy, there’s a good chance he’s just treading water with you. You’re his “better than nothing” girl. Again, a man will make you feel special if he thinks you’re special. If you don’t feel like you’re being treated like his possible Queen, that’s a signal. And that’s a signal you shouldn’t ignore. Don’t accept anything less than “special” treatment. After all, that’s why you want to be in a relationship, isn’t it? Sign #6:  He’s openly flirty with other women If a guy is being really flirty with women in front of you, this not only tells you what he thinks about you, this tells you that he considers himself available. Which means you’re not serious girlfriend material to him. And if you’ve been dating a while and he’s showing interest in other women, he’s either trying to send a message or he’s just not caring what you think anymore. Sign #7:  There’s No Tomorrow Meaning that you can’t see a tomorrow for your relationship. He doesn’t talk about the future, or the possibilities of you two in a relationship. One of the essential ingredients of a developing relationship is that you will want to talk about future plans. If he isn’t bringing them up, or suggesting plans, that means he doesn’t see a future with you. And if you ever find yourself trying to convince yourself anything different, wake up. You’re trying to make excuses to avoid the uncomfortable truth. Just think about what you would do if you had a man you really adored. You would be making plans every waking moment. Sign #8:  There’s something fishy If a guy is seeing other women, he will seem like he’s hiding something. You’ll just get a vibe that he’s not telling you the whole truth. All the signs are there… Another reason you should trust your instincts! Your gut will tell you things that your ‘thinky’ brain will ignore. He may not be outright lying to you or misleading you, but he’s definitely not open and transparent.  That’s something your instincts will tell you right away. So pay attention to the big picture as well. Sign #9: He’s crazy paranoid about his phone Perhaps one of the most obvious signs he’s seeing someone else is that he won’t let you anywhere near his mobile phone. He’s got it password protected, fingerprint protected, and there’s no way you ever get a look at what comes up on his screen. He probably even keeps his phone face-down most of the time. This is one of those things that kind of falls under trusting your instincts. We are all a bit protective of the privacy on our phones, but his will be a bit extra. Usually because he’s got messages he doesn’t want you to see. Which doesn’t mean that he seeing another woman, but you have to pay attention to the pattern. Especially if he runs off to take phone calls where you can hear them, or he frequently interrupts your time together to text someone back. And you don’t know who it is. Sign #10: He doesn’t ghost you, but he disappears Meaning that he disappears from your life frequently for long blocks of time. If you’d like to guess what he’s doing during these blocks of time, it’s probably seeing his other woman. Even if you’re in a primary relationship with this guy, he will start to shift the power over to the new girl. The longer the time he’s away from you, the more she’ll get her hooks in him. And the more serious the other relationship probably is. Sign #11: You feel like a last-minute girl This means that you feel like he only shows up to do something with you at the last minute. Or maybe he’s constantly ‘booty calling’ you. No matter how it shakes out, you always seem like the woman that he doesn’t make plans with until the last minute. Which is not only inconsiderate, it’s a sign that he’s already put you in second place. Or maybe even third place… Sign #12: You never get prime time If you only go on dates with him during the week (Monday through Thursday, with an occasional Friday)  this means he’s probably got another primary girl on the line. He’s popular with the ladies… After all, Friday and Saturday are typically the “special girl” nights of the week. And Sunday is one of those days you would just hang out together if you are a steady couple. The weekend is prime time. And if you’re not in prime time, you’re not a priority to him yet. And if another woman is his prime relationship, you should address that.  I would be willing to bet you don’t really want to be part of a competition for his affection. Also, if he’s frequently distracted when he is around you, that’s another way that men show you you’re not his priority.  And that he’s probably seeing another woman on the side. Sign #13:  He hasn’t made things “official” yet Naturally, we all get to the point of being exclusive with somebody in our own time. You really shouldn’t expect a man to want to be exclusive before at least a month. Possibly longer. Remember his timeline will not be your timeline necessarily. Men will always take a little longer than a woman to come to this decision. Men need to be careful with with this commitment. (I’ve discussed this in past articles and my programs.) However, if he hasn’t made distinct efforts to make you feel like you’re a couple, especially after a few months, there’s a good chance you’re just a side girl for him. A lot of men start dating and have no problem getting physically intimate with no intention of making things committed. In fact, he probably starts out a lot of his relationships intending to have a steady partner, but runs into something that makes him pause or holdback. This is a very common pattern for men. Men are more cautious about forming a commitment than we are eager to. Which is why he may be seeing other women on the side, too. Sign #14:  You’re not his #1 If you’re not his number 1, you’re not his priority. Plain and simple. This is usually fairly obvious in the way that he treats you. You’ll notice it in all the previous signs I have covered so far. You don’t feel like you’re The One… This is pretty obvious for most women to sense, but you may find yourself making excuses for him nonetheless. “He’s afraid of his feelings…” “He doesn’t know what he wants…” “He’s been hurt…” “His last girlfriend damaged his trust…” Etc. If you’re not feeling like his priority, that means you’re not his only woman. And it’s also a good indication that he’s seeing someone else. There’s an old saying in sales: “If you wait until the moment to ask for the sale to know if they’re going to give you the sale, you’ve already lost the sale.” Which basically means, if you go through your whole presentation and set up, and then ask for the sale without knowing that you’ve already got it, that means you did a bad sales job. You should have been checking in regularly and making sure your prospect was on board the whole way. Handling objections as you go. The same exact thing is true for relationships. If you wait for the two or three or four month mark before finding out if  he is interested in a committed relationship, you have also failed your sales job too. Sign #15: His communication frequency has changed When he isn’t texting as much, calling him as much, coming over to see you as much, that’s a problem. Any change in his behavior is a reason for you to take a serious look at what’s going on. And is especially important if he’s communicating with you less instead of more. Sign #16: He’s in a rush and rarely stays for very long He stays over long enough to sleep with you, but that’s about it. Is he secretive and sneaky…? If he’s just dropping by to say hello, or he’s just not spending a lot of time with you, and that time has definitely decreased in your recent memory, there’s a good chance he got someone else keeping him occupied. At the very least it sounds like he’s not interested in making a relationship of it, and he doesn’t have the guts to break it off. If you encounter this pattern, you should be the one to just end the relationship. I’ll explain more about WHY in a moment… Sign #17:  He doesn’t plan things with you If you notice that you’re not a part of the planning process for a lot of your dates or the things you do together, that can be an issue. It shows that he’s not interested in you participating at the level of a committed girlfriend. It may not say that he seeing another woman, but it shows that you’re not his main relationship. And it might be a sign that he’s trying to date you in his spare time. Sign #18:  Lots of cancellations Enough said here. If he cancels a lot on you, is a good chance you’re just a girl-on-the-side. And you’re going to stay on the side. Sign #19:  What’s in a name? If he doesn’t use your first name very much anymore, there’s a good chance he’s trying to avoid a slip of the lip and saying another woman’s name.  He doesn’t want to put himself in a situation where he might get confused and say “Lisa,” or “Karen” … or even “Gary.” And if he’s ever said another woman’s name in bed, you really don’t need me to tell you what that means. Now, here’s what you do about the other woman: If you’re in a situation where you were the first woman in his romantic world, or you are at least on an equal standing with any other of his candidates, you got some work to do. He’s going to need some proof that you’re the one for him. And he needs convincing that he should give up all other women to be with you. Set healthy boundaries. This is not a time to be sweet, passive, or nice.  If you do, you’ll just be telling him that you’re meek and you won’t do a thing while he goes off to have some fun on the side. In fact, your lack of boundaries will actually push him into her arms. A woman who wants to keep her man out of the clutches of another woman must put her foot down decisively. Take no crap from this guy. No matter how much it might seem like men want to “play the field” and date (AKA “bed”) many women, he will always give them all up for one good woman who meets all his needs. If you’re a woman who has just started a relationship, and you suspect you’re not the only woman in his life, you still have some work. Step Number 1: Get him to be truthful with you. If you can’t start out with honesty in your relationship, it’s very unlikely that your relationship will go anywhere good. In fact, it’s more likely that it will be a long road of deceit, heartache, and anxious pain. Get him to tell you that he seeing another woman. Ask him flat out: “Are you seeing any other women?” If you know in your heart that he is, and he says “no,” dump him immediately. And then tell him why. Step Number 2:  Find out exactly where you stand with him Ask him what his feelings are for you, and for the relationship, and where he sees you both in a few years. If he can’t or won’t, drop him like 1st period French class. Most women will shy away from this. They avoid confrontation. And so they will never find out what’s really going on with him so that they can fix it. If you want to be a success with your man and have a successful relationship, you can’t be a wimp when it comes to talking about the hard stuff. One of the most important skills you must have to attract and keep a man is the willingness to face the music when it’s time. Again, when I was in sales, those who rambled through their presentation hoping that the prospect would just say yes at the end almost never got the sale. They were afraid to hear objections which they would interpret as rejections. The sales people who handle objections when they came up, and even asked for them to make sure they weren’t there, got the sale. Because they could handle the objection and not take it personally. Step Number 3: The goal is a stronger you for him to love… Ironically, one of the most important things you can do is to end relationships quicker. The primary reason is that when you end a relationship you gain a boost in self-esteem and feelings of self-worth. Find your strength and walk away… If you: cling to relationships too long allow him to neglect you and your relationship allow him to end the relationship or disappear on you first… – you sabotage your feelings of self-worth. I’m not suggesting you should be recklessly dumping guys left and right. However, confirming your own ability to protect your heart is essential. You have to have agency in your life to know that you can act for yourself. Everyone wins when you are a stronger, more capable woman – someone who can support herself, him, and your family. It’s a win-win all around! If you’d like to learn how to be his FOREVER WOMAN and not just someone he’s dating on the side… If you’re tired of dealing with dishonesty or disinterest from your man… You need to learn how to be his priority. Go watch this short video on “The Secret Password To His Heart”

[embedded content] Ever start off hot and heavy with a guy who suddenly pulled back or ghosted? Of course, you have. Ever start off hot and heavy with a guy and realize he’s not the man for you? Of course, you have. Check out this Love U Podcast to understand why this is the very nature of dating – and how not to take it personally. Podcast: Play in new window | Download Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Android | Email | Stitcher | Spotify | Blubrry | Hi, I’m Evan Marc Katz, Dating coach for smart, strong, successful women and your personal trainer for love. Welcome to the Love U podcast. Stick around to the end to discover why we’re all hypocrites when it comes to love and why it’s essential to recognize our own hypocrisy. When we’re done, I’ll let you know how you can join Love U to create a passionate relationship that makes you feel safe, heard, and understood.  So true story, my client, Brianna, is a forty-nine year old, never married woman who’s always been drawn to emotionally unavailable men.  When she started Love U Masters coaching, Brianna meets this guy, comes on strong, calling her every day saying, “you’re the one.” And soon they’re spending the night together four or five times a week. Now, like many relationships that start off hot and heavy, it feels great. Dopamine, serotonin, norepinephrine, chemistry, talking about a future, think I’m falling in love with you.  And after a few weeks, Brianna starts to realize as she learns more about this guy who she’s spending all of her time with, that something didn’t feel quite right. And, she wasn’t gonna come out and criticize him or tell him what was wrong with him, whatever her misgivings were. She just recognized that this thing that she thought was right wasn’t right. She dove into the pool and there was no water in the pool, and she decided she needed to get out of the pool. So she breaks up with him. And he was shocked because everything seemed so great. But she did the right thing objectively. She did the right thing instead of continuing a relationship that didn’t feel right.  Now, would anybody, maybe you, doubt that Brianna is a good person? I wouldn’t. She is my client. And if Brianna is a good person for diving into a hot and heavy relationship and then having second thoughts, doesn’t it stand to reason that a man could do the exact same thing? Yeah.  So that doesn’t absolve they are actually bad men. There are bad men who just use you for sex without commitment and know they’re doing something wrong. But I think there’s a lot more situations like the one I just described with Brianna. Just because a guy is into you at the beginning doesn’t mean that much for the future.  And just because he pulls back abruptly upon realizing timing is wrong, it doesn’t mean he’s a jerk. It means it hurts, but it doesn’t mean he’s a terrible person.  If anything, he’s just a human being who, like you, doesn’t always know what he wants and is open to changing his mind on being presented with new evidence. Even if he seemed sure a week ago. We’ve all been in that position.  Your two takeaways from this should be this.  Number one, don’t dive into a hot and heavy relationship at all. Take your time to evaluate whether a person has long term potential both before you sleep with him and before you decide to call him a boyfriend.  And number two, just as importantly, recognize that men go through largely the same emotions as you do. In general, when we’re single, all the women we have crushes on, don’t want us. All of the women who want us, we’re not that interested in. Same story as yours. And when we finally have a moment of chemistry, it feels like everything makes sense and we dive in only to find out that, sure enough, there’s more to the story than just initial chemistry. This, in and of itself doesn’t make him a bad person. It makes him human just like you.  My name is Evan Marc Katz.  Thank you for tuning into the Love U podcast.  for more episodes like this click on the Subscribe Button, ring the bell to ensure you get notified every time there’s new content. Please share an honest review on Apple Podcasts.  If you want to find love right now and are committed to making healthier choices with men so you can have an easier relationship that makes you feel safe, heard, and understood look for the link below and fill out an application to apply to Love U.  Thank you so much.  I’ll talk to you soon.  Download my free special report, The 8 Massive Mistakes You’re Making in Relationships Get the man of your dreams fast by applying to enroll in Love U.

Do girls always seem to lose interest in you over time? Want to know what to do? Here’s how to keep a girl interested in you… Is it roses every date? Fancy dinners? Expensive vacations? Sharing your feelings? Should you be the nice guy? Or maybe you should be the jerk? Ummm… NO! None of those, actually. Here are 7 powerful tips on how to keep her interested in you. Some of them are common sense tips that lots of guys fail to use. Some of these tips are counter-intuitive and very potent when you use them correctly. How To Keep Her Interested In You Tip #1: Fun Dates Read our article on how to plan a date with a girl. If you want to keep things exciting for her (and you!) do fun and exciting things together. This could be as simple as going to play darts (a favorite first date of mine) or cooking together. With good girls who have made it past your initial screening process you can do more involved dates: rafting, rock climbing, snowboarding. Learn kung-fu. Take dance classes. Give her missions to complete between dates. Enjoy life together. How To Keep Her Interested In You Tip #2: Give Her Space Give her space. Always let her be the one coming to you. Stop chasing after her. Stop being Mr. Octopus, afraid to let her go, and let her be the one touching you. Don’t fawn over her how incredible and wonderful you think she is. Don’t see her every day. Early on in the dating process, no more than once a week is ideal. Even if you live together, give yourselves time to do your own thing. Don’t call her every day. Stop texting her all the time. But what if she says she wants all these things? Of course, girls who like you will say that they want more time together. This is when it is even more important to give her (and yourself) space. And when she wants more, more, more and you want to maintain the space needed to build a great relationship (and keep her interest in you rising and rising and rising) follow tip #3… How To Keep Her Interested In You Tip #3: Say No She wants a man. Not a pushover who bends over or jumps every time she snaps her fingers. Say no. Be assertive. A key feature in our live seminars is assertiveness training. If you’re not willing to say no (without saying the word ‘no’) then she’s going to walk all over you. Even a good woman who wants to make you happy can end up making your life miserable if she doesn’t know where your boundaries are. If she crosses a line that she didn’t know existed – that’s your fault. If she crosses a line that she was well aware of – that’s her fault. She’s out. Stop being her girlfriend and start being a man who has rules and boundaries and communicate those boundaries in a straightforward, honest and respectful manner. How To Keep Her Interested In You Tip #4: Make Her Laugh Make her laugh. I repeat – Make her laugh! Stop being so serious all the time. Seriously. Stop. If you can make her laugh, you’re well on your way to a lifetime of fun times. Most guys make the mistake of getting too serious way too fast. How soon is too soon? Ever. The goal is to be that couple who is still smiling, laughing and flirting together 10, 20, 40 years later. THAT is how you enjoy your life to the fullest. And so far, we’ve found no easier and better way of keeping a woman interested in us that to keep her smiling and laughing. What’s the best part? This works even better with quality women with good attitudes. Go read our advice on making girls laugh for more great ideas on this topic. How To Keep Her Interested In You Tip #5: Maintain Mystery Maintain mystery. Don’t share everything with her all at once. Spoon-feed yourself to her. She doesn’t need your whole life story right away. Revealing the good parts of yourself to her slowly lets you both savor and enjoy the process of getting to know each other. If she’s a great girl for you then there is no rush. She’ll find out all about you eventually without you making a show of vomiting your entire life story on the first date. You always want her wondering about you. You can’t do that if she thinks she knows everything about you (even if she doesn’t). We know extremely happy married couples where the man continues to play the mystery card years and decades into the relationship! Just remember that you can always keep her wondering about you, even years down the line when she knows you better than anyone else in your life. How To Keep Her Interested In You Tip #6: Keep Your Problems To Yourself I don’t care how much she wants you to open up to her. I don’t care who tells you that it helps create a “connection.” If you’ve got baggage, don’t give it to her. It’s just going to weigh her down, destroy the relationship and kill her interest in you in the long-run. Our research and experience shows that when couples stop dumping the bad stuff in their life on their partners, it dramatically increases the overall happiness and longevity of the relationship. This includes your stress, worries, the bad parts of your past, your complaints, your fears and anything else that is generally negative. This is different from hiding yourself from her or pretending to be something you’re not. Rather, it’s simply making a conscious choice to bring more fun, excitement and positivity into the relationship. Given the option between talking about something positive (“I found a great restaurant for us to go to!”), or something negative (“My client was a jerk today…”), stick with the positive. If you’re with her long enough, there will probably be some difficult times that the two of you will deal with. That’s fine. But don’t push the hard times to the front of the stage. Focus on the good in life. You want her time with you to be uplifting, enjoyable, exciting, fun, relaxing and good. Keep your problems to yourself. How To Keep Her Interested In You Tip #7: Find The Right Girl Are flowers the key to her heart? Flower vendors say yes. We say no. Find the right woman. But wait! You wanted advice on how to keep her interested in you, not somebody telling you to find a new girl, right? I’ll tell you straight up – sometimes, with some girls, nothing you do is going to work to build a happy, mutually fulfilling relationship. Nothing. Maybe the chemistry between you two is off. Maybe she was never that into you from the start. Maybe she has some serious issues and baggage that prevent will prevent her from ever having a good relationship with guys in general, and you in particular. Whatever the issue, sometimes the best move is to find a different girl. Upgrade. When you’ve got a great girl who likes you THEN you can focus on making the relationship as mutually smooth, fun and exciting as possible.

If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Val d’Isere with a dating guide this post will certainly offer some assistance. It will not take us long at all to inform you all about where to pick up single women as well as tips on having a great date night together. Table of Contents We always like to begin with trying to hook up in the nightlife before covering other topics like picking up single Val d’Isere girls during the day or an online dating option. Things to do on a date night or throughout the day will also be discussed. We have written about many European cities already if you want to find some other cool towns to visit in the future. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars Here is our list of the best singles bars and nightclubs to pick up Val d’Isere girls: [embedded content] The main area for singles nightlife is right there in the village and like most ski towns you won’t have any problems figuring out the scene here. Just book a hotel in the village and you will be located near the best après ski bars and nightclubs to hook up with Val d’Isere girls. You can find more of a party atmosphere here than many other ski towns so if partying and trying to get laid are a big part of your plans you chose the right spot. If you happen to show up here and the town is dead then there are plenty of bars to meet Turin girls that aren’t too terribly far away. Meet Val d’Isere Girls During The Day Ski towns are a little different, particularly when it comes to day game. Most of the single women in Val d’Isere are obviously going to be here to ski which will take up a lot of their time. If you see a group of girls about to hit the slopes or that are heading on some other tour try and casually tag along. Hotel bars and lobbies might have people hanging out in them during the day, and there should be plenty of people walking around the village as well. Plus you have shops like La Galerie and Point de Vente Solaise where you might be able to pick up girls near you. Chat With Girls Online Here is the thing guys, we aren’t going to claim that there are any great online dating options here. During peak season you can probably meet some Val d’Isere girls online, but they will be coming and going so fast that you better get them to meet up quick or nothing will come from it. We would rather mention a way for you to bring this mountain party lifestyle back to your home town before or after your trip. The best way to do that is to use Adult Friend Finder, the biggest dating site for fast hook ups in the world. When a girl signs up to that site you know the only reason there is because she is ready to get laid right now. During peak season it will work on the mountain, but you will also be shocked at how many girls in European and American cities use this site when they want to get laid soon. So while you can try to use Adult Friend Finder to hook up with Val d’Isere girls, it may be even better to use it while you are sitting in your home town wishing you were back here. Like we said, you probably are going to be surprised at the options you will find. Val d’Isere Dating Guide Meeting single girls near you has been covered in full so let’s pivot this to our Val d’Isere dating guide. Hooking up is only going to happen if you can show her a really fun time. Any of these romantic restaurants and cocktail bars can set a nice tone for the evening: Go party in the village nightlife after your meal, try to find a calm bar with live music, or just grab a blanket and a bottle of the wine and cuddle by the fire. Day Date Ideas This is a ski town, so we bet your girl probably will want to spend some time on the slopes. Other fun activities that you can find are: Horseback riding Hiking Paragliding Riding snowmobiles Snowboarding Ice skating You and her can go for a hike on your own, or you can find all kinds of tours and people who will help you find other things to do. If the cold is getting to you do some indoor swimming at the Aquasportif Centre and then go warm up at the Chevallot Bakery. They even have an ice driving course if you want to drive a BMW around a frozen track. The Val d’Histoire Museum may also be of interest to some. Interlaken could be a fun town to visit the next time you want to hit the slopes. Enjoy Dating Val d’Isere Girls That is all we have for now but we are always looking to improve our posts. If you have any special tips or want to correct any out of date information here please go ahead and do so in the comments. Those single women on Adult Friend Finder are hooking up with guys here and back in your hometown. That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Val d’Isere with our dating guide, enjoy your time here. Tagged dating, europe, france, girls

You’re Going To Discover… The 3 most important “Interest Signals” that a girl will send you (often subconsciously) when she likes you and exactly what to do when you see each of these signals… How knowing these signals can almost eliminate your chances of getting rejected or making an embarassing mistake with a girl… Why 99% of men completely miss these signals and let cool, attractive women walk out of their lives every week, without even knowing it… The four “magic words” you can tell a girl once you know she likes you, that will increase her interest in you and make sure things go the way you want… And whole ‘lot more!

You’re Going To Discover… The 3 most important “Interest Signals” that a girl will send you (often subconsciously) when she likes you and exactly what to do when you see each of these signals… How knowing these signals can almost eliminate your chances of getting rejected or making an embarassing mistake with a girl… Why 99% of men completely miss these signals and let cool, attractive women walk out of their lives every week, without even knowing it… The four “magic words” you can tell a girl once you know she likes you, that will increase her interest in you and make sure things go the way you want… And whole ‘lot more!

Of all the questions you might have about dating, “Why can’t I get a second date?” is probably one of the most frustrating. No doubt, you’re attractive enough to get women. (They wouldn’t be saying yes to first dates if you weren’t!) Still, something weird is happening, because your dates are usually one-and-done.  So what’s up with that? Well, I have some ideas. I see my clients make a lot of the same mistakes on first dates that totally ruin their chances of a second one. I’m going to lay them out for you here.  Reasons Why You Can’t Get to the Second Date Here’s some things you can do to improve your next first date — and increase your chances for a second date.  You’re Using Dating App Photos from 5 Years Ago When was the last time you changed your profile photos? If you’ve been using dating apps for a long time, it’s easy to forget that your photos are old. You might even think you can skate by with the exact same profile you put up five years ago. Wrong. Your dating profile isn’t a “set it and forget it” type of thing. You need to keep it current. Why? Because a woman can always tell when you show up looking way older than your photos. It’s false advertising that leaves her feeling lied to. Once that happens, you’ll never be able to win her trust — or a second date.  Instead, take my advice and review your photos regularly. Make sure they’re no more than a couple of years old. Include shots where you’re smiling (yes, we do like nice guys) and ones that make you look active and well-traveled. These are the type of photos you can use as conversation starters, and they’ll make you seem more interesting. Oh, and a cute dog never hurts, either. And, while we’re at it: Avoid selfies (so vain!), sunglasses (otherwise we won’t trust you), and any ugly photos you were debating on. In fact, if you need help, ask a female friend… or your friendly neighborhood dating coach. You’re Doing More Talking than Listening on the Date Maybe on a first date, you feel like you need to convince her why you’re such a great catch. So you go into sales mode… and forget that it’s supposed to be a conversation. How much did you let her talk? Talking too much can kill a woman’s interest in going out with you again. So instead, follow the 80/20 rule: Ask interesting questions that get her talking 80% of the time, while you talk 20% of the time.  Ironic? You betcha, but it works. Women’s brains, in particular, are much more verbally inclined. We feel good when we talk things out, share with friends, and discuss challenges we’re facing. Men’s brains are much more visual, so talking a lot is less common for guys and doesn’t add as much value to their lives as it does (generally speaking) to women.  It also works in all areas of life, not just in dating. Most people will feel as though you’re a good communicator if they spend more time talking.  You’re Not Asking the Right First Date Questions Obviously, if you’re going to get her talking 80% of the time, you’ll need to ask her some good questions. My advice here is: Always ask questions you actually want to know the answer to. Do not fill the space with superficial conversation! That’s boring — you’ll be bored, she’ll be bored, and your budding relationship will fizzle.  Some interesting questions to ask her might be: What’s your favorite childhood memory? (Or, favorite anything. Like favorite food, movie, author, etc.) What was the last show you binged? (Or, the last song you played on Spotify?) What hobbies would you be into if you had more time and money? What’s your #1 bucket list travel destination? Questions like these can get her talking about things she loves. This creates a good vibe that she’ll attribute to you. Fair warning though, once again: If the answers to these questions don’t interest you, and you can’t think of anything else you’d want to know about her, she might not be a good match. Your First Dates Are Overkill Listen to me carefully on this one. Things like expensive dinners, the opera, etc. on a first date are way too much. Generally speaking, spending too much time or money on a first date lowers your perceived value. When you make your time and money easy to get, it means you’re easy to get and hence, low-value.  Everyone wants what is rare and hard-to-get. We all want to feel as though we’ve won someone over who is out of our league. No one wants the guy who is too available or too interested. Limit your time and money on first dates or you’ll just be the sucker that attracts golddiggers or high maintenance women short-term. Not a good look.  Do you know how much I recommend you spend on a first date?  Ten bucks, max. (And yes, I live in a major metropolitan city, so I know how little that is!) It’s enough for two happy hour drinks, a couple of coffees, two yogurts at that quaint shop in your neighborhood… you get the idea. The reason is that first dates (as you likely well know) often don’t work out. So it’s silly to over-invest before you know if the two of you have a real connection.  That being said, do make sure you pay. Even though the bill is small, you need to make that gesture so you don’t come across as cheap compared to other guys she goes out with. Your First Dates Are Much Longer Than One Hour Do you spend more than an hour in the same location on a first date? Big mistake. Stop doing this immediately, or you’ll be asking “why can’t I get a second date?” forever. I know you feel, though. I hear my clients say things like, “But it was going so well,” or “The conversation was just flowing and I didn’t want to stop!” But I’ll tell you what I tell them: You’re blowing it if your first dates go on for more than an hour in the same location.  Any first date that’s longer than an hour just kills all of your mystery. By the time it’s over, you both would have found out every interesting thing there is to know about each other. And you know what? When the mystery is gone, she’ll feel as if there is no reason to meet up with you again. Even though the conversation was flowing well and you felt you had a solid connection, chances are, she’s off banging some other dude who didn’t overshare or listen to her life story for three hours on the first date.  You have to maintain your mystery if you want to keep seeing her. If the date is going well, invite her to go somewhere else nearby. That will signal the beginning of the second date. It’s very important not to stay stagnant in one location longer than an hour on the first date or you’ll wind up friend-zoned or ghosted.   You’re Not Using My TDL Strategy Too many guys are wishy-washy when they ask a woman out, and it makes me want to shake them. You want to know why you can’t get a second date? To begin with, NEVER ask her: “When can I see again?”  or: “What does your schedule looks like next week?”  Questions like these are way too vague. When you ask for that second date, women want you to lead that interaction. So here’s how you do it: You ask for the second date while still on the first date. Your idea for the second date should be something she’s already said she’s interested in. Then, all you do is give her a TDL (time, date, location) for when you guys should go do that thing.   Now, if you were to say, “Let’s do this again. What’s your schedule like next week?” it automatically pushes her into her masculine energy and you into your feminine energy. That means you’re asking her to lead the planning of the second date, which she does not want to do. She’ll have to look at her calendar, find a few options, and then give them to you so that you can suggest a date that she doesn’t even know whether she wants to go on!  So to avoid all that, she’ll probably just say, “Let me check and get back to you.” But she won’t get back to you though because she doesn’t want to get trapped into committing to a nondescript date that might suck. So then she’ll ghost you or continue pushing you off until the conversation inevitably fizzles.  However, when you propose an idea that she already mentioned during your date, then you have her buy-in because technically the date idea was hers in the first place. All you did was just hammer down her commitment with a TDL.  So here’s what it looks like in action: Let’s say on the date, you both are standing on the beach watching kite-boarders zoom across the bay. She says, “I’ve always wanted to try kite surfing but have been too afraid to try.”  The smart lad that you are jumps on the opportunity because you recognize that she’s compelled by this idea. So you say, “I’ve always wanted to try it too. Let’s go this Saturday! I think they have classes on the beach at 11 a.m.”  Now you’ve demonstrated leadership by actualizing an activity that she expressed interest in doing. She’s likely to say “yes” and then actually show up because: a) it was her idea and now she has someone to do it with b) you gave her all of the information she needed to tell you “yes” or “no” c) you made it incredibly easy to say “yes” because you made the plan actionable with a TDL, and d) you’re sexy because you know how to ask for what you want in a way that adds value to her life You’re Over Communicating After the First Date Too many texts after a first date can instantly smother any sexual attraction between you. Be careful about how much you communicate in between dates! I always tell guys one thing when it comes to texting: Always text with intent. Never send superficial messages without a rock-solid reason; otherwise, she’ll lose interest, leaving you wondering, “Why can’t I get a second date?” Texting without intent sounds like this: How’s it goin’? Hey cutie Happy Monday! You might have noticed a lot of them start with H, which is why I call them H-factor messages. They’re the #1 killer of any good dating vibes. Make sure you have a real reason to text her. For example, you can think of “texts with intent” as being transactional. If you didn’t set up plans for a second date, then wait three days from the first date and text her with a TDL for the second one. Texts with intent also include messages that are designed to get an emotional response. You can use these strategically if you feel like she’s ignoring you after the first date. So instead of sending her a boring H-factor message, say something like, ”Andrea, Andrea, Andrea. I feel like we’re drifting apart. ;)” It doesn’t sound clingy and yet it’s just pushy enough to compel her to write back. Finally, keep this in mind: Most guys who are confident usually call instead of text. Being good at conversation and showing you’re not afraid to get on the phone is super sexy. Why Can’t I Get a Second Date? Wrap-up:  Hopefully, you now have an idea of why you’re not getting second dates. A lot of times, your choices are just a little off in one area. So, pay attention to the above strategies. Implement them and watch things change for the better. And if you’d like more one-on-one coaching for optimal results, reach out to me for a new client video chat session! Not only will I share my personalized tips on how you can supercharge your dating life, but we can also determine if my in-depth, 3-month Signature coaching program could work for you.

You’re Going To Discover… The 3 most important “Interest Signals” that a girl will send you (often subconsciously) when she likes you and exactly what to do when you see each of these signals… How knowing these signals can almost eliminate your chances of getting rejected or making an embarassing mistake with a girl… Why 99% of men completely miss these signals and let cool, attractive women walk out of their lives every week, without even knowing it… The four “magic words” you can tell a girl once you know she likes you, that will increase her interest in you and make sure things go the way you want… And whole ‘lot more!

You’re Going To Discover… The 3 most important “Interest Signals” that a girl will send you (often subconsciously) when she likes you and exactly what to do when you see each of these signals… How knowing these signals can almost eliminate your chances of getting rejected or making an embarassing mistake with a girl… Why 99% of men completely miss these signals and let cool, attractive women walk out of their lives every week, without even knowing it… The four “magic words” you can tell a girl once you know she likes you, that will increase her interest in you and make sure things go the way you want… And whole ‘lot more!

7 Truths About Men That Can Help You Be Successful at Finding Love after 50 One of the biggest over 50’s dating challenges women face is about understanding the way the male mind thinks and works. That’s why today, I’d like to share  7 simple truths about men that you can start using right away to turn your dating life around. BTW . . . I’ve had clients use this advice and go from emasculating men like it was their job to having men fall over themselves to get to know them better. So here we go . . . Truth #1: Appreciate a man for who he is . . . A MAN  Men are wonderful but they aren’t women. They don’t think like women, nor do they communicate like women. Men come from the mindset of being hero oriented while women are community-oriented. Since we think on different levels, you can’t expect a man to behave the same way you as a woman might. Truth #2: Men over 50 are very masculine They have no interest in competing with the woman in their life over who can do something better. In the dating world, when you lead from your masculine side, you are quickly friend zoned because to him, it feels like he’s dating a man. The key is learning to come from your true feminine power, your heart. Your heart and vulnerability are your true strengths and they complement his masculine power; to keep you safe and protected. Truth #3: Men show you love with their actions  Hollywood has messed with our heads on this one. On the big screen, they show us male characters like the one Tom Cruise played in the movie, Jerry McGuire when he professed his love with a big romantic speech that ended in the famous words, “You complete me.” Real men show you their love through the actions they take like when they cut your grass or give you their coat on a date when you’re cold. Truth #4: Men want to make you happy  Let them open the door for you and change that light bulb you can’t reach. It makes them happy to take some of the burdens of life off your shoulders. All they want in return is to be appreciated and thanked. If you do this, they’ll do anything you want the next time you ask, which leads us to Truth #5. Truth #5: Don’t criticize the job a man is doing for you He’s doing his best and yes, you may be able to do it better or faster than he can but don’t take over and show him how. It makes him feel emasculated. If he has offered to do something for you and you’ve said YES, allow him to do it his way. Otherwise, the next time you ask for help, he’ll tell you to hire a handyman. He doesn’t want the aggravation of looking less than in your eyes because he can’t do anything right for you. Truth #6: Men are not your pet project I can’t tell you the number of men who told me stories of how women tried to change them. The reason you might do that is that you see his potential and try and get him to as well. (BTW . . . he sees and accepts you just how you are) My advice . . . don’t try and remodel a man. Either accept him for who he is or let him go and move on. Truth #7: Make it clear you’re interested. A lot of men over 50 are pretty insecure when it comes to asking you out. Having been rejected time and time again by so many women, they aren’t so quick about putting themselves back in a vulnerable position unless it feels safe to do so. If you like a man, encourage him with eye contact, a warm smile, or a flirt online to let them know you’re interested. Be kind to men and understand that as scared as you’re feeling about dating, most of them are too. Hugs~ Love this article? Sign up by clicking here to receive my weekly blog. Copyright© 2020 Lisa Copeland. All rights reserved. On July 1, 2020   /   Dating in the Second Half of Life, Dating Mindset after 50, Identifying the right man over 50, Relationships after 50, Successful Single Women over 50, Understanding Men after 50  

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Last updated on July 1st, 2020 If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Hobart with a dating guide then this page should cover everything you need. When it comes to where you can pick up single women and also take them out for a fun date night there are plenty of options. Table of Contents Hooking up in the nightlife is where we will start off before discussing places to meet single Hobart girls during the day and an interesting online dating option. Date night spots and things for the two of you to do together will also be discussed as the post goes on. Be sure to look through our other posts on how to get laid in Australia if you will be visiting any other towns outside of Tasmania in the future. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars Let’s kick this off with a list of the best singles bars and nightclubs to pick up Hobart girls: [embedded content] The main area for singles nightlife is Salamanca and also along the waterfront right there downtown. There is a really nice set up and many of the best places to hook up with Hobart girls are right there close to each other. Any guy who is traveling here on a trip would be wise to book a hotel in Salamanca or downtown by the water. Being so close to the action will make it a lot more likely that you get laid while in town. We often like to tell you about other nearby towns to visit if things aren’t going well for you here, but there really isn’t anything close. We guess the girls in Melbourne are the closest, but no matter where you plan to go after here you are going to be getting back on a plane. Meet Hobart Girls During The Day Once again that downtown area along the water and Salamanca will be the prime spots for day game. With so many things to do in one small area of the city there will be plenty of single Hobart women walking around all day and night. Meeting single girls at malls and shopping districts is something that many men have had success with: The Cat & Fiddle Arcade Wellington Centre Elizabeth Street Mall Northgate Shopping Centre Chat With Girls Online As the world continues to change thanks to technology we all need to be able to adapt if we want to stay in the game. Nobody stands on the side of the road waving their arms in the air like a psycho to flag down a cab when you can just order an Uber and save money by doing so. Makes sense, yet when it comes to online dating sites far too many guys never give them a chance. Have you been to a nightclub lately? Were the girls near you there to mingle with the crowd? Or to find a new backdrop for their latest selfie? How is a guy supposed to make anything happen if they aren’t even living in the moment to give you a chance? But it isn’t all bad, online dating sites have really leveled the playing field in many ways. If you want to meet girls in Hobart online and are just looking to hook up use Adult Friend Finder. You will be surprised at just how popular this site has become in Australia, Europe and the US over the past decade. You always have the option to get all dressed up, wait in a long line, and spend a lot of money to maybe find a cute girl who will actually talk to you at a club. Maybe you will find one of the few who is actually going out to hook up and not to just see and be seen. Or you could just log on to Adult Friend Finder and start messaging girls who actually want to get laid right now. Hobart Dating Guide Now that you are fully caught up on the best ways to meet single girls near you this Hobart dating guide needs to move on to the next step. We all know hooking up on a date night will only be possible if you show her a really fun time. Any of these romantic restaurants and cocktail bars could do the trick: After your meal you could go party in the Salamanca nightlife or see a live show at Theatre Royal or The Playhouse Theatre. Plus every Friday night you can find live music and lots of food trucks at Franklin Square. Day Date Ideas One thing you are not going to have a hard time finding in Tasmania is cool outdoor activities here. Some of the coolest places to spend a sunny day outside together are: Bonorong Wildlife Sanctuary Mount Wellington Mount Nelson Bruny Island Tasman Island Wineglass Bay Sandy Bay You also have some cool parks right there in the city like: St Davids Park Soundy Park Train Park There are always interesting sites to see around Salamanca Market and Battery Point as well. To get a better sense of the history of Tasmania on your date during the day try: Museum of Old and New Art Mawson’s Hut Replica Museum Narryna Heritage Museum Henry Jones Design Gallery Allport Library & Museum of Fine Arts Adelaide can be fun for a weekend trip when you find the right girl. Enjoy Dating Hobart Girls That is all that we have to share with you today but don’t worry we will update this post every few months to keep the content fresh. If you have any special tips or want to correct any out of date information here please go ahead and do so in the comments. And remember those single Tasmanian women near you on Adult Friend Finder are always ready to hook up. That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Hobart with our dating guide, enjoy your time here. Tagged australia, dating, girls