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What To Talk About With A Guy – 18 Tips
Have you ever been talking with a man and found yourself wondering what to say next? You wonder what to talk about with a guy… I’ll be the first person to tell you that talking to a man is really not that difficult. The problem is that you only learned how to talk to other girls. Ahem … females, women. We may have a lot of topics in common, but knowing how to talk about with a man is really probably more important than what to talk about with him. Still, it’s not intuitive. It’s just not easy to know what to talk about with a guy. Aren’t you lucky you have Carlos? I’ve been a guy in my entire life, and I’ve gone on quite a few dates where the woman talking to me didn’t seem to have the first clue of how to talk to me. And now that we live in the age of Covid and online dating, we have to find more ways to make those connections count. Conversation is how more relationships will start off, anyway. So I’m going to give you a crash course in how to talk to men. We’ll talk about what to talk about, and how to talk about it. But first, we got to talk about what NOT to talk about. Don’t Talk About: Negative topics If you are still in the first two to four dates, you need to avoid your conversation going too negative. If he brings it up, that’s okay. But you don’t want to stay in the negative zone for too long. After awhile it will start to taint how he feels about you. Eventually, you will talk about these things. But there’s no reason to tarnish the start of the relationship yet. Examples: How your life sucks How HIS life sucks Politics (it just ruins everything) News Don’t Talk About: Criticism It should go without saying that you should avoid any kind of criticism towards him on those first few important dates. After all, if you are finding things to criticize him about and feel the need to share it, you probably shouldn’t be seeing him. Pretty simple, huh? Don’t Talk About: Anyone else you are seeing This is obviously a No-No. there’s no need to discuss any one you are dating on the side other than him. If he asks, you can politely delay this for later. If you’d like to know how to say it to him, go check this out…. Don’t Talk About: Any women from his past Until you’re in a relationship that is stable and grounded in your Love & Safety, leave other people out of it. Memories of his past relationships don’t belong. YOU are the present; stay with the present. Don’t Talk About: His money Look, the truth is that a lot of guys run into a lot of women that are only looking at him as a source of gifts and support. Every guy understands his obligation to provide for his family. But don’t bring up the topic of his money too early. Whether that’s talking about his salary, or how he spends his money. This doesn’t mean that you can’t watch how he handles himself when it comes to paying for the check, of course. But there’s no reason to get into his finances until much later on. Okay now let’s talk about what you should bring to your conversation with a man – Talk About This – #1: Anything you can compliment about him Look ladies, the sad fact of the matter is that men don’t get enough compliments. At least not the right kinds. You can’t compliment a man the way you compliment a woman. He isn’t really all that concerned about his choice in shoes or evening jacket. (Does anyone even care about an evening Jacket anymore?) What a man cares about more than anything else is whether or not he has done something that is worth recognizing. One of the most important things to a man is being approved of. When you give him approval, his heart just sings. So a good compliment is your best starting salvo. Compliment him on something he did well, or a decision he made. Talk About This – #2: Talk about his Hobbies or his Passions Guys love to talk about their pastimes. After all, there’s a good chance he took a job just to pay for his Hobbies. And maybe that developed into his career. So you can talk about his work, but even better is to talk about what he would be doing if he didn’t have to work at all. In fact, you can even ask him that question to find out what’s important to him. You need to know this if you’re entertaining the idea of this guy being your “one and only” someday. Also, make sure you ask intelligent questions about his hobbies. All you have to do is be genuinely interested in him and what he’s talking about. Show curiosity and ask questions and you will win his heart. Talk About This – #3: His friends and family Look, you want to know more about his world. If only to find out if he’s a good match for you. So the best thing you can do is to ask him about his friends and what makes them all friends. Find out what holds them together and makes them close. What activities do they share? How did they meet? What are their differences? What are their personalities like? Questions are your number one intelligence-gathering tool. Make sure you are asking him questions regularly to find out more about him. The more you learn at the start, the easier your relationship will probably go. And the less time you’ll spend wasting on guys who don’t deserve your attention. Talk About This – #4: His pets If he’s got a dog, find out about his dog. He will probably ramble on and on about his dog, just warning you. If he has cats … well, maybe you should rethink this whole thing. (Just kidding!) We all love to talk about our pets, after all. And there’s no faster way to open his heart up then to awaken the love he has for his pet. Talk About This – #5: Find out about his job Yes, eventually you do need to know what his career is. Why did he choose it? What does he love about it? What does he hate about it? How did he get into that line of work? Is he doing it just for the money? How does his job satisfy him? And of course talk about your own job. Why did you choose it? Etc. You can tell an awful lot about a man by finding out how he came to do a certain job. And the reasons he gives you for choosing it. As you get to know him better, bring it up several times. You’ll find that he tells you more and more about it as he feels more safe talking to you. Talk About This – #6: Talk about your own turn-ons I’m talking about your passions here. The things that make you excited about life. A man is also looking to see if you have your own life. He wants to know YOU are together before he starts a relationship with you. No man wants to be an emotional support system or your sole sense of self-worth. After he talks about his own Hobbies, you should talk about your own. You do have some hobbies, don’t you? Make sure you have a life of your own before you start dating. It can be terrifying for a guy to think that the only thing going on in your life is the search for a relationship. Talk About This – #7: Your tastes It’s important to talk about the music that you listen to, the movies that you watch, the television shows you view. If you’re just watching re-runs of “Gilligan’s Island” all the time, he’s going to see that as a red flag. You want to know that you have common tastes – that you will have something you can share together. If you are not interested in the same things, or your interests don’t align, you will find it difficult to forge a real connection to him. I will warn you that a man will even get married to a woman he has nothing in common with as long as he feels physical attraction and there is a physical relationship. Unfortunately, he will lose interest later on when he realizes his mistake. That’s why it’s up to you to watch out upfront. Help him make a good decision! Talk About This – #8: Talk about things you can do together One of the best ways to get a man to fall in love with you is to have adventures with him. Do things together that get him emotionally involved. It’s the process of experiencing life that creates real emotional investment. So pick out a few activities that will get him activated. Maybe it’s trying out a new rock climbing gym, or going to see a local theater production. Just choose something exciting and that will bring up the level of attraction between you. Talk About This – #9: Talk about books you’re reading If you find a book that you are both familiar with, it’s one of the best ways to get a conversation going. Ask what he found interesting, and not so interesting about it. If you’re a reader, of course you want a man who also reads. So make sure this is high on your list of requirements for your life partner. You do have a list don’t you? Talk About This – #10: Tell him about your plans for life Another thing that men really admire in a woman is a sense of purpose. Purpose beyond finding a guy to marry. I know it sounds kind of old-fashioned, in this day and age. But the psychology is still very valid. We want to know that the person we’re interested in has other interests. We want to know that they won’t just latch onto us at the first chance they get. This goes for men as well as women. Make sure he knows that you had a life before him. And that you have plans for your life, you have a whole adventure ahead for both of you. Talk About This – #11: Talk about travel This is a topic we all like to talk about. Find out where he’s been, and where he wants to go. After all, eventually you want to have travel to share with him. You want to go to new places and experience the world, and you want to know that he wants this too. Where would he like to go? Where has he gone? Where would you like to go? What are your favorite places? Talk About This – #12: Talk about food This one’s a no-brainer. Talking about food is the easiest thing in the world. Talk about the food you like Talk about food you’d like to try Talk about some of your favorite restaurants and what makes them your favorite Talk about some of your food adventures from the past Talking about food is one of the easiest ways to start and keep a conversation going. The other benefit is that when you start talking about food, there are other stories that connect to it. He’ll be reminded of lots of other experiences from the past. Talk About This – #13: Accentuate your commonalities In other words, make sure you talk a lot about the things you guys have in common. Your compatibilities. The more you talk about the things you share, the more you’re going to forge a connection with him. And if you really do like this guy, you can’t go wrong. Just don’t get stuck on this topic, or else it can seem forced. Talk About This – #14: Later on, talk about love The best way to get into the topic of love is to explore things like his celebrity crushes. Another great way to bring it up is to talk about his first real-life Crush from grade school or middle school. Gently work in stories of your past relationships in a way that is not threatening to him. And get him to talk about his. By bringing up this topic, you are reactivating the same emotions in him that he has felt in the past. Only now, in the present moment, he will be feeling them for you. Cool, huh? Talk About This – #15: Talk about his dreams, goals, future It’s especially important that you know what kind of a thinker this guy is. You want to know if he’s got a plan for his life. That’s why you got to find out what he thinks he’s going to be doing 5, 10, 20 years from now. Even if that’s only being a dad, you have to know that he’s thinking about it and planning for it. Perhaps the biggest red flag you can encounter is talking to a man who has no plans for his future. It might sound romantic when he says he’s just “living for the moment, but that’s just another way of saying: “I’m just treading water.” You need a guy who is forging a path forward. Not stagnating. Talk About This – #16: Talk about your favorite movies I’m kind of listing this twice. But it’s actually an important one. When you find out why people like certain movies, you find out more about how they think and feel. You understand them deeper. That’s why this warrants extra attention. Ask him what’s in his “Netflix queue” Or what the last good movie is he saw What type of movies he enjoys What kind of movies he avoids Bonus points here if you can find a few good quotes you’ve memorized from past movies. As you may or may not know men really love to reuse movie quotes. It’s a way for him to kind of relive the experience of the movie. Talk About This – #17: Talk about sex – but carefully Some guys can be weirded out by making him talk about this topic before he’s ready. Most men are pretty Savvy to making it happen, but they aren’t always willing to have it in conversation. So you need some indirect ways to bring up “the Nasty” with him. Again, you want to make this a topic for later dates. Maybe not the first or second date. But when you do bring it into the conversation, it will rapidly accelerate the pace of your relationship. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with not talking about sex until you guys get there and are ready for that part of your relationship to happen. Talk About This – #18: Talk About … Never Have I EVER One of the most fun ways to get in touch with someone is to let yourself be a kid with them again. And one of the best conversation games is to play the “never have I ever” game. The game is super simple: “Never Have I Ever” – if you’ve never played it before – each person holds up a hand and takes a turn sharing a statement about something they have never done, while saying: “Never have I ever… “ If anyone HAS done the action, they put down their hand. Then they tell the story about when they DID do that. It’s a lot of fun, and can lead to some really wild and interesting conversations. Here are some ideas for questions: Never have I ever rode a motorcycle Never have I ever lost a bet Never have I ever went skinny-dipping Never have I ever cheated on someone Never have I ever woke up somewhere without knowing where I was Never have I ever broken a bone There are tons of crazy lists for this game on the Internet, plenty to fuel your conversations for … well, years. In order to keep a man interested, you have to be able to start conversations that bristle with energy. If you hang back and try to play it too safe – which a lot of women do – you’re going to lose before you get started. Don’t play to “not lose.” Play to WIN! I’ve given you plenty of ideas for what to talk about with a guy here. If you put your mind to it, you can come up with a bunch more. The truth is that you don’t really need to know WHAT to talk about. (And if that was a question, I just answered it.) Really, you’re probably wondering HOW to talk with a guy. What words do you use to talk to him? How do you reach his heart? Guys do use different words, and you might feel like you’re fumbling with the right words to use when you talk with men. There IS a way to know the right things to say – you can have simple scripts that you can use to handle any situation with a man… Discover the Passion Phrases scripts here… GO HERE TO DISCOVER WHAT TO DO NEXT…

Introducing My 3-Step “Get Laid Gameplan” For Shy Guys Who Are Tired of Striking Out With Women (Get Laid Tonight!)
<span data-mce-type=”bookmark” style=”display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;” class=”mce_SELRES_start”></span> <span data-mce-type=”bookmark” style=”display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;” class=”mce_SELRES_start”></span> Click Here to Discover the Subtle 3-Touch Sequence That Gets Her Soaking Wet, Naked & On Top of You In Bed… I meet a lot of great guys in my line of work. They’re interesting, they’ve got great ideas, and they’re a pleasure to spend time with… but yeah, sometimes they struggle with women. It’s a common problem. Because the truth is, you can be the greatest man in the world–but if you’re not putting yourself out there and regularly trying to meet girls… then odds are you might struggle once you actually try to do it. So that’s what I want to tackle today. Hi, I’m David Dupree, and as part of my new series, I’m answering your most difficult, burning questions related to sex and dating. And today, I want to show you the truth about getting back in the saddle and getting laid–what works, what doesn’t, and how to easily get laid, even if it’s been “a while.” WARNING: These Shocking “Touch Tricks” Turn Hot Girls On & Make Them Want to Bang Your Brains Out (Don’t Use These Unless You Want Sex Right Away!)… Because honestly, if you follow the right steps… and get some practice under your belt… … then it’s a LOT easier than you may realize. So let’s get started! Catch The Full Video Transcript Below… I got a question from Stuart. He says: Hey David, after watching a bunch of your videos, I’m committed to change. I want to be a better man. The kind of man who like you can seduce women the world over, but I honestly don’t know where to start. I’m pretty shy, a little overweight right now, and I’m in my late 40s. What are two to three things that I can do right now that you would suggest for me to do if I’m striking out with women?” Thank you Stuart, and I appreciate the question. And for everybody else, including Stuart, remember that I have a value bomb at the end of this video, so stay until the end. 3 Ways to Instantly Attract More Women (And Improve Yourself in The Process)… You don’t just want to find a girl. You want to improve the type of person you are. A lot of the exercises I give you are designed to work right now, to give you something right now. In other words, these tips get words coming out of your mouth, but they also get you out of your head. For example, the three step sentence generator also gives you the habit of being out of your head when you’re meeting a new woman. In the same way, most of the tips I give you… I trick you into thinking they’re about something to be interesting right now, and to get a girl right now. But in reality, every trick I gave you is really about being a more interesting, a fuller, a more complete and a more attractive guy. Because that’s the type of guy I like to coach. So, most of the tips I give you are about being that type of guy. And here’s some of the stuff that I’ve given you recently that I want to show you how those things connect you to being that type of guy. NEW SURVEY: Does Penis Size REALLY Matter To Women? (The Truth) 1) Read Short Poems One is I gave you my method for improving your tonality by reading … by using short poems. What that does is it makes your right now conversation stronger, deeper, more resonant. What it also does is make your language image-filled, so it sounds more interesting. But that image-filled language also makes you think that way. Think in images, thinking stronger, think deeper, more inspiring things. It also makes you connect to deeper and better things. Because when you are reading good poetry, not weak things but good poetry, you are always reading the same … It’s really about 102 strong topics that are important. TRENDING: If A Hot Girl Does This With Her Body It Means She Wants You Bad (Most Older Guys Totally Miss This!) What you’ll find is, although it seems like there are so many different subjects in the world, there aren’t really. When you are listening to or talking to people who are talking about something that was extremely interesting… it’s not random. For example, a good book that lasted a long time. That book is not about something random. It’s about one of a limited number of very trenchant, always valuable topics. An example is love is always valuable. And that doesn’t mean go research love. What it means is just read things of high quality and what will come out of that is the habits of valuable subject matter. The easiest way to develop that is, you will find there are things and in a lot of my coaching I hit on all of those things. I focus on them because I want you to become that type of person. 2) Develop Passions in Your Life Another thing I told you recently is to develop passions in your life. Find things that you already like, don’t know much about and to go take a class. Go dive a little deeper. When you do those things–things that you like a lot but don’t spend a lot of time in–they connect to something either that thing, the thing itself. For example, let’s say it’s art. Art is a big subject. Painting is under an umbrella that is a very big subject that will always have value. And that is art. And in fact, art connects to and is under a bigger subject that will always have meaning and will always be a deep rail subject, which is beauty. Which is the form. Form and substance and what things mean to us. SPECIAL: This “T-Shirt Secret” Can Get You Laid Tonight… As you dip your toe into one of those areas that is already interesting to you, it will invigorate your personality. It will start to develop you toward that person. Find those things and dig in. But when you do, don’t just follow it in terms of what you like. 3) How To Become the Most Interesting Man in The Room… As you pursue your passions, you will find when your mind starts to open your conversations will be different, it will show it. It’s almost like you’ve taught yourself that people I don’t know or understand still have things to show me. You’ve taught yourself that little tip that when you’re talking to real people, they will feel it. Not hear it, not hear in your words, they will feel it. They will somehow recognize that there’s more than this person. This person’s deep. Your life will enrich and grow, and that growing, that’s where you meet people. That’s where you become that type of person that everybody around is like, “This guy …” I was at a party recently and so many people came up to me and said, and what they liked, but what they always say to me is: “The most interesting man in the room.” And I of course love it, it’s flattering. It makes me feel good. But it’s not a random compliment. It is the same one they all give, because they all connect to that thing. And so when this inevitably starts happening to you… here’s how to turn that level of interest into something sexual: This, Above All Else, Will Get You Laid Tonight… Fact: You can’t smooth talk your way into a woman’s bed. Even the sweetest, smoothest, most James Bond-like line you can think of has a teeny tiny effect on a woman… when compared to other much more important factors. Like touch for example. In my opinion, touch is BY FAR the most effective tool you have at your disposal to get her ready, willing, and overly excited to take her panties off. And from what I’ve seen and experienced… when you know how and when to touch women right… getting laid becomes a sure thing. Especially if you’re shy or introverted, this is the absolute best way I know to get hot girls naked and on top of you in bed: Click here to see why and how the right touch will get you laid tonight. Share this…

Je Ne Sais Quoi
From the French, literally translated “I know not what”. It’s an intangible quality that makes something attractive or alluring. Seduction is all about je ne sais quoi. It’s about confidence, intelligence, wit and beauty. Being clever and crafty, sexual and haunting. The way a woman carries herself with a glow of inner peace and tranquility. Je ne sais quoi I was out to dinner the other night at a local 4 star restaurant. The décor was beautiful the staff gave exceptional personal attention, the food exquisite.It wasn’t very crowded so I noticed a couple who walked in and was seated near my table. He was an older gentleman, very well dressed and on his arm was a lovely younger woman also very nicely dressed. By her appearance alone, she looked quite elegant. But as I watched them periodically throughout the evening, she became less attractive by the minute. No make-up, fur, perfectly coiffed hair or Jimmy Choo shoes could hide the fact that she had not the etiquette, manners or presence to match her looks. She laughed too loud for the quiet ambiance of the room. Her elbows were on the table often and something about her mannerisms and the way she slouched took away from her beauty. Any one of these qualities was fairly subtle (there are times it’s ok to have your elbows on the table) but together they immediately reduced her initial poise. A woman can appear on first glance to have it all, but all it takes is one missing ingredient or one blatant disregard for important ‘set apart’ qualities and her seductive flame quickly burns out. Proper etiquette and manners are sorely missing in today’s world. So much so that when interacting with someone who possesses both impeccably, that person stands out, leaves an impression, Wows us. Many years ago I noticed this first hand. I attended a party where the average age of the attendees was 22 therefore portraying proper etiquette and manners was not a huge priority for any of us. We were a laid back bunch drinking beer out of the bottle and eating chips out of plastic bowls. However, a young man caught my eye. He was sitting on the couch with the most perfect posture I had ever seen. This man stood out. He was cute, dressed better than the rest of the jersey clad boys paying attention to detail with a tucked in oxford, belt and sweater. All that was good, but there was more. He captivated my attention. No matter where he was, or what he did; walk, stand or sit he did it with presence. Presence that came from his upright, perfectly straight posture that said, “I am here. I know who I am and I own this space.” He looked confident and sure and much more mature than the rest of us. I was drawn to him. When the opportunity presented itself, I told him that I’d never seen anyone with such perfect posture. How was it that he never slouched, scrunched or twisted….ever? I was actually envious. He proceeded to tell me that his posture was no compliment of his own effort. He couldn’t slouch if he tried. He had been in a car accident that almost killed him and now lives with his spine completely fused together. He also added that he gets compliments ALL THE TIME on his posture and joked that at least one good thing came from the accident. It was amazing because he didn’t look forced, stiff, or fused to me. He carried it naturally. It made him look handsome, classy and WAY more attractive than the other beer slugging boys at the party. He also stated that because of his posture, “People usually notice me and they don’t usually forget me.” I’ll be introducing a series of articles on Etiquette and Manners with lots of good tips you may already know and possibly some that you don’t. Without a working practice of both, you won’t be able to exude that certain something, that ‘I know not what’, the very seductive je ne sais quoi.

Her Tinder Account is Still Active & We’ve Been Dating for 3 Months. Should I Call Her Out?
I’m a dating coach, so believe me: I see your pain. I see you working to get your profile perfect so you can appeal to your ideal woman. I watch you pore over your profile photos, get all the adjectives just right, and send out artfully crafted messages. And when you finally start dating someone you like, it’s celebration time. Things couldn’t be better. Well, except for one thing. After a few months of dating, you realize her Tinder account is still active. WTF?! Welcome to the oh-so-lovely world of online dating. It’s definitely not like the old days where you ask her to go steady and lock it down with a promise ring. Today’s dating world changes quickly. It’s hard to keep up… and even harder to know where you stand. So the question becomes, do you call her out? You might be surprised to hear me say this, but generally, the answer is no. Calling her out on her Tinder profile will make you look over sensitive and insecure if you’re still in the early stages of dating. Nowadays, people shop around. While it’s easy to get attached to someone when you first start dating, it’s healthy to explore as many opportunities as you can first. That’s why I recommend MegaDating to everyone. Of course, not all cases are the same. So in this post, I want to go over both sides of the issue. Let’s take a look at why you shouldn’t confront her if her Tinder account is still active (and the one reason why you should). Here’s Why You Shouldn’t Call Her Out Despite what you may think, calling her out could actually cause more problems than it solves. Some reasons why you shouldn’t say anything if you notice her Tinder account is still active might be… You don’t really want a relationship. Before you pull out your phone and send her that crazy, all-caps text, think about what it will mean. If you confront her, you’ll give her the message that you want to be exclusive. Is that actually true? Be careful what you wish for. What if you ask her why her Tinder account is still active, and she immediately apologizes and takes it down? You may have gotten what you wanted, but also something you didn’t want… a girlfriend. (Trust me, if you tell her to take down her Tinder and then don’t date her exclusively after that, she’ll be more than pissed.) Maybe this is obvious. But you’d be surprised how many guys don’t really think about it. And I get why. Men are very action-oriented. “Her Tinder account is still active… I need to do something!” you might think. Guys are praised for making quick decisions and moving forward, sometimes at lightning speed. But that doesn’t always work if the right response is to wait. Take some time to really get to know her. Sure, she may be hot. And these days, it may be hard to find good-looking prospects who aren’t totally wacko. But is she really the right one for you? If you don’t have an answer for that yet, don’t push the envelope by insisting that she get off Tinder. Not only will that lock things down too early, but you’ll give her the impression that you don’t think you’re good enough to compete. Bad move. She’s not that into you. Before you go all out and ask why her Tinder account is still active, consider the fact that she’s not that interested in you. That doesn’t mean that things won’t change. But it won’t help your case if you get all butt-hurt about it. Take a breath and try to figure out if she seems interested in being with you, or not. Then you’ll know whether you should confront her or not. If she’s into you, she probably texts or calls you on a regular basis (you don’t have to always reach out to her first). Likely, you’ve met her family… or at least some of her friends. She’s stayed over at your place more than once and has even started to leave her stuff there (toothbrush, hair stuff, an extra change of clothes, etc.) She talks about taking a trip with you someday (damn that Corona) and hints at the possibility of a long-term future. Now, if she’s NOT into you… well, you’ll know that too. When you call or text her, she’ll take hours — maybe even more than that — to respond. She won’t make much of an effort to integrate you into her life. You won’t know her friends or her family. She won’t be very affectionate. Maybe she’ll even talk about other guys. If you were to be really honest, she’ll treat you more like a friend (or worse, a meal ticket). If you see signs that she’s not really that into you, don’t bother asking why her Tinder is still active. You should know. Her Tinder account is still active… but you haven’t had “the talk.” Let’s say she does show signs that she likes you. You feel confident that she sees you as boyfriend material even though she’s still on Tinder. Have you had an explicit conversation about where you stand? Have you both agreed to be exclusive? Or, are you assuming? You need to be clear about what you want from her. If she doesn’t know, she can’t give it to you. Honestly, though, I wouldn’t consider dating exclusively until you’ve gone out at least eight times, had sex, and met people in her life (family/friends). Without those things, you really don’t know a person well enough to decide whether you’re compatible. And if you both haven’t explicitly stated that you’re in a monogamous relationship, then there’s no harm in either of you continuing to date. In fact, if you’re not ready to have “the talk” yet, you both should be MegaDating. I recommend this to both men and women to really get to know the dating market, build their confidence, and — this is most important — get rid of all that nervous energy that comes with meeting up with multiple strangers you talk to online. To MegaDate, you maximize your dating efforts to meet as many people as possible. I can show you how to do this in my private and group coaching programs. Then, once you get to the point of seeing 15 people in 30-60 days (it helps to stack 2 dates on weekend days and keep all first dates to less than one hour) you’ll start to see the benefits. Your tension around dating will ease, making it easier to hone in on what you want. By the time you meet the “one,” you’ll be so good at presenting yourself that things will go effortlessly. Your attachment style is getting in the way. If you follow my articles, then you know I often talk about identifying your attachment style. It’s such a great tool to help you recognize problem behaviors. And in this case, your attachment style could be the reason why you’re so anxious to find out why her Tinder account is still active. Let me back up first. There are four main attachment styles that predict how people act in relationships. The healthiest attachment style is “secure.” That means you are confident in yourself and the fact that you deserve love. You don’t need to chase people and have no problem giving them space when they need it. On the other hand, you give love freely. Being emotionally intimate doesn’t scare you, so you tend to be very open and loving in relationships. The other (unhealthy) attachment styles are “anxious” and “avoidant.” If you have an anxious attachment style, you don’t feel confident that your partner will be there for you. So you become clingy in order to keep their attention. Your partners tend to get tired of your insecure vibe and pull away. Those with avoidant attachment styles will shy away from intimacy. (This is why they tend to react the most to anxious partners!) Avoidants are hyper-independent and never want to get too close. They need their space, but often ask for it excessively. So what does this all mean? If you’ve been dating only three months and are worried that her Tinder account is still active, you may have an anxious attachment style. If you do, then you’re probably reacting out of insecurity. See this post or read the book Attached to learn more about attachment theory and see what your style is. If you can curb your anxious ways, you won’t need to confront her about anything. You’re still on Tinder yourself! How do you know her account is still active? Is it because you’re creeping too? Like attracts like. If you’re on the app, then do you really need to question her about it? Most likely, if she’s checking Tinder, she sees you’re on there, too. She might be waiting for the day when your profile says it’s deleted before removing hers. So until you’re ready to do that, you should probably keep quiet. Or… you could man up and have that awkward conversation. If you’re sure you want to be exclusive and you know she’d be into that, then bring it up gently. Say that even though you’re both on Tinder, it would be great to put the dating apps on pause and see where things go. Don’t make it accusatory, and don’t make it about her. Otherwise, she’ll just get angry and defensive. When to Say Something If Her Tinder Account is Still Active As I said at the beginning of this post, I see only one reason to call a woman out if you notice her Tinder account is still active. That is… She’s actually cheating. Are you in a committed, monogamous relationship that you both agreed to? Maybe you trusted her so much, your friend had to break it to you that she’s still on the app. If so, that’s different. If this is the case, you want to ask her in person what the deal is. Try not to make assumptions here, but rather, ask questions that help you to understand her thought process. She might have forgotten to delete her account. Maybe her profile is still up but she never checks it. Or if a friend told you, then maybe they were just wrong… so don’t jump to conclusions. You don’t want to come out guns blazing and ruin something good over a misunderstanding. Of course, if she really is seeing other people behind your back, then you have a problem. Hopefully, that’s not the case, but if it is, calling her out was the right thing to do. Her Tinder Account is Still Active: Wrap-Up New relationships are touchy. Since you don’t know each other that well yet, you fear that everything could be a problem. When you see that her Tinder account is still active, it’s hard to keep your feelings in check. But when you’re dating, you must realize your own worth. Immediately assuming that somebody else’s active profile is a sign of “relationship doom” doesn’t help the situation. It also doesn’t show you in your best light… so you could end up creating what you fear. It could turn out to be a self-fulfilling prophecy if your insecurity ends up turning her off. Then again, if she really is taking advantage of you, then you have to be confident enough to draw a boundary. That’s why coaching can be so critical. To solve these kinds of subtle dating dilemmas, you need to know the ins and outs of how men and women think, as well as how to communicate in ways that don’t sabotage things. In my programs, you’ll learn the art of dating so well that you’ll make smarter decisions that are less reactive. I offer private and group coaching sessions for anyone who wants to learn master-level dating techniques, making their dating life more fun, and ultimately find the person they want. Reach out to me (or another emlovz coach) for an intro call to get started. We’ll discuss your situation in more detail, co-create a short strategy, and see if our coaching or matchmaking programs are right for you.

The #1 Trick That Makes Talking to Hot Women Easy
Click Here to Discover the Subtle 3-Touch Sequence That Gets Her Soaking Wet, Naked & On Top of You In Bed… There are two main things that shut down any conversation. I’ve talked a lot about one of them, but not so much about the other… Can you guess what they are? Negativity and specificity. TRENDING: 7 “Sex Signs” Girls Give Off When They’re DTF… As a man, the main problem you have to worry about is avoiding your own specificity… And that’s because specificity is a masculine behavior! I’m going to explain what this means for you and exactly how to keep your conversations with women from fizzling out in just a second… But first, let’s address the root of the problem: Sex. <span data-mce-type=”bookmark” style=”display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;” class=”mce_SELRES_start”></span> <span data-mce-type=”bookmark” style=”display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;” class=”mce_SELRES_start”></span> Masculine Behavior Vs. Feminine Behavior When I say the root of the problem is “sex,” what I really mean is that these conversational pitfalls are split up by gender. Men and women are inherently different. Now, writing that doesn’t make me sexist — I’m simply acknowledging the truth. The gender-based differences in these two conversational pitfalls — negativity and specificity — are exactly that: Gender-based. They are not gender-biased. There is behavior that is masculine and behavior that is feminine, but one is not better than the other. Here’s an Example: As a man, one of your key masculine strengths is focus. It’s a “masculine” strength because it’s a quality that can literally make women attracted to you… But it will only make a woman more attractive if she’s already attractive to begin with. Confidence is another masculine strength. If you embody confidence, you will draw women to you naturally… But a confident woman is only going to be made hotter by her confidence if she’s already hot to begin with. Think about the masculine stereotype — men who can “take it like a man” and practice bravado are generally seen as more attractive because of their confidence… But on the flip side, men who aren’t as confident are often considered weak and insecure… Two qualities women find repulsive in the opposite sex. So lean into your masculine strengths and away from your masculine weaknesses, and you’ll become naturally more attractive to women. “What do you mean by ‘Specificity’?” By specificity, I mean being very specific in your topic choice in conversation. Specificity is one of your masculine weaknesses — it’s something that can instantly kill a conversation with any woman. “But what’s wrong with being specific? That sounds like a good thing!” When you’re specific with a woman, you’ll form an image in her mind… Encourage her to elaborate… Engage her… And influence her to actively participate. THE LATEST: This “T-Shirt Secret” Makes Hot Girls Chase You…? Yes, being specific can be a great thing — and in fact, it flows from your masculine strength of focus. The problem with you being too specific is not a question of what you say or even how you say it… It’s an issue of your relationship with this woman. You can implement specificity in your conversations — but only after you build rapport with a woman. Basically, it’s almost always best to talk about broad, general subjects when you’re approaching new women. When you’re specific in your conversation, you might feel more comfortable… But you’re drastically increasing your chances of losing her interest. What’s more important: Keeping her interested or staying in your comfort zone? If you continue to fight your discomfort, you’re killing your chances of success. So by being too specific in your conversations with women, you’re sabotaging yourself from the get-go. When you explain a subject to a woman in so much detail it comes off like you think you’re better than her, that’s a type of conversational specificity. It’s what happens when you begin talking about something too specific and feel the need to qualify your reasons for discussing the subject. Here’s what you need to know: Women hate this. You can avoid this specificity, but first let’s get past the feminine conversational pitfall — negativity. What Improv Comedy Has to Do With Your Ability to Approach Women… When you go to approach a woman, your mind might naturally go to the possibility that she’ll reject you — this is your brain’s way of simulating failure to make that reality less painful. And while you practice “failure simulation” to prepare yourself for your interactions with women… For women, failure simulation is a part of everyday life. Women have an instinctive tendency to seek safety and avoid danger. To avoid as many risks as possible, they obsess over what can go wrong… What already went wrong… Or what’s wrong around them. For this reason, women tend to complain more than men — especially in their conversations. That’s Not All… If you’ve ever taken an improv comedy class, then you know the first rule of improv is to never say no. A quick refresher: Improv comedy is the art of going through a comedic skit with absolutely no preparation. You’re given a topic or a situation, and you have to work with another person to flesh out the scene. The first rule of improv is to never say no because the word “No” tends to stop a conversation dead in its tracks. This is why a woman’s negativity becomes your problem when you’re trying to have a conversation with her. TRENDING: 3 Tinder Secrets to Find Fast Hookups With Hot Girls… Here’s an example of a conversation you want to avoid: You: “There’s a marathon today — we should be able to see the runners from this cafe!” Her: “Oh yeah, I wouldn’t have gone out if I had remembered. I can’t stand how they snarl up traffic and fill the city with tourists!” You: ………………. What can you say in response that won’t provoke her negativity further or begin an argument with her? The answer is basically nothing. This means that, on the one hand, you need to be careful about being negative in your interactions with women — it’s feminine and will bring out her own negative tendencies. On the other hand, you can’t fight her negativity with a new, super specific topic of conversation. So what can you do? How to Avoid Specificity and Keep Your Conversation Flowing With ANY Woman Men tend to have a stronger attachment to what they do than to who they are — in fact, many men base their idea of who they are on what they do in their free time. Because of this, when women ask you about yourself, your instinct is to dive right into your specific hobbies. Throw a nice helping of approach anxiety on top of that, and you’re even more likely to fall into the trap of specificity. But there is a way to avoid it. And it doesn’t involve you approaching hundreds of women to improve your social skills… The “Conversation Cheat Sheet” That Will Guarantee You Never Run Out of Things to Say to Her Just make a list! Sit down and make a list based on three simple questions: 1) What do you love to talk about? These are your true passions. Whether you’re the speaker or the listener, you’re going to enjoy a conversation about these topics no matter what. 2) What are you good at talking about? These topics are ones that you know get people excited, no matter the situation. Her eyes will widen, and she’ll look at you with new respect. Make her say, “Wow! That’s a great point!” Or, “I never thought of it that way!” 3) What do you know a lot about? If you know a lot about a subject, then you’ll be able to talk someone’s ear off without getting tongue-tied or running out of things to say. It’s true that there will probably be some crossover in topics when you ask yourself these questions — for example, if your passion is tech gadgets (question number one), then you probably also know a lot about them (question number three). INSIDER SECRETS: 7 Hot-As-Hell Sexts That Get Her to Come Over & Strip Down Naked For You… Focus on your passions first and foremost, and then move onto the other questions. Try and make a list of at least 15 topics. The reason you want so many is because your next step is going to be to shorten your list. Look at your list, and select five to seven of your favorite topics. Memorize them — this is your “conversation cheat sheet.” If your memory is less than great, you can even keep your cheat sheet written down on a piece of paper in your pocket. Just don’t let her see it! Remember, the more specific the topics on your list are, the smaller your potential audience. That doesn’t mean you can’t talk about those topics with women you meet… It only means that when you first approach a woman — and before you know what’s going to make her wheels start spinning and her juices start flowing — it’s best to start with the general and move gradually toward the specific. For example, if you’re interested in building shelves out of a specific kind of wood, begin by talking to her about general craftsmanship. If she looks and acts interested, then you can gradually explain your interest in the subject on a deeper level… But what should you do if she doesn’t look interested? What to Do if She Starts Looking Bored… Remember that a conversation is a two-way street, and remember why you’re trying to have that conversation: Because you want to keep her interested and eventually ask her out. If she’s not interested in what you’re saying, there’s a chance she might say, “I’ll be honest. I don’t know anything about general craftsmanship or woodworking.” But what’s more likely to happen is that she’ll passively display her boredom. She’ll get really quiet… And nod a lot… Her eyes will wander… And she’ll ultimately shut you down. She’ll never be interested in you if you can’t find some common ground — that’s why your best chance of achieving this is to be as general as possible in your opening chat. So if you start talking about woodworking and you lose her, just open up with another topic from your cheat sheet! This cheat sheet is designed to make your interactions with women go as smoothly as possible and minimize rejection. Now let’s take things to the next level: The Secret “Confidence Enhancer” That Will Turbocharge Your Conversation and Get Her In the Mood… With your cheat sheet, you should be able to easily hold a conversation with whatever woman you’re interested in. But did you know there’s a secret to turbocharging your conversation and actually getting her horny really quickly? Like I’m talking within minutes of meeting her! And the best thing is… you don’t even have to SAY anything to make her panties wet! Once you combine this secret with the cheat sheet above, your conversations with women will naturally and effortlessly flow toward sex… …and she’ll absolutely love when you use them both! This is easily a 10x-multiplier effect when you use them together, and you’ll start to notice what used to be ordinary, everyday conversations with women you’re interested in… …instead get really hot, really quickly. All you have to do is click here now to see how you can easily get her in the mood using the conversation cheat sheet and this one other secret method… Share this…

6 Tips to Finding Love After 40 That Actually Work
Finding love after 40 can be challenging. Why? [tribe_mini_calendar] [Tribe_events] [Tribe_events_list] Because the dating scene has changed a lot since you were in your twenties. Every man you meet comes with baggage. Maybe he’s just come out of a messy divorce, or he’s jaded from a past relationship, or he has kids. You think you’ve met someone great, and you want to keep seeing him, and then BAM. He comes clean. “I’m still married.” “I just went bankrupt.” “My ex-wife and I are great friends, and we like to hang out at the weekends and barbeque.“ And you’re left thinking WTF?! All of a sudden, dating isn’t fun and carefree like it used to be. And frankly, it can be a little intimidating for us all. So, what do you do if you’re looking for real, lasting love after 40? [embedded content] Yes, the dating scene is different now because you’re in a different stage of your life. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be just as thrilling as it used to be. There will always be men carrying a bit of baggage with them, and you’ve likely got your own too. But the secret to finding love after 40 is how you approach dating. Because no matter how old you are, you deserve love, and it’s out there waiting for you to receive it. What has been your number one challenge in finding love after 40? Have you tried any of these six tips in the video, and how did they work for you? Drop me a comment below! Your Coach, P.S. If you’re serious about finding love after 40, check out my Little Love Steps Program. Learn more here. Also, if you’d like to join me on a brand new webinar to learn “why men flake, avoid commitment and consistently ghost until they meet a woman who’s following these 7 simple steps”, then register here (it’s 100% free). Share the Love

THIS is Exactly How You Should Text Hot Women: A Step-by-Step Guide
SLUG PS LINK The decision to go from casually texting a girl to openly flirting with her can be nerve-wracking for many guys. That’s because this decision represents a succeed-or-die scenario. Either she enjoys flirting with you, it turns her on, and your relationship moves to the next level… or she gets creeped out and completely stops talking to you. So in this article, I’m going to show you my playbook for flirting over text without sounding like a stalker. You’re going to learn: 5 Strategies to Avoid Acting Needy or Creepy When Texting Women 3 Different Types of Flirty Texts You Can Use TODAY Plus, You’ll Get Access to the Ultimate “Flirting Bible” for Attracting Women BL1 First off, I recommend “ripping off the band-aid”, so to speak. In other words, stringing a girl along with small talk and pleasantries isn’t going to get you anywhere. You’re just delaying the inevitable. Plus, most women who find you attractive will want you to flirt with them right away. Here’s how to do it. YTvid 5 Creepy Texting Strategies to Avoid #1: Don’t Overtext Play it cool! If she doesn’t respond right away, don’t let it bother you. Avoid sending her 2, 5, 10 text messages in a row — because it makes you seem like an obsessive lunatic and backfires 101% of the time. #2: Don’t Go Overboard Flirting and sexual innuendo are one thing. Texting her like she’s a “lady of the evening” is another. If you’re still in the flirty phase and haven’t engaged her physically yet, avoid making explicit sexual statements. Instead, be playful. Keep it light — while still expressing your interest in being more than just friends. #3: Don’t Force It If the conversation is like pulling teeth, don’t try to force flirtatiousness into the conversation. Poor timing with your flirting is cringe to the max. To get her to open up, start an easy conversation. Everyone loves talking about themselves, which is one of the best conversation hacks in the world. Ask her about herself. Her hobbies, interests, goals, etc. Ad #4: Check Your Grammar and Spelling Women find intelligence attractive. In one large-scale study done by Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences, they actually found that the most attractive women tend to marry intelligent men. As a result, you want to make sure you’re not coming across like a dope in your texts. With exceptions for common abbreviations like “lol” “wtf” and “lmao”, avoid using text shorthand. It’s 2020 and you’re probably using a smartphone with a super fast keyboard, so there’s no reason to cut corners and send texts like “c u l8r”. It just makes you seem childish and unintelligent. I do have some great friends who are terrible spellers even though they’re great guys who run businesses and have their sh*t together. If you’re one of these guys, I recommend installing a spelling and grammar checker on your phone like the Grammarly extension. #5: Avoid Closed-Ended Questions Hot women on the dating market are notoriously difficult to have a conversation with. Essentially they have such an abundance of options that they don’t settle for less than “Mr. Perfect”. Don’t make it harder on yourself by asking closed-ended questions (questions that can be answered with “Yes”, “No” or “Good”). BL2 Instead, ask open-ended questions that can spark a conversation. Before asking her a question, think to yourself if she could answer you with one word. [image: MMDDYYYY-2.jpg Custom URL: “link coming for VSL or presale”] 3 Types of Flirty Texts that Work Like a Charm #1: Teasing Teasing during flirting is as old as time. It brings back memories of the school yard and being mean to the girl you find attractive without really knowing why. There are tons of ways to playfully tease a woman. Just don’t overdo it. Give her a silly nickname (You’re a princess lol). Jokingly accuse her of hitting on you or having her mind in the gutter (Whoa young lady! Are you hitting on me?). Tell her you’re incompatible for a silly reason, like she hasn’t seen your favorite movie (You haven’t seen Die Hard?? That’s it, we can’t be friends). #2: Compliments Like all these other tips, compliments are great as long as you don’t go overboard. You want compliments to be hit three criteria: Genuine Something she can take credit for Rare Be genuine. Don’t compliment her if you don’t mean it, because it will come across as fake. Compliment something she can take credit for, like her style, hair, or job. And make them rare. You want compliments to be a precious commodity. If you’re complimenting her every three seconds it cheapens the effectiveness and makes you seem like a creep. #3: Be Unpredictable If there’s one thing that turns women off, it’s boredom. Avoid predictability by not falling into routines like asking her “How was your day?” every single day after work. BL3 We’ve all seen movies with the married couple sitting at the dinner table with nothing to talk about and bored out of their minds. And every single one of us sees this as a worst-case-scenario for relationships. Switch it up often between being sincere and kind, curious, flirty, and silly. Just change things up often enough so she gets a well-rounded idea of who you are and doesn’t think that you have the personality equivalent of a monotone. [image: MMDDYYYY-3.jpg Custom URL: “link coming for VSL or presale”] CTA Header CTA copy copy copy Share this…

This 3-Step “Kiss Close” Gets Her to Kiss You! (Video)
Click here to Discover 3 Shocking Under-The-Radar Touches That Turn Hot Girls On & Get Them to Kiss YOU First… I know a way to get a girl to kiss you at the end of every first date you go on. It’s simple, it’s easy, and it puts her in control, which women these days really love. And the best part is, it never fails. Seriously, this has never not worked for me. Hi, I’m David Dupree, and as part of my new series, I’m answering your most difficult, burning questions related to sex and dating. And today, I want to show you the truth about closing with a woman–what works, what doesn’t, and how to get her to lean in and kiss you (yes, not the other way around) every single time. Because honestly, if you follow the right steps… and get some practice under your belt… … then it’s a LOT easier than you may realize. So let’s get started! Catch The Full Video Transcript Below… David here, had a question from Adam. He says, “David I have a problem. I can’t close. I go on plenty of dates with girls, and it seems they’re interested in me, when I try to kiss them at the end of the night, they either turn their cheek or they go for the hug. So I’ve never been able to work up the courage to ask them back to my place. How can I get laid? What’s the best way to get a girl to come back to my place and sleep with me?” So closing is about escalating. Every guy who has trouble closing … well most of them anyway… they immediately escalate, they don’t go take the ramp. Then there are guys who have trouble closing, and it’s because they don’t get to the closing place, and you’re right, probably right not to. If you feel like, “I think she would have said no.” CONTROVERSIAL VIDEO: These Subtle Touch Tricks Get Her Soaking Wet, Naked & On Top of You In Bed (Even If You’re “Just Friends” Right Now)! You might be right, the truth is though, you’ll never know and how you find out is simple. First I’m going to give you three rules, and they are simple. 1) Reduce the point of escalation. 2) One step forward, two steps back. 3) Pay attention to her. So here’s how it works, including my 3-step kiss close that gets her to kiss you in the end. 1) Reduce the point of escalation Reduce the escalation point is the main point and everything flows from there. Closing is a big picture item. Of course, you want to close, you want to get her back to your place, but there’s a lot of steps that come in between that and they … some of them are touching, kissing, eye contact, getting closer, physically closer, having the conversation get sexual. All of those things, if you put them in an order, you’ll realize that some of them are more aggressive than others, some of them need more than other. In fact, when a woman says, “He’s moving too fast.” She means that you are escalating without calibrating. Generally when a woman feels a guy is creepy and especially if you say, when you go for the kiss, she turns away, that means you had no idea what was going to happen. The reason you had no idea what was going to happen is because you went for the kiss too soon. WARNING: These Shocking “Touch Tricks” Turn Hot Girls On & Make Them Want to Bang Your Brains Out (Don’t Use These Unless You Want Sex Right Away!)… You didn’t escalate, you didn’t climb that ramp, reduce the escalation points and you will go further. My guess is, if you go for the kiss and you get a hug, you have an advantage over a lot of the calibrating guys. In other words, your advantage is, you’d go for the kiss, at least you try, you close. Closing is required for getting better at closing. However, if you’re not getting the kiss, the simple method is, reduce what you’re trying to get. That doesn’t mean don’t go for the kiss, but before you go for the kiss, go for the smaller things. I’ll give you … in a second I’m going to give you my kiss close, but before I do, I want to give you that, the ramp up. 2) One Step Forward, Two Steps Back You’re talking to a person, she laughs, you reach in and touch. That moment, you are rewarding her good behavior, she’s showing, I like your behavior. Now you’re touching, touching is an escalation. Notice, however, my escalation will not be rejected, it will never be rejected if I’m escalating on that laughter. If I reach out and touch a woman and I haven’t built up my escalation, I haven’t felt it out well, I haven’t calibrated it well, maybe I have an 80% chance, maybe a 50% chance depending on the girl, depending on how I feel. Depending on the guy I am, that it’s going to go well or go badly. The truth is though, if I’ve ramped up, I may be more guaranteed, but the closest I can get is 80, 90% chance. If she just laughed at something I said and I reach out and touch her, I am 100% guaranteed she’s going to accept that, she’s not going to reject it. She may not want it, she may even hate the fact I did it and freak her out, but she’s not going to reject. She’s going to … I’ll know, I will know and this is the main part of pay attention, I will know if that went well because she will pull back or she’ll keep laughing and lean forward. She might reach out and touch me soon after. Those are signs that my escalation is moving forward. Every time it doesn’t move forward, what do you do? In other words, if I touch her and maybe she keeps laughing, but maybe the laugh slows down, she doesn’t laugh as much or her next activity is to sort of pull back, comfortably, nicely, but she pulls back. She keeps talking, she’s smiling, but I went further than she went. In other words, at this moment, she was leaning forward, I touched her while she was laughing. She kept laughing, but then she leaned back. That’s How You Know You Went Too Far… That leaning back tells me my touch was too far, too forward. I went too far. Next time, I’m not going to touch, that’s one step back. Next time I’m going to lean forward, I go back two steps and move forward to where she can lean forward again. This time, however, realize she knows when she leans forward you’re going to touching her because it did happen last time. That means if she leans forward this time, she’s much more comfortable with the possibility of that escalation. If you’re escalating like this, feeling it out. I’m going to give you two more things before I close this. One, I’m going to give you the big metaphor for escalating towards a close. TRENDING: If A Younger Woman Does This With Her Body It Means She Wants You Bad (Most Older Guys Totally Miss This!) You are feeling your way in the dark, that means that you are moving forward, that’s the escalation, but you are also feeling around, that is calibration. You can’t just stand there in the dark, feeling forward, feeling, feeling, feeling, feeling, feeling. That’s the calibrator, just feeling, feeling, feeling, feeling. If you’re feeling, feeling, feeling, you’re not going to kiss her. You have to do something to kiss her, you have to move forward. But you also can’t and that’s the escalator, just start walking forward. You’re going to crash into furniture, you’re going to crash through your glass coffee table, you’re going to walk into your walls, you’re going to fall off the balcony. You want to feel your way and move forward, that’s calibration and escalation simultaneously. If You Follow These Steps Then You Will Absolutely Get The Kiss… That’s the big picture, here’s what the kiss close, what my kiss close looks like and it almost … it never fails. If you do it this way, it never fails. That moment when it kind of feels like the kiss might be ready, I do not reach in for the kiss. If I feel like the kiss is ready, I just take it. Women always prefer if you just go for it. However, the only times I ever fail at a kiss close is because I just went for it instead of using this calibration technique that always works. What I do is, the moment I think I could go for it, I say … I don’t just go for it, instead I look for something to escalate on. The way you remember to escalate on something, not to just go for the kiss is because the first phrase you say right before you do it is, “I like when you did that.” Now if you just said that, you’d have to attach it to something, right. So she needs to do something for you to escalate on. “I liked when you did that, for a second there I thought you were about to kiss me.” Now what you are saying is, this kiss is her escalation, not your escalation. What you’re doing is saying she’s the one escalating on you. That means even if it is rejected and it’s never rejected, even if it’s rejected, you didn’t get rejected. You just misunderstood her escalation. Here’s what it looks like, “I like when you did that.” Let’s say for example she steps forward. I can think of three times I did it. One, she just stepped forward, another one, she’s talking to me and she paused for a second. That’s all she did, she’s talking and I just felt like, this is the time, it’s now or never, she’s about to leave. So she was eating something. And in fact she kept putting things in her mouth. And every time she put it in her mouth, I didn’t want to say it because I wanted to try to kiss her. So this one moment, she didn’t have it in her mouth. And she said something kind of weird and looked at me and I said, “I liked the way you said that.” “What?” “For a second there I thought you were about to kiss me.” What she’ll do if it’s yes, the only thing that’s no is if she says, “What? No.” That’s what she’ll say if she doesn’t want to kiss you. Anything else, you keep moving, that’s a kiss. “I like when you did that, for a second there I thought you were about to kiss me.” What she’ll do is … and you don’t say, “For a second there I thought you were about to kiss me.” BRAND-NEW: The Fastest Way to Give Any Girl Multiple EXPLOSIVE Orgasms… And Here’s Why She’ll Escalate On You Every Single Time… It’s not an escalation on your part, she’s the one escalating. So you do it like it’s just information, “I like when you did that, for a second there I thought you were about to kiss me.” She says … That’s what she does, she kind of just defocuses her eyes because what she’s doing is imagining the kiss. She’s trying to think back to what made you think that. She’s thinking did she make it obvious or maybe she’s thinking, “That’s weird, I didn’t want to kiss him” but she’s curious. So the moment she pauses, she’s going to do like this … that’s not true, there are sometimes when they’ve gone, “Yeah.” And then she leans in or, “Okay.” She leans in. But what they’ll generally do is kind of defocus and what you say … what I say now is, “Go ahead.” I give it completely to her. “Go ahead.” And you know what? They always do, “Go ahead.” Now there’s one time actually when I said, “Go ahead.” I also pulled her. Because she … while I said it, I screwed the timing up and she was leaning back at the same it came out my mouth, so I kind of screwed it up. So I just grabbed and pulled her while I was saying it. Again, three parts, “I like when you did that, for a second there I thought you were about to kiss me.” She kind of … “Go ahead.” And she will kiss you and I’ll tell you what else, she will love, they always like that kiss close. Don’t ask me why. I think it’s because it has dominance in it, but it also has … it’s considerate. OK, so now that you know how to kiss her, unless you really just like hanging out with women, you’re going to want a way to go from the kiss to having sex with her… and today’s value bomb is an easy way to do just that: The Fastest Way To Go From Kissing To Sex… Once I learned the 3 step kiss close that I mentioned above, getting a kiss no longer became a problem. Instead a new problem arose… It was how to go from a kiss, to getting her in the bedroom. And this is a problem that A LOT of guys write in to me about. But no need to worry… Because once you get the kiss there’s an easy way to go from kissing to foreplay… But not just any kind of foreplay. I’m talking about the hot steamy kind, where her panties are dripping wet, she’s moaning in your ear, and playing with your junk over your pants. The kind that not only leads to sex, but the kind of steamy passionate sex, that’ll have her ripping your clothes off while she begs you to get inside her: Here’s a video with a hot girl showing you how to do it… Share this…

She Likes Me And Another Guy, What Should I Do?
Invite him out for a beer. Talk about your feelings. Realize that neither of you will give in. Then fight to the death! Fine, fine, while this is probably the plot of a South Korean horror film, it won’t really work out IRL. It sucks that you’re not going toe to toe with another dude, but in reality, this was happening all along. Just because you have the hots for someone, are dating them, or are even married to them, feelings and labels don’t prevent someone from having feelings for more than one person. Your romantic relationship can change at any time regardless of how close you are to the woman in question. That being said, the fear that she might ditch you is stronger than ever. She likes you, but she likes another guy too. The thought of losing her can make you do some pretty stupid things. Reminding yourself that “she likes me and another guy” every day can cause you to hit her up on a daily basis and smother her with well-meaning affection. This may sound like a good plan, but it’ll backfire. Instead, let’s build an alternative plan, one that will actually work. She Likes Me and Another Guy, What Should I Do? Spell It Out You’re in a bit of a quagmire. You don’t want to be a friend, but you also don’t want to lose her. You don’t want her dating around, but you also don’t want her to stop dating you. Look even if you play this perfectly right, you still might not wind up in your ideal situation. But here’s the reality. You don’t like your current situation. You can either do nothing and hope that the universe looks upon you with pity and convinces her to dump the other dude she’s been seeing, or you can make your own luck. Here’s your move. Lay it all on the line. I mean maybe don’t tell her that you fantasize about her every waking moment or that you made her a 1,000 song playlist especially for her. What you should do is tell her how you feel. She doesn’t know what she wants, fine. But her indecisiveness doesn’t have to impact yours. To better help her make a decision tell her where your head — or heart — is at. Give her specifics. Tell her that you want to date her exclusively, you want her to be your girlfriend, or that you’re fine for an open relationship. Whatever the case may be, spell it out for her. Showing that you’re unequivocally into her will help her make a decision. Not only is it super hot for a dude to straight-up tell a woman that he’s got the feels for her, but your input will put some questions she had to bed. Perhaps she was thinking about ditching you because she thought you weren’t that into her. Never assume that she has a lucid understanding of your feelings. Clearly explaining your position can only serve to provide her with clarity and help her make a decision. Understand Where Her Head’s At So if you’re scratching your head thinking to yourself “She likes me and another guy” you might want to go through the following exercise. How did you learn that? Surely you two must have had a conversation of some sort. Learning that she’s dating someone else isn’t a trivial topic that you just gloss over. What else did you two talk about? If this initial conversation didn’t spill too many beans, artfully bring it up again. She’ll know that it’s bugging you if you broach the topic out of nowhere. Organically work it into the conversation. Ask her if she’s free this Friday, then joke saying, “that is, if the other man hasn’t asked you out already.” Joking around indicates that you’re handling this like an adult and that you’re mature enough to have a conversation about this “other man.” Once you’ve set the scene and have ensured her that you won’t throw a public tantrum, ask her where her head’s at. Perhaps she’ll outright tell you that she’s dating multiple guys and isn’t interested in settling down just yet. If you’re MegaDating you can’t be mad at her because you’re doing the same exact thing. Perhaps she’s not into monogamous relationships or is only dating around because she’s thinking of leaving the city soon — something you would not have known had you not asked. Whatever the case may be, there’s no need in freaking out until you understand the specifics. Take A Step Back After learning where her head’s at you can create a tailor-made response when you let her know where your head’s at. You can address her points in detail because you’ve thought about them in-depth. After this emotionally draining conversation has been had you can do one of two things. You can continue to obsess over her or you can step back. It’s this latter option that will win you the brownie points. After you’ve told her how you feel, back off a bit. Give yourself a few weeks or a month until you reach out to her. Consider telling her this so she doesn’t feel like you suddenly don’t care for her anymore — that might kinda lead things to backfire. Stepping back gives her the time she needs to sort things out. But more importantly, it makes you look like a G. This mic drop move will have her missing you hardcore. Look just because she’s dating multiple dudes doesn’t mean she’s not super into you. She no doubt wants to spend time with you. Not having you in her life for a period of time will show her how much she misses you when you’re not there. It also raises your perceived value. By showing restraint it indicates that you have a life of your own. You don’t need her to be happy. Feel free to post some pics on SM to demonstrate how awesome your life is regardless of her presence. It may sound callow, but she’ll see these posts and think to herself, “damn, Jeff’s life is awesome, I want some of that awesomeness too.” Don’t believe me? Just log into IG right now and scroll through literally any random person’s IG. Soon enough you’ll be hella jealous of Tuesday bowling… and you don’t even like bowling. That’s just what IG does to people. In The Meantime Hanging back and playing it cool doesn’t just mean finishing the last season of the Marvelous Mrs. Maisel and daydreaming about working out. It means filling up your social calendar. It means enjoying your life. Honestly, what is also means… is dating. But wait, how could you date when you just told her you were gonna step back? It’s called MegaDating. MegaDating is simply the act of dating prolifically. It’s a great strategy for when you’re struggling with the fact that “she likes me and another guy.” I urge all my aspiring romantics to date around. Dating various women provides you with the emotional armor you need to get rejected and get back up again. It’s difficult to be down when you’ve got dates lined up on Wednesday and Saturday with two awesome different women. Dating prolifically also will open your eyes up to what you really want in a woman. If you only date one woman, if she leaves you, you’ll feel like your soulmate — and only woman in the world that wanted to date you — is gone. MD will show you exactly what kind of woman you want and that you’re able to not only find her but woo her. So many dudes find themselves stuck in lame relationships because they think they can’t do any better. Dating various women proves yourself wrong. Let me show you how it’s done. The 1s and 2s of Dating Like A Boss The only way you’ll go on various dates this month is if you put in the work to make it happen. That means using the MD strategy for mining dates. It involves downloading 5 dating apps, meeting women at parties, your gym, talking it up at PTA meetings, hitting Meetups, being set up through friends, etc. Once I walk you through the exact science of mining for dates you’ll never be without a date on Friday night again. If you don’t have ample time to mine for dates, no worries. Let me know and we’ll play the role of matchmaker for you. Unlike other matchmakers, we don’t use a limited dating pool to set our clients up with. Instead, we use a team of love e-recruiters to comb through eligible women in your city in order to find single women worth your time. After you have a lineup of women to go out with, it’s time to begin dating. But considering you have at least a date a week for the foreseeable future you don’t want to burn a hole through your wallet or tire yourself out too early on. In our MegaDating blueprint, we encourage all first dates to last no more than one hour. No more than an hour and no more than $10 should be spent on a first date. This ensures that you won’t go broke nor will you feel too tired going on multiple dates a week. The truncated first date also means that if you don’t like the person walking by your side as you take in the scenes of the Presidio you only need to spend an hour with them before you can bail. First dates are nothing more than opportunities to meet up with complete strangers to see if there’s any chemistry. If there’s no juice, quit squeezing and move on to the next one. Consider Changing The Dynamic Look, let’s say she comes back to you after taking some time away from here and says the following. “Hey, thanks for giving me time to think about things but I still want to date around, I hope that’s cool and that we can still see each other.” Perhaps you know that you two don’t have an identical vision of your shared future. Maybe knowing that your visions don’t align you can’t bring yourself to date her in the same way you did before. Doing so would be like trying to scoop water out of a boat that has a hole in it; inevitably it’s going to sink. Maybe she’ll never be your girlfriend, but that doesn’t mean you have to cut ties. If you have the mental fortitude that only MegaDating will give you, you can ask her to become a friend with benefits. Explain to her that you can’t keep seeing her as is or else you’re afraid you may fall for her. That being said, the sex was great, and you feel like you have the ability to not mix emotional feelings with sex. Tell her you’ll give her a little while to think about it but that you’d still love to see her again, just not in the same capacity of old. She Likes Me And Another Guy She likes you. But the affection of one woman whose affection is split between multiple men is rarely how a relationship begins. I’m here to help. When we team up together you’ll learn that you don’t need to wait around for one woman to make up her mind. There are a ton of women waiting in the ranks. Book a 1-on-1 new client Zoom session today and I’ll show you how to find them, ask them out, and woo them.

Why Am I Not Getting Matches Anymore? (On Dating Apps)
Have you been wondering, “Why am I not getting matches anymore?” when it comes to Tinder and other dating apps. If you’ve hit a dry spell in your online dating ventures, it can be disheartening. It’s one thing to go on a mediocre date or have things fizzle out early in a relationship. But when you find yourself unable to even go on actual dates because of a lack of matches, it can make you want to throw in the towel. But before you delete all your apps and bid the tricky world of online dating adieu, listen up. Online Dating Doesn’t Have to Suck Online dating doesn’t need to be frustrating. It doesn’t have to be a chore and — if your number of matches has gone from slim to zilch — there are several strategies you can use to rebuild some traction. During my 100-date experiment, I studied thousands of male online dating profiles. Yes, thousands. Yes, really. Along with the many other facets that came with that experiment, this analysis helped me understand exactly what men need to do in order to attract women and make them swipe right on a variety dating sites and apps. So today, as a professional dating coach and matchmaker, one question I frequently receive from clients is, “Why am I not getting matches anymore?” In this article, I’m going to share some expert insights with you to help you succeed in the world of online dating. Why is Online Dating a Great Way to Meet Someone? Before smartphones and Tinder, online dating was considered a taboo subject. If you actually did connect with someone and start a relationship, the two of you were liable to scramble for an alternate (i.e., made up) story to tell at parties and with close friends as to how you met. But nowadays online dating is extremely mainstream and people won’t bat an eye when telling you that they met online. This is great news for introverts and shy guys, as well as people who are just generally unsure of how to navigate the world of dating. If you’re not a super outgoing guy who regularly approaches women in bars, dating apps could be your most important asset. Otherwise, how do you plan to meet someone? There’s really only three options – meeting on a dating app, in person, or through a matchmaker. Seriously, Though, Why Am I Not Getting Matches Anymore? You’re Not Sending Enough Messages If you’re utilizing effective strategies and swiping up a storm each day, you should be matching with enough people that you can send at least 10 messages a day. When you’re not receiving enough matches to send at least 10 messages a day on dating apps, the problem lies in your photos. In this day and age, where a left swipe closes the door to any potential connection, you have to take a photo that wins a right swipe. Because you are not interacting with these women in real life, your photo is the most important part of making a first impression. And you have to make that impression instantaneous. What I mean is, each and every photo needs to be a winner. If she swipes left on you, you’ll never have the opportunity to impress her with your clever personality or interesting date ideas because she’ll never see your profile again. Your Photos Aren’t A+ When you’re struggling with getting dating app matches, it may be because your photos aren’t competitive. Other guys are doing a better job and they are inadvertently wooing away all the women you’re interested in. So why is it critical to have great photos? Photos are your barrier of entry to connecting and competing on dating apps. You get two seconds for her to decide whether she swipes right and if your photo isn’t a great representation of the best version of you, then she won’t swipe right and you’ll never have the chance to connect with her. You Just Don’t Have the Time? Maybe the dating world has been a hard road to hoe because you simply don’t have a lot of time in your schedule. Perhaps you’re a single parent and/or you work a lot. In these cases, it’s even more important to take great photos and master online dating and dating apps because it’s the only scalable way to connect with singles. I typically recommend that clients attend at least one social activity per week when they want to meet women online as well as out and about in the real world. But if your calendar is overloaded, dating apps are practically your only option outside of hiring a matchmaking service (like ours) to help you find compatible matches. For this reason, it’s critical that you make it your mission to post awesome photos ASAP! How to Know if Your Photos Are the Problem If you think the answer to your question, “Why am I not getting matches anymore?” may lie in your photos, but you’re not totally sure, you can test them on Photofeeler. Photofeeler is a photo testing tool that assesses the appeal of your photos. This helps you select the most attractive images, whether you want to use those images for social media, business or dating. When you test photos through Photofeeler, aim for 80% and above, especially in the attractiveness category. Don’t use photos that are below 80%, even if it’s just by a hair. You should also test photos you wouldn’t think to use. Have you ever recoiled at a photo of yourself and asked to not be tagged in that photo, only to be greeted with an influx of responses that include things like: “Aww, but I LOVE that photo of you!” “What are you talking about? You look so good!”“Whyyyyyyy???” We don’t see ourselves the way that other people see us. That’s why, often, the photos we hate the most are the ones that people like best. When you use Photofeeler, make sure to collect at least 25 votes to guarantee a statistically significant sample size. Review the notes section and see what feedback people have left for you. Use that feedback to find better photos. Don’t Have Recent Photos? If the photos that you have posted on your online dating apps were taken back in the days before Instagram filters or even camera phones, you need to update your photos. Women can tell if a photo is super out of date when they compare them to your age. It’s not enough to say, “I just don’t take good photos.” If you want to compete on dating apps in this day and age (especially if you feel these apps aren’t working for you any longer), you have to take great photos. You can enlist friends to help you with this or — if your income allows it — hire a professional dating photographer. Yes, they actually exist! Professional photographers are trained to make you represent the best version of yourself via photos. Be Strategic with Your Photos In my article, Top 5 Online Dating Photo Tips for Men Who Want More Matches, I go into detail about what makes a winning photo and what types of photos you should avoid at all costs. When it comes to apps, you are usually allowed to post at least five photos. You can be strategic when it comes to the type and order of the photos by doing the following: Make your first photo a headshot. You don’t want her to experience any confusion about who you are, so don’t make her play a game of Where’s Waldo right off the bat by posting a group shot. Show her what your mama (or papa?) gave you by making your second photo a full body shot. Wear a flattering outfit, stand up straight and don’t fold your arms. The third photo can be a group shot of you and friends or family. The fourth photo can be a hobby shot. It’s important to include your unique passions in your photos as well as your bio because this will attract women who share interests with you. And if you’ve been reading some of my articles, you know that finding shared interests is one of the best ways to build trust and rapport during the early stages of a relationship. The fifth photo should be of you and an adorable animal because cute animals make everything better. If You Need More Help.. emlovz was founded because of the specific issue of men either not getting enough matches on dating apps, or not getting the quality matches they’re looking for. Turn your fortunes around by heading over to my calendar and booking a new client 1-on-1 Zoom session with me or one of my colleagues today. During your session we’ll discuss your goals, create a short strategy, and see if our coaching and/or matchmaking services are right for you!

7 Surefire Strategies to Attract Hot Girls, Gain Confidence & Get Laid During Quarantine
Discover the best tips for dating during covid… Dating During Covid Just Got a Whole Lot Easier… Click Here to Discover 7 Secret “Sex Signs” She’s H*rny & DTF (That Most Men Miss)… Today I’m going to break down a step-by-step guide you can use to attract women, develop better confidence and make the most out of quarantine so you can reap the rewards when it’s over. “How am I supposed to get a girlfriend in this, David?” “Bars are closed.” “Bookstores are closed.” “I even have to stay 6 ft. away from women in the street!” OK. I know things are far from normal right now. TRENDING: If A Younger Woman Does This With Her Body It Means She Wants You Bad (Most Older Guys Totally Miss This!) This is definitely not the easiest time to get a physical connection, so what can you do? Today, I’m going to tell you what you can do right now in terms of dating during covid, and also, what you should do to get yourself ready for when this ends. Let’s dive right in. <span data-mce-type=”bookmark” style=”display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;” class=”mce_SELRES_start”></span> <span data-mce-type=”bookmark” style=”display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;” class=”mce_SELRES_start”></span> 3 Proven Ways to Escalate With Hot Girls Online… First off, now is the perfect time to practice your skill in chat windows and text messages. Make this lockdown and dating during covid can actually work to your benefit. Keeping a conversation interesting in chat is almost the same as keeping it interesting in person, except you have important extra time to come up with your responses. Why is extra time such a good thing? Well, in person, it’s pretty obvious when you’re thinking of a reply. In a chat window, I can’t tell if you’ve been away from the window for a little while and you’re now coming back, or if you are really responding right now to my comment. Also, you can cut and paste in chat windows and have more than one conversation at a time. You can look things up and get ideas and verification and ask for help, all while continuing a keyboard conversation. Also you can give her space when she requests it. [adning id=”10065″] 4 Signs She Might Be Stringing You Along (Or Worse, “Catfishing” You)… Wait, she never told me she wants space. How can I tell that’s what she is asking for? Here are some pretty big indicators that she’s either not interested, truly doesn’t have the time right now, or even that she isn’t who she says she is: TRENDING: If A Hot Girl Does This With Her Body It Means She Wants You Bad (Most Older Guys Totally Miss This!) 1) She doesn’t START conversations. I’m talking about phrases like: “How are you?” “Hey you…” “Hey, what’s up?” “How was lunch… ” etc. If you’re always the one to start a conversation, take a break. When she’s had enough time to miss you, she’ll start texting. 2) She doesn’t respond right away. This is the WORST. When you send a message and don’t get a reply right away, do you follow up with another reply? Maybe you guess (i.e. ass-u-me) why she’s not responding and then explain. “Hey… I guess you’re still in the bath.” Or you make an excuse for her: “OK, that was a bit random. Don’t worry about it.” I’d recommend avoiding all of these approaches, and just give her SPACE. Let her have the room to respond. [adning id=”11082″] 3) Her responses are shorter than usual. Or… 4) Her responses are shorter than yours. Be aware of the natural conversation dynamics. Does she usually send paragraphs, but now she’s sending sentences? Or (more common), if she usually sends sentences, and now she’s sending one word replies—something is probably up.What do you do? Ask what’s wrong? Nope. That’s not the way to deal with women, dude. If you ask what’s wrong, she’ll come up with something. Just give her space. Keep all that in mind, and you’ll be the only guy she wants to talk to while she’s stuck at home. [adning id=”11083″] Is Now the Right Time to Meet Women Online? Did you notice that earlier I said, “practice your online skills,” and not “meet girls online”? Maybe it’s my own bias for face-to-face interactions that makes me say this, but I don’t recommend you start relationships online–ESPECIALLY during this quarantine. To start with, the conversation online is often misleading. You might think you’ve taken your relationship farther than you have. When this is all over, you can end up spending money or travelling, just to find out she’s not ready, and you get nothing out of it. On the other side, SHE can expect a relationship you haven’t promised, because of her own take on the conversation. When you do meet her, she can be clingy before you even know if you like her. SPECIAL: Do You Know About This “Secret Elixir” That Makes Girls Chase You? This can happen however you meet women, but especially online. And now, with this crazy dating during Covid situation, you will have MORE opportunities than ever to talk to women before you can meet. That means MORE fantasies on BOTH sides, because people right now have less actual contact and more need for human interaction. That means expecting—or promising—a complete relationship with a pen pal is more likely. While that may work out for some people, for most it will lead to BIG disappointment. [adning id=”11084″] How To Use This Time to Become the Best You… for the Post-Pandemic Orgy That’s Coming! “But David, didn’t you also say you know something important I should work on, while we’re in lockdown?” Here’s my answer: Now is the best ever time to focus on you. Instead of using this non-social time to find women, use it to become Girlfriend-Getting material. None of us is at our very best, and most of us could really use improvement. Non-physical improvement. Sure, you can work on physical improvements, too. Do some sit-ups. But also work on you. For guys, getting better at any of your favorite skills (work, hobby or social) develops confidence and self-reliance. Those things make you more attractive. (Increase your attraction with these simple tips. Perfect to break out of the friends zone.) Developing your emotional strengths increases your self-love and self-acceptance. Do you remember what the most attractive trait is, in a man? That’s right, self-acceptance. My favorite way to work on emotional strength is through affirmations, goal-setting and reading influential work. I get inspired by reading biographies of great men. Winston Churchill, Martin Luther King, Alexander the Great, Napoleon, Steve Jobs, Carl Icahn, Lee Iacocca, and Jack Welsh are examples of men whose biographies I think you will find inspirational. I also love the self-help, motivational and inspirational books by authors like Napoleon Hill, Norman Vincent Peale, Orison Swett Marden, Tim Ferriss, Charles Duhigg, Jen Sincero, and my schoolmate James Altucher. Fiction can be just as motivating. My personal favorite inspiring novels are The Book of the Courtier by Baldessare Castiglione and Paolo Coelho’s The Alchemist. And finally, here’s a more tangible way to escalate with hot women online if you do connect witha woman and want to take things further: Keep scrolling for proven messages to help dating during covid 5 “Copy-And-Paste” Messages That Make Hot Girls Online Horny & Eager to Hookup With You Right Away… When I mentioned copying and pasting multiple conversations to different women at the same time… you might have been thinking something like: “That sounds great… but what exactly can I copy and paste?” Good question… I’m referring to these 5 short, yet clever “copy-and-paste” messages← Because there are TONS of lines you can find online for dating sites and apps… and 99% of them just don’t work. As a matter of fact, the majority of those lines are untested… and often get rejected quickly as a result… (even if the girl was uber interested in you before). But these messages are different. They’re unique, and few guys know them… though they have been thoroughly tested… both by myself and the guys I personally coach… And they work REALLY well to get a girl to: Hell… you might even be surprised by how often these messages will allow you to find a girl who’s into you… horny… and eager to show up to your place with a bottle of wine, in knee-high boots, a trench coat… And nothing but skimpy lace black lingerie underneath: Click Here Right Now & Discover The 5 “Copy-And-Paste” Lines That’ll Land You A Hot Girl Online Right Away. P.S. I think my favorite of the bunch is this “innocent” question, which can get a hot girl to turn things sexual like it’s her idea… what do you think? Share this…

How to Deal with a Breakup: 7 Steps to Help You Heal
If you’re wondering how to deal with a breakup, firstly, I want you to know you are not alone. Most of us have been there at some point in our lives. A Northwestern study found that breakups cloud our sense of self, and the more serious the relationship was, the bigger your identity crises may be. If that rings true for you, know that it’s normal. Sometimes we try and convince ourselves it’s not a big deal and was only a breakup. But because falling in love can be a scientifically addictive process, breaking up can be more serious than you first think. “Emotionally, it can be quite a big deal, and [breakups] can be a risk factor for depression, which is no clinical condition to take lightly. There is a real analogy of the, quote, broken heart. There are some physiological rationales behind that thinking. [Breakups] can jeopardize one’s health.”—Brian Boutwel, an evolutionary psychologist at St. Louis University. Yes, it sucks, but the good news is you will be okay. You will heal. And this list is going to help you. What’s important is you don’t stay stuck in the past or blame yourself for mistakes you’ve made. That means no playing the “if only….” game. If only I’d dyed my hair blonde, or gone to the gym more, or watched more Bourne movies with him. Don’t do this to yourself. Chances are he wasn’t perfect either. Today is the day to move forward. Forget trying to win your ex back, focus on winning yourself back. You are the most important person in your life. Here’s how to deal with a break up in 7 steps. 1. Give yourself permission to feel & reflect Before you do anything, it’s vital you give yourself permission to feel all your feelings. There are no right or wrong emotions. Here are just some of the ones you may be cycling through: Acceptance (especially immediately after the break up occurs) Relief Shock Denial Grief Rejection Pain Betrayal Fear Embarrassment Sadness “Grief does shape us in big ways,” says Lodro Rinzler, author of Love Hurts: Buddhist Advice for the Heartbroken. These emotions are all part of the grieving process, and in order to heal, you have to go through this. Give yourself some alone time to mope around, to feel, and to cry. Remember, don’t feel guilty for the way you feel. Stop thinking you should be over this by now, regardless of how long ago the break up was. Why do you think you should? Breaking up with someone you love is a major loss, so it would be strange if you didn’t feel that in your heart. Your feelings are always justified, and there is never a “right way” to heal from a break up. Listen to sad music You might reach for something to cheer yourself up, like a happy playlist of music. But did you know that listening to sad music can help normalize the grief you’re experiencing, and help you feel less alone? Yes! According to a 2016 study, listening to sad music can be a source of comfort for some people. If you already know that mellow, tear-jerkers soothe your soul, then make yourself a break up playlist. See a therapist If you’re really struggling and want someone to talk to, consider seeing a therapist. Talking to your friends and family is one thing, but having an unbiased, outside perspective can offer new insight. A therapist will never judge you. They’ll help you sort through your feelings, and figure out how you can move forward. If you’re feeling a lot of anger towards your ex, this can really help diffuse it. Reflect Research has also found that people who do a deep reflection on their past relationship have a stronger overall recovery. You can’t change the past, but you can learn and grow from it. So consider what the lessons are for you. What mistakes did you make? What were the positive aspects of the relationship? And what can you take with you from this experience that will make your next relationship stronger? Journaling can be a powerful tool to help you do this. Writing is a great way to feel our emotions, make sense of them, and release them. Turn your feelings into a structured story, so you can begin to make sense of them. “‘Emotional expression’ and ‘account making’ (that is, coming up with an explanation for a traumatic event) are the two main psychological processes crucial for coping with a breakup—and this type of writing helps with both.”—Medical News Today. 2. Cut all contact with them One of the most crucial steps in dealing with a break-up is to cut all contact with your ex initially. Maybe you want to be friends with him, and in the future, you can be. But definitely not right now. The best move for you right now is to delete his number from your phone and block them on all your social media accounts. This will stop you from sending that text when you’re drunk at 3AM and missing them like hell. The text you know you’ll wish you could take back the next morning when you’re sober and thinking clearly. So do your risk management ladies. Not seeing what your ex is up to can be really difficult at first, especially since you’re so used to being a big part of their life. Maybe you still care about their health and happiness and success, and you want to see them reach their dreams. It’s a bit of a shock realizing you don’t get to be a part of that anymore. This disconnection can be tough, but it’s better this way in the long run. No Contact Rule: 9 HUGE Benefits of Going Silent After a Breakup Stay out of their way Try and stay out of their way as much as possible. This is challenging if you both live in the same, small town. But if you know he’s going to a party, I’d recommend skipping it. And if you know he likes hanging out at a particular bar or club, steer clear of it for a while. Seeing him flirting with other women, and moving on with his life will only make you feel worse. Yes, you both need to move on, but neither of you want that shoved in your face. Don’t have break up sex! Regardless of how lonely or tempted you are, do not under any circumstance have break up sex. When women have sex, oxytocin is released in their bodies, which is also known as the “cuddle hormone.” This makes you feel more attached to your partner, lowers your defenses, and puts you at risk of falling back in love again. Save yourself the heartache and be strong. Don’t trash talk your ex One final thing: avoid trash talking your ex to your friends and family. This might feel therapeutic to begin with, especially as your squad is likely to back you to the end. But it will only make you feel crappy. You’re better than this. 3. How to deal with a breakup: Detox Now that you’ve cut all contact with your ex, it’s time to detox. The first step here is to deal with any baggage from the relationship, physically and emotionally. When we don’t do this, we tend to cart our issues around with us and bring that into our future relationships. Essentially, we set ourselves up for failure, and this can easily be avoided. Were there a lot of arguments in the relationship? If so, what was the root cause of them? Can you see any patterns there? Who was the one picking the fight, and what usually led to the explosion? It’s vital you take time here to reflect and recharge. Make peace with the past so that you can move forward. Make sure you’re not doing anything to sabotage your healing right now. That includes heavy drinking, taking drugs, or excessive eating. Clear out bad memories Transform your home into your own personal love detox center. Throw out anything you’ve accumulated from the relationship. That includes that shoebox in the back of your closet—you know the one I’m talking about. Get rid of the bad memories and reminders of what you’ve lost, because this is how we create space for new memories. Rearrange the furniture in your house, and breathe fresh energy into your space. Take some inspiration from the ancient Chinese practice of feng shui to get good energy flowing again in your life. Maybe take this time to have a massive clear out, and get rid of anything you no longer feel aligned with. Redecorate if you feel called to. Blast an empowering playlist out while you do this, and give yourself permission to choreograph a matching dance routine. Because, why the hell not? This is the end of an old chapter in your life, and the beginning of a beautiful new one. Embrace it. 4. Take care of yourself Figuring out how to deal with a break up is really about learning how to take care of yourself during this emotional period of adjustment. Even when you feel like sleeping in and hiding out from the world with a selection box, dig deep to find the motivation to get up and take care of yourself. You need self-care now more than ever. That means checking off the basics. Get up at a reasonable hour, shower, get dressed into clothes that make you feel good, do your hair and makeup. Do whatever you need to do to feel put together. “Prioritizing your hygiene and taking pride in how you look can often make you feel better inside.”—Kristie Norwood, licensed clinical psychologist. Eat well Try and eat a balanced diet. Don’t diet or binge as a way to comfort or punish yourself. You don’t need cruelty right now, you need more kindness and compassion. Opt for nourishing foods that make you feel good, and energize you. Stick to a plant-based diet as much as possible, and try out a vitamin supplement if you want an extra boost. But don’t worry about indulging in some pizza or ice cream now and then. Listen to your body, and trust it. Move your body Keep your body moving, but don’t over-exert yourself either. Exercise releases endorphins, which can lower your stress levels, improve cognitive functioning, and boost your mood. Plus, it’ll be a welcome distraction from your thoughts and worries right now. Focus on moving your body in ways that feel good to you. A power class like kickboxing might help build your confidence back up, and help you feel physically and mentally stronger. Practice self-care Try and practice self-care every day. It can take as little or as long as you like. Here are some ideas: Enjoy a relaxing bath Practice positive self-talk Meditate Play Let go of a toxic habit Unplug Get a massage Journal Tidy your house Organize something Have coffee with a friend Watch an inspiring movie Treat yourself to a new sex toy Getting enough good sleep is important right now for your health and happiness. Try and establish a good sleep routine if you don’t already have one. It’s little things like this that will help you feel like you’ve got your shit together. 5. Focus on something else When you’re in a relationship for a long time, it’s easy to lose a sense of who you are without your partner. Now is the perfect time to reclaim yourself. What hobbies have you always enjoyed? What’s something you haven’t done in a while but would like to? Think about the parts of yourself you may have pushed aside or let slip over the past few months or years. Create space to do things you love. And even if you don’t feel like it, push yourself to get out there and do them. This is how to start enjoying yourself and your life again. Go to a club with your friends, go to a local class or join a club, meet new people, head to a comedy club or an art gallery. Focus on saying yes to invitations and opportunities, even if you want to stay home alone with your thoughts. Take back control of your life Break-ups have a way of making you feel like your life is out of control. There’s no better way to combat this than by focusing on another area of your life and kicking ass in it. That might be your career, your friendships, your hobbies, or your side hustle. This will help you feel more confident and build your self-worth back up. Another brilliant way to deal with a break up is to plan something fun to look forward to. Maybe a gig, a music festival, dinner at a fancy restaurant, or even a vacation with your girlfriends. This is how we help ourselves move forward and heal. Remember, every loss we experience always has a purpose. Perhaps it will help you explore and re-discover yourself on a deeper level than you ever have before. 6. Reconnect with friends Wondering how to deal with a breakup? Go home. Return to that place where you are loved and supported by people you know and trust. “Home is the place where when you go there, they have to take you in.”—Robert Frost. Chances are, you have someone you can go to who makes you feel like you’re home. Whether it’s your sister, your best friends, or your mum. Maybe you’re blessed enough to have many homes you can go to. There’s no place that feels safer than home does. But be mindful about who you’re choosing to spend time with. What you need now is the energy of positive, uplifting people. Not Debbie downers. Seek out the people who look on the bright side, can make you laugh a lot, and make everything that’s heavy feel lighter. Date your girlfriends Now that you’re single, why not date your girlfriends? Plan brunch dates, spa sessions, nights out, weekends away. Pour your time and energy back into the relationships you may have let slide a little while you were in a relationship. Even if you don’t feel like having company or being social right now, avoid the desire to isolate yourself. Experts have found that staying social decreases depression and helps you live longer. There are also numerous studies that have found social support in the wake of adversity or trauma leads to better mental and physical health. So don’t be afraid to lean on your people right now. Stay connected. Share how you’re feeling. Allow the people who love you to walk through this by your side. 7. Start dating again (when you’re ready) When it comes to how to deal with a breakup, the best thing is to avoid dating again until you feel ready. Great advice Adam, but how do you know when you’re ready? Great question! You’re ready to date again when your previous relationship no longer feels heavy to you. “You have more mental space to think of other things outside of this one person. [You can] create new memories, develop new hobbies, and focus on yourself. This is when you can begin to know you are healed and can begin dating again in a healthy way.”—Dr. Tricia Wolanin, Psy.D., a clinical psychologist. Don’t date to make yourself feel better That means avoid hopping on dating apps when you get an urge to unless you’re actually ready. Some people say the best way to get over someone is to move on to someone else. But generally, this is bad advice and does not work! Perhaps in the moment when you’re hooking up, you may not be thinking about your ex. But eventually, you will be. This will only leave you feeling worse than you did before. Plus, it’s not fair on the other person. They deserve more, and so do you. You need to take this time to restore your trust and faith in relationships and open yourself to being vulnerable with someone again. And the best way to do that is to preserve your energy and take care of yourself. So when you’re ready to date again, you’ll feel good about yourself, you’ll know what you want, and you’ll recognize it when you see it. When you are ready to start dating again, be sure to take things slow. There’s no rush. Be gentle and patient with yourself. You’ve just come out of a long-term relationship, and that’s a big life event. And that is how to deal with a break up I’m not gonna lie to you. Breakups can be really tough, regardless of who broke up with who. But follow these 7 steps and you’ll be well on your way to moving forward and healing from the past. Trust me when I say you’re going to be okay. You are stronger than this. Always remember that everything we go through in life is teaching us something, and shaping us into the highest version of ourselves we can be. And that’s a beautiful thing. Have you tried some of the steps above to deal with a break up in the past? Or do you have some extra tips on how to deal with a break up that aren’t on this list? Share them all with me in the comments below! Also, if you’d like to join me on a brand new webinar to learn “why men flake, avoid commitment and consistently ghost until they meet a woman who’s following these 7 simple steps”, then register here (it’s 100% free). 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3 Tips For Overcoming Your Biggest Fears About Dating after 50
I remember when I first started dating again after my 24 year marriage ended. I was in my mid 40’s and it was feeling really SCARY! I had to dig deep and find the courage to breakthrough some of the fears and self doubt I was feeling so I could find the right man for me. Today I want to share the 3 Steps I used to overcome my own fears. These are steps you can start using right now in your own life. 1. Take a No-Excuses Approach Great guys are everywhere. Yet when you’re not sure what to do or how to handle the dating issues that come up, its easy to use excuses for why your love life isn’t going the way you’d like it to. Everyday I hear excuses like these . . . “There’s no good men left out there to date,” “I’m too busy to date,” “No time to date,” “All men are jerks” and the list goes on. To get the right guy into your life, you’ve got to be willing to let go of the excuses and get yourself online or safely out in the real world meeting men. This is the ONLY way you can find a man who is a good fit for you. Ask yourself . . . How badly do you want a companion in your life? You can either have excuses or you can have results. Which one do you choose? 2. Feel the Fear—But Do It Anyway Your ego creates fear to keep you safe. Everyone feels fear and why shouldn’t they? You’re putting yourself out there and that makes you vulnerable. Who hasn’t felt a fear of rejection, a fear of not being good enough, a fear of being humiliated, a fear of making mistakes, a fear men might not like you, or a fear of the unknown, just to name a few. Most single women I know experience fear. What separates the women who get the guys from those who allow their fears to hold them back is a willingness to date in spite of the fears they may be feeling. The best way for you to get over your dating fears is to walk directly into them. Let yourself feel them. Ask the fear what it’s trying to tell you. Then journal or meditate on the answers you hear. It takes courage to do this – courage I see my clients show everyday when they put themselves in the vulnerable position of meeting new men even though they are shaking in their boots as they do it. Actually, walking into fear is never as bad as you think it’s going to be. And if you allow yourself to really feel the fears versus resisting them . . . what you might end up with is a great guy in your life. Imagine how that would feel! 3. Be Willing to Get Out of Your Dating Comfort Zone Most of us avoid discomfort like it’s the plague yet it’s the best way to grow and get what you really want in life. Here’s one of my favorite mantras that can help you get through this . . . I am ready to date. I am willing to find and meet new men even when I feel uncomfortable. I know uncomfortable equals growth and growth equals achieving my dreams of finding the man I want to share my life with. Now its time to work through your fears and break out of your comfort zone so you can have the man and the relationship you’ve been wanting in your life. I can’t wait to hear how these 3 tips work for you. Believing in you! Hugs~ Love this article? Sign up by clicking here to receive my weekly blog. Copyright© 2021 Lisa Copeland. All rights reserved. On January 13, 2021 / Uncategorized

Banned From Bumble? Here’s How to Get Back On
Ahh yes, Bumble. As feminist Tinder, Bumble attracts those that have graduated from the one night stand they found on Tinder and onto something just slightly more substantial and long-lasting. Founded by the co-founder of Tinder, Whitney Wolfe left Tinder after being sexually harassed. She brought her ladies-first mentality with her to Bumble. It’s this thinking that has led Bumble to become one of the most popular dating apps not only in the US but in the world. The app has over 100 million users worldwide and has branched out through the creation of Bumble BFF and Bumble Bizz. As you can see, Bumble’s the kind of dating app you should be using. This is why being rejected by the app (aka: being banned from Bumble) can suck so much. But no worries, before downloading a lesser dating app, there’s still hope for you yet. Together we’ll try to figure out why you got banned from the app before teaching you how to get unbanned from Bumble. Banned From Bumble? Why You Got the Boot Honestly, Bumble will ban you for any number of reasons. With over 100 million users under its belt, it’s not afraid to lose one or two for going against their policy. You Were A Jerk Yeah, this one’s pretty obvious. If you disparage someone else for any reason you’re liable to get the boot. The best way to ensure that you aren’t tossed from arguably the best dating app in the world is to just be a nice person. Avoid personal attacks, being overtly sexual when unwanted, or using any form of slurs. You Seem Like A Bot Online daters have a habit of sending the same message to dozens of users (glaring at you gentlemen). Not only is this a horrible way to get a response, but it can actually get you banned from Bumble. Copying and pasting the same message over and over is against the app’s guidelines. But why would you want to do it anyway? Messages that are tailor-made for the person you’re talking to are way more likely to get a response than a generic message you send out en masse. Should you struggle to pen a quality opening or first response, simply read the person’s profile and ask a question about one of their hobbies. If the guy you’re about to message is clearly into soccer ask him what his favorite team is. If you just received a basic message from a female (female Bumble users famously have to message first to start the convo) ask her about her trip to Maine or how old her dog is. You’ve been working on your social skills your entire life. Chances are they’re decent. Yet for some reason people become suddenly socially inept when chatting through a dating app. Actually putting in a little effort can go a long way on Bumble. You’re Using The App To Gain Followers It’s a dating app, so use it as such. If you’re someone that wrote, “seldom use this, follow me on IG or Snap” Bumble might just toss you. That being said, many singles use dating apps for unromantic purposes. As we’ve seen some will use it to boost their SM clout, but others will use them simply to feel good about themselves. 44.4% of Tinder users surveyed in a LendEDU survey reported primarily using the app for “confidence-boosting procrastination.” This makes sense considering 50% of Tinder users have reportedly never gone on a date with a match. Dating apps should be used to date. Period. This is why matchmaking is making a huge comeback right now. Try to transition the dynamic from an online one to one IRL as soon as you’ve sent that first message. It may feel good to amass matches but that sensation is nothing when compared to the feelings you get from romantically vibing. You Did Something Illegal Again, it’s a dating app, not a niche romance/marijuana selling app. Also, be sure never to list links to money transfer apps. What Isn’t Illegal But Should Still Be Avoided If being banned from Bumble is like being ghosted, being penalized is like getting stood up on every third date. While the following behavior won’t get you banned it will result in being penalized. Am I Penalized For Deleting My Profile? As far as our research shows you won’t be banned or shadowbanned if you delete and create a profile on a frequent basis. That being said, Bumble’s algorithm is considerably turned off by such behavior. Bumble says it doesn’t show your account less or ban you, however, they’ve found that users that do this more often than not receive fewer matches than they did before. Yet while Bumble says this is the case, other sources disagree. If you frequently delete Bumble before reinstalling, Bumble will in fact penalize you for trying to game the system. It’s well known that dating apps try to hook new users by giving them a “new user bump.” This bump will mean your profile is being shown to more people than the average user and will most likely result in more matches. This is pretty common knowledge — so common that Bumble knows users will try to exploit it. To combat this, wBumble will neutralize this advantage for users that are constantly deleting and then reinstalling their app. So here’s a tip so that you aren’t continually put down by Bumble: try harder. Or rather, try smarter. Deleting and reinstalling the dating app is a shortcut. What you need to do instead is invest time into making your profile top-notch. Top-notch quality pictures and writing a kick-ass bio. Stop Swiping Right On Everyone Ladies, this tip isn’t for you. If you have a vulva, feel free to skip on down, if you don’t we need to talk. Look, you gotta stop. Let’s humor your childish whim and imagine that every woman you swiped right on matched with you. This would be horrible. Imagine trying to juggle conversations with hundreds if not thousands of women simultaneously. It’d turn online dating into a second — if not third — job. So just stop. I know that blindly swiping right is a favored pastime of dudes everywhere. But just because it’s easy doesn’t mean you should do it. Bumble notices each of its users’ swipe behavior. If you’re the guy indiscriminately swiping right, it’ll see you as less desirable. This means it’ll show you to women deemed less desirable as well. Now you could just say, hey, I have unlimited swipes so what the hell. Except you probably don’t. Bumble used to give free users unlimited swipes, but not anymore. They threw this tactic to score more users out a while ago. Nowadays you’ll have to pay for premium for the right to nonchalantly swipe right on every profile you view. How To Get Unbanned From Bumble Getting unbanned from Bumble doesn’t involve writing a strongly yet romantically worded letter to the gatekeepers of Bumble. Instead, it entails following these instructions as close as you follow your ex on IG. The Steps Your Phone If followed on your phone the following steps will get you unbanned from Bumble. 1. First things first, log onto Facebook. 2. Click on “Settings” or “Account Settings.” 3. It’s here you’ll see the option to select, “Apps & Websites” click it and then press “Logged in with Facebook.” 4. Fourthly, you’ll hit “Bumble,” followed by “Remove App.” 5. Confirm that you’d like to remove Bumble. If you’d prefer to address the issue via your laptop, follow these instructions. 1. Log onto FB. 2. Find the “Settings” button from the triangular dropdown button in the top right corner of the browser. 3. Hit “Apps and Websites” from the menu. 4. Select “Bumble.” 5. Choose to “Remove app.” Next… After all of the prior steps have been taken, you’ll need to delete your account. Do this by opening up Bumble, going to settings, and deleting your account. You don’t want to simply hide your account, you’ll want to delete it altogether. Some of you might be thinking, “well I can see my account and matches so maybe I can still use the account.” In all likelihood, this is because you were shadowbanned. You know you’re being shadowbanned when it appears that you can use your account when in reality your messages aren’t being sent. According to those that have previously been successful at reinstating their account it’s best to wait 24 hours before reinstalling Bumble. Now What? So… did it work? Are you back in the game and ready to swipe around? That’s great and all but before you get to swiping, think about why you got banned in the first place. Did you make someone feel uncomfortable or use the app to increase your SM followers? Do you actually care about meeting someone on the app or do you just want your ego stroked? If you’re using Bumble for anything other than dating your wasting your time. If you want a pen pal, use an app that’ll find you a pen pal, if you want to feel good about yourself post a photo to IG. The average single American spends about 6 hours a week on dating apps. If that time isn’t spent going about using the app as it was intended then you’re wasting 6 hours of your time every single week. So what does going about it the right way look like? The Bumble Revamp First of all, stop sending sexually explicit messages, swiping on every profile you see, and deleting your profile. Once these behaviors have been addressed it’s time to have a look at your profile. Most likely you’re committing some online dating cardinal sin in your profile. That might mean posting selfies, bathroom selfies, shirtless photos, or a roster of photos that are grainy, don’t display your face, and indicate that you may or may not only own two red polos. If you want your dating life to get better heed the following online dating photo tips: -Your first photo should be a close-up, HD headshot -Group shots are fine as long as you’re the best looking -Group photos only come after your first two pictures -Wear different clothes in each photo -Showcase your personality -Play physical sports As far as your written bios goes, you don’t need to be as verbose as Gabriel Garcia Marquez to be successful. In fact, seeing as how women only spend around 5 seconds looking at a profile before swiping, it’s best that you keep things brief. Use a witty line or two that sets you apart from the rest. Give her a detail about yourself that she can latch onto. Mention specific interests, be positive and of course, spell-check. Never be cliche or list your interests out. Everyone does that – don’t be everyone else. But ya know, even a quick revamp sometimes isn’t enough to increase the number of Bumble matches you receive. For some, a little extra knowledge is needed to breakthrough. That’s where emlovz comes into play. For the single who’s fed up with dating and wants a long term relationship once and for all, we offer full service matchmaking and coaching services dedicated to helping you reach your interpersonal goals in just 3 months. Get started now by booking a new client session with me or one of my coaches today. We’re here to help you reach your full potential, even when you don’t think you can.

How To Turn Things Sexual With a Younger Woman Without Coming Off As “Creepy” (Video)
Click Here Now to Discover the Secret Signs She’s H*rny And Wants to Go Home With You… So you wanna sleep with younger women? OK–I’ve got your back. As an older guy, I totally get it. And in fact I sleep almost exclusively with younger women myself. It doesn’t have to be creepy, it doesn’t have to be weird, and no, it’s not “wrong.” It’s completely natural and hey–younger women are f’in hot. TRENDING: If A Younger Woman Does This With Her Body It Means She Wants You Bad (Most Older Guys Totally Miss This!) So that’s what I’m going to show you today. Hi, I’m Glenn Pearce, and as part of my new series, Ask Glenn, I’m answering your most difficult, burning questions related to sex and dating. And today, I want to show you the truth about hooking up with younger women and college-aged girls–why so many guys have trouble with it, and how to easily pull it off. Because honestly, if you follow the right steps… … then it’s a LOT easier than you may realize. So let’s get started! Catch The Full Video Transcript Below… Hey it’s Glenn Pearce and we’re back again for Ask Glenn Anything questions. And I’m really happy about all the guys who wrote in–there are so many wonderful questions. So let’s get right into it. IT’S TRUE: 89% Of Women Want to Sleep With OLDER Men (Here’s How to Bang a Hot Younger Woman Tonight)! OK, Eric’s writing in and Eric says: Hey Glenn, I always hear you and the other Gotham Club experts talking about escalation, the escalation ladder, touch her to turn her on et cetera. My problem is I’m an older guy and I can talk to younger woman pretty well but I’m afraid if I touch these girls, they’ll think I’m creepy. The few times I have made a move, things have gone great to ew really fast. So my question is how can I start touching these girls when I’m out on a date? And how do I make things more sexual from there? Thanks.” No Matter How Good Your Game Is (Here’s The Truth)… Eric, thank you and you’re a walking contradiction. Here’s the thing man, what I’ve learned is you’re going to creep girls out. No matter how good your game is, no matter how great you are, no matter how many girls you’ve f*cked, you’re just gonna creep some girls out and you’re gonna get some girls that are just like ew. I get it all the time and I don’t care about it. Some girls see me and wanna f*ck me right off the bat. CONTROVERSIAL VIDEO: These Subtle Touch Tricks Get Her Soaking Wet, Naked & On Top of You In Bed (Even If You’re “Just Friends” Right Now)! Some girls see me and wanna f*ck me a little later, some girls see me who just think I’m a creepy axe murderer, and I don’t care. Rejection doesn’t matter to me because I’ve conditioned myself to not experience rejection in a negative way. Your whole thing is you’re scared to get rejected. If you had no fear of rejection, you would be touching girls and escalating whenever and however you possibly wanted. But you have this fear inside of you, you’re scared to touch them. Maybe it’s because of the age difference. You think oh if I touch them, they’re gonna think I’m creepy or I’m some like pedophile. The Secret “Trick” to Getting Younger Women In Bed… Like that’s all in your own head. I mean, you really just need to just go out there and apply the things that you seem to already know. You even said, when I’ve done it, it’s worked out great. So you know what? You have evidence to support the fact that if you’ve done certain things, it works out pretty good. So the thing is if it works out pretty good most of the time, that’s awesome. Things aren’t gonna work out good all of the time and you need to be man enough to accept the fact that you’re going to strike out. You’re going to get rejected, that’s part of life, it’s part of this whole dating game, it’s part of learning to be a pickup artist, whatever you wanna call it. Rejection is there, there is no way to avoid it. SPECIAL: Do You Know About This “Secret Elixir” That Makes Girls Chase You? So if you have no problem walking up to women, then you should immediately start fixing the problem of being scared to escalate. You should constantly be trying to escalate every interaction a little further than the previous one. So if one girl you walk up to and you’re worried about escalating, maybe you could start escalating with some flirty things to say or some innuendos. Or maybe you could start escalating by touching her softly on her shoulder or when you introduce yourself, you hold her hand a little bit longer than the shaking and letting go. And start going a little bit further every interaction until you can start feeling comfortable escalating. In my experience, one of the best ways to avoid that fear of rejection is to only approach the women who you already know want you. And here’s how to do that: But What If She’s Not Into Older Guys? 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45 of The Best Tinder Bios for Guys & the Top 6 Bio Format Examples
Looking for some of the best Tinder Bios for guys? If you’re struggling to figure out how to set yourself apart from the competition on Tinder™, I’ve got you covered. I’ve heavily researched this controversial dating app and hand-selected over 40 of the best bio examples for you. Why is this important? Because dating apps have taken over as the medium of choice for single people to meet each other. While the bar scene used to be revered as the top place for singles to meet, things have taken a downturn in recent years. Online dating was once snubbed as desperate and creepy. However, apps like Tinder, Bumble, Facebook Dating and Hinge have brought online dating into the mainstream. And now, practically everyone is meeting people they otherwise wouldn’t have met because they’re using dating sites and apps. But when it comes to Tinder bios for guys, it can be hard to stand out. There are also several online dating faux pas that will trigger women to super swipe left on you. In fact, you may not be aware of many of them because they’re counter-intuitive. Luckily, in this article, I’ve also got some basic Tinder tips to help you score more dates. And after you’ve chosen your favorite bio example below, don’t forget to check out my articles on the best Tinder opening lines for guys and my best Facebook Dating Profiles. Both of which will help you get more matches and more responses. Best Tinder Bio Formats for Guys Before we jump into real-life bio examples, let’s first outline six bio formats that are proven to rack up matches. The purpose of a written bio is to humanize yourself. In an app that reduces each user into a set of cards in a deck of eligible singles, appearing as anything other than superficial is a tough ask. Using one of the following bio formats will display your personality and make you stand out against a backdrop of countless other bios. Format 1: The Most Spontaneous Thing I’ve Ever Done Tinder is a game. And in this game, the coolest guys win. With the written portion of the bio, you’re given a space to wax poetic about your own accomplishments. Flex out those peacock feathers and show her why you’re better than the profile on either side of you. One of the ways to catch her attention is to talk in superlatives. In this case, you’ll boast about the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done. To get the most out of this bio format, sift through your catalog of experiences in order to find one that would impress any Tinderella. Here are a few examples to tickle your inspiration. Examples Dave “The most spontaneous thing I’ve ever done was take an impromptu vacation to Paris to watch a PSG soccer match. I flew back to the states just hours after the match ended in order to get watch an MLS game. Two soccer matches, two days, two different countries. After that day my bucket list got a little bit shorter.“ Sam “The most spontaneous thing I ever did was move to San Francisco on a dare. Seven years later, I’m still here.” Dylan “The most spontaneous thing I ever did was cook mole negro for my family on Christmas. Some background, before cooking the mole I had mastered cooking delicacies such as toast and scrambled eggs. With scrambled eggs, toast, and now mole under my belt I’m now a bonafide chef.” Whichever spontaneous act you choose to share just make sure it’s true. Fudging is acceptable but make sure that the meat of the spontaneous act is historically accurate. Format 2: Two Short Descriptive Sentences + Emojis Penning a written dating app bio from scratch should be treated like poetry. Every single word short has a purpose. On average women spend between 3-6 seconds looking at a profile before swiping. This means she’s not going to spend an entire minute reading the 12-line profile you just wrote. When in doubt, keep her wanting more by keeping your profile pithy. Examples Juan “Remember that guy that made eyes with you at the Vampire Weekend show, but before he could talk to you, you dipped out with your friends? That guy was me. Hi, my name’s Dave. (emojis here)” Kaloy “Fluent in Espanol, Italiano, English, and JS.” (emojis here) My ideal first date would include speaking about passerbys in other languages and pretending like we’re royals. Pinkies in the air! (emojis here)” Matt “Recent accomplishments include: Running my first 10k, crowd surfing, and learning the piano. Recent failures include: Fainting after my first 10k, losing my wallet while crowd surfing, and not being able to get chopsticks out of my head. (emojis here)“ Format 3: Going Three Levels Deep Let’s not forget that Tinder reduces you to a playing card. To make her think of you as anything other than just another card in a deck of singles you’ll have to dig deep. Going three levels deep means conveying more than the bare minimum. It means being able to paint a picture of who you are in just a few strokes. Instead of saying that you love pizza, tell her that you make your own, that you despise deep-dish, and that you dream about spontaneously skipping off to Italy to dine on Naples’s finest. To help you visualize what a successful three-level profile looks like, here are a few examples. Examples Leo “My perfect Sunday includes morning tennis, Scrabble, playing a bingo in Scrabble, winning Scrabble, and then night tennis. O yeah, and milk duds, lots of milk duds.” Kobe “I love tacos… but allow me to elaborate. While studying abroad in Mexico City I had my first authentic pastor taco. But when I came back to the states I could only find hard shell tacos (i.e. not tacos). So I bought myself a spit, marinated some pastor meat, and made tacos a Sunday fixture at my place. I eat my tacos con todo. And yes, that includes pineapple, I’m not a heathen.” Doug “One time I took a hike through Muir Woods. That one time turned into two times, two turned into three, and now I’ve hiked Muir Woods over three hundred times. Now I curate hiking expeditions. Hmm, I wonder how that happened.” Format 4: Use Humor Or Self Deprecation With so many guys all too willing to self-aggrandize, some self-deprecating behavior is refreshing. And as for constructing a humorous profile, it should go without saying that a little bit of wit and charm should be used in every profile. Examples Chuck “Listen, I don’t want to brag, but I once picked a movie to watch on Netflix in under 30 minutes.” Wayne “Can someone tell me how to lower the difficulty settings on Tinder?” Alex “My biggest fear is that men’s rights advocates will convince Amazon to make a male version of Alexa. No I won’t play Don’t Stop Believing!” Format 5: The Biggest Risk I’ve Taken No one is swiping through Tinder hoping that they’ll find a Netflix addict so that they can waste away their lives binging all the latest series. She wants someone that will improve her, surprise her, and that will bring her out of her comfort zone. Convince her that you’re her guy by writing about all the craziest risks you’ve ever taken. Examples Marcus “I’m allergic to shrimp. But once when I was nine I knowingly ate an entire plate of grilled shrimp. I’d like to say that I’ve put my daring ways behind me, but I still eat shrimp every chance I get. Eating shrimp is in itself a pricey habit, but just imagine how much more expensive it is if every time you eat shrimp you also need a side order of epinephrine. Seafood anyone? I’ll bring the EpiPen.” David “The biggest risk I’ve even taken was telling my parents that I was an atheist. On the one hand, I got to stop going to church, on the other, there’s a .000001% chance that I’ll burn in hell for eternity. A fair tradeoff. “ Hector “The biggest risk I’ve ever taken was moving to Mexico after college. Everyone thought I was going to be kidnapped by narcos. Instead, I just became fluent in Spanish, learned how to make chilaquiles, and became an expert salsa dancer. Anyone up for hitting the dance-floor?” Format 6: I’m Regular At…/Change of Direction “What makes jokes so funny is their change of direction. What makes a successful Tinder profile is your ability to make her laugh. When in doubt, always use humor to attract more matches.” Examples Rick “So my girlfriend said she wanted to break up with me because I had no sense of direction. So I packed my things and right.” Sai “You ever go on a date that completely changed your life? Me neither. Up for perpetuating your romantic disappointment?” David “I’m regular at marathon racing against horses. I usually only beat a few. And yes this is a real thing, haven’t you ever listened to Radiolab?” Best Tinder Bios for Guys (Photo Examples) Alright, now the we’ve mastered some of the best tinder bio formats, let’s get into some actual examples I found on Tinder that spoke to me. Just make sure you read my explanations and customize these examples on your bio that actually speak about YOU. #1: Don’t Make Women Feel Sad for You Your life should not sound depressing in your profile. If you end up saying something like, “My life feels empty without someone special in it,” or “In a dark place — can you shine a light on me?” women will swipe left on your profile 100% of the time. When you look at the best Tinder bios out there, you’ll notice that these guys exude positivity and seem to have a glass-half-full perspective when it comes to dating. By saying something like, “Got my life together just looking for more,” you’re showing that you want a relationship but you’re not wallowing in sadness over singledom. Bio #2: Consider Why You Are Choosing to Advertise Certain Traits This is one of the best Tinder bios because it’s guaranteed to make a woman chuckle and also will leave her more inclined to swipe right. Women love humor and if you can use it correctly, being comedic is always a win. Bio #3: Don’t Be Basic The guy in this screenshot is succinctly noting three things that are awesome when they stand alone (a French engineer, a personal development mentor, and a fitness enthusiast). But these three things are even more compelling when placed side by side. Sure, a fitness enthusiast is great, but wouldn’t you rather hang out with a fitness enthusiast who can mentor you on personal matters and speak French while designing or building things? Très bien, indeed! When it comes to creating the best Tinder bios, you want to make sure that you stand out and avoid being basic. The following statements are extremely overused and boring when it comes to Tinder bios for guys: -“I’m chill” -“I love Netflix” -“Drama-free” -“I love to cook” -“I love sports” -[Insert statement about your height here] That’s great that you don’t like drama and DO love sports, but how does this set you apart from the competition? It doesn’t. Instead of focusing on what everyone generally likes, focus on what specifically makes you unique. Bio #4: Make it Easy for Her to Connect With You You can do this by telling her specific things about yourself. Instead of using a general statement like, “I love Netflix,” tell her what your favorite show or movie is and why. When you offer specifics about yourself that are also accessible (i.e., things people can relate to and use in conversation), it helps you connect with a woman who shares your interests early on. Best Tinder Bios #5: Avoid Coming Across as Insecure The old adage about nice guys finishing last is false. The truth is that nice guys finish first, but self-proclaimed “nice guys” who are overly agreeable or insecure finish last. This is because women are attracted to confidence. If you want to have one of the best Tinder bios for men, don’t come off as insecure or you’re guaranteed to get left swiped more often than not. You’re going to seem insecure if your Tinder bio includes things like: -Goofy comments that attempt to be funny but totally miss the mark. For example, saying something like, “Aspiring gynecologist – hi ladies!” is terrible and YES, people actually write things like that on Tinder. -Comments that make you sound desperate. Don’t put something like, “I’m down for anything.” Are you, though? What if she wants to go jogging across a bunch of bear traps – would you be down for that? Another desperate comment you shouldn’t use is something like, “I love everyone.” Do you love Hitler? No, of course you don’t, but when you say things like that you seem overly eager to please as well as insincere. This Tinder bio right here is great because it borders on self-deprecating (“I can’t dance”) but then throws in a positive (“I have a puppy”), and it also shows a sense of humor. Bio #6: Don’t State the Obvious For example, don’t be a basic dude who says “6’3 if it matters.” Clearly it matters to you — otherwise, you wouldn’t have put it in your profile. Don’t make an obvious statement and then point it out. It’s annoying. The below is an example of a great Tinder bio because it’s creative and charming all at the same time. Bio #7: Don’t Be Vague One thing that can be the difference between the best Tinder bios for guys and worst Tinder bios for guys is vagueness. When you say something vague like “I love sports,” you’re not doing yourself any favors. Instead, talk about what your favorite sports team is and why. Don’t say “I like music” — tell me who your favorite musician is and give me some insight into what led you to become a fan of this musician. Do you like to cook or do you consider yourself a foodie? Tell me about your favorite meal or your go-to dish that you make for special occasions. Give me something tangible to connect with that also tells me who exactly you are. Bio #8: Don’t Use Tons of Emojis Don’t create a Tinder bio that is basically an incoherent stream of emojis. It’s overwhelming and obnoxious. You’ll notice that many of the best Tinder bios for guys that are included in this post have emojis, but the emojis are peppered throughout the bio in a way that enhances their bio — it doesn’t dominate it. See below. Feel free to throw in a dancing lady emoji if you like dancing or a few emojis to show that you like adventuring to different cities. But don’t throw me eight emojis of a dog, a donut, a sunflower, a smiley face, a dog, a cat, another dog and a bag of money just to let me know that you went skydiving ONE TIME. Bio #9: Have Fun With Height For height, list yourself as the tallest possible height. Don’t make a comment about it, just put the maximum height OR the shortest possible height (so you’re basically choosing between being like 8 feet tall or 3 feet tall, or something like that). This will serve as a great conversation starter. If a woman asks about it, make a joke and show that you are poking fun at this superficial stat. This will either help you make a connection or allow you to weed out extremely superficial people in case the woman demands to know your actual height and/or makes it clear being above or below a certain height is a deal breaker for her. If you choose to list your real height, here’s a good Tinder bios for guys example you can emulate: Best Tinder Bios for Guys #10: Don’t Add Unnecessary Information to Your Tinder Bio Are you a blonde? Great, I should be able to tell that from your photos — you don’t need to tell me. Do you lift weights at the gym? I can see that bulging bicep in your photos — you don’t need to add it to your Tinder bio. Avoid adding unnecessary information in your bios and focus on succinct lines that will capture interest. Below is a great Tinder bio example for guys because it’s all very unique to the individual. Bio #11: Be Subtle With Your Sarcasm Sarcasm can be a great way to show your humor when used correctly, but there are times when you may not want to use sarcasm at all. In truth, sarcasm is often masked hostility and — when you come across as hostile — it’s a major turn-off. Don’t be sarcastic in ways that are mean or bash online dating (i.e., “I’m SURE you’re not just judging me by my photos right now…lol yeah right”). Finally, when it comes to being sarcastic, don’t say, “I’m sarcastic.” Show her instead of telling her. The same rule applies to someone who says, “I’m funny.” Show me you’re funny, don’t just expect me to assume that you actually are. Below is an example of a Tinder bio that made me laugh. Bio #12: Be Clever Clever tinder bios usually make for the best tinder funbios. Here’s an example: This man has the last name of “Long” and pokes fun at himself by pointing it out and also follow it up by referencing that he’s a “mixed breed” like his dog. So now you have a guy who is being clever and he has an adorable pup to boot. He nailed it! Bio #13: Don’t Tell Me About Other People on Tinder That You Think Are Dumb You don’t have to be dumb because they’re being dumb. There are so many terrible Tinder bios that say things like: -Don’t even know why I try. Girls on this thing are so superficial.” -Message only if you’re not gonna be a b**ch!!” -Does anybody here actually respond? Over this.” Don’t be that guy! No one likes negativity and if that’s the first impression you’re giving off, it’s pretty much a guarantee that women will swipe left on you. Take a look at this super positive and clever tinder bio: Bio #14: Don’t Post Bathroom Selfies Stop. Just STOP. Why do guys keep doing this? Whether you have a rock hard body like David Beckham or a dad bod worthy of Seth Rogen, don’t show it off under the harsh fluorescent lighting of your bathroom or the locker room at your gym. What’s even worse is that these selfies are normally paired with a vacant stare. In that case, you look like a serial killer and I am immediately becoming less aware of your abs and more fixated on the fact that a date with you could play out like an episode of Law & Order: SVU. In short, never post a bathroom selfie OR a shirtless pic unless it is clearly part of a shirtless activity, like swimming. Best Tinder Bios #15: Don’t Look Unemployed I know that man buns and beards are all the rage, but that doesn’t mean you have to throw away your comb or forego doing laundry. Don’t look unemployed and definitely don’t state that you’re unemployed on your Tinder bio. If you are dealing with unemployment, don’t feel bad, it’s a place tons of people find themselves in at different points throughout their lives. But you need to make sure you fix your finances before searching for love. With that said, when you are employed and able to take a woman to dinner (wait until date #3 I may add), try emulating this hilarious tinder bios for guys: Bio #16: SMILE!!! Blank stares are not sexy. Smiling is sexy! Make sure that you’re Tinder pics. This sends ladies positive vibes and shows that you know how to have a good time. The below bio example was written by guy who was smiling from ear to ear- super sexy. Bio #17: Don’t Look Homeless Just like you shouldn’t look unemployed, you also shouldn’t look homeless. Don’t take any sort of ruggedness or Boho chic to an extreme that would make a woman question whether you are able to pay rent or have access to running water. The below is a great bio example. If only the guy didn’t look homeless. Bio #18: Don’t Use Jokes If You’re Not Funny I know I’ve been pushing the advantage of cleverness and humor, but if comedy isn’t your strong suit, don’t attempt to make jokes that fall flat. There are many compelling Tinder profiles that are straightforward and compelling without using a ton of jokes. You can easily make your profile into one of the best Tinder bios by pointing out your unique qualities and passions in a succinct and compelling way, like this: To work on your sense of humor or to test out some funny Tinder first messages, take a comedy or improv class. You can also use quotes from funny movies and stand-up comedy specials. Bio #19: Don’t Have a Ferret in Your Photo I didn’t know I’d actually have to put into writing that you’re not supposed to do this when posting pics to your Tinder account, but here we are. I’m not saying that I hate ferrets or that you should hide your love for your pet ferret. It’s just that — when people aren’t familiar with these creatures — seeing a ferret in a photo can be equal parts confusing and terrifying. From certain angles, ferrets can resemble rats, and some women are going to be thinking, “Why is he holding a rat? Why TF is he holding a RAT?!” You think you’ve just done the most adorable photo op ever but all she sees is this. If you must have a ferret in your photo, at least do the smart thing and make sure the ferret is flanked by kittens or something so she can ease into accepting that you have a furry snake as a pet. Bio #20: Never Go Negative The best Tinder bios for guys are the ones that shine are those that exude positivity. Don’t ever be negative in your bio. The below bio example shows a strong outward based positivity – this guy loves to be active and enjoys putting himself out there, two things women love. Bio #21: DON’T LOOK LIKE A KILLER Nothing says “LEFT SWIPE” like looking as if you’re going to murder someone. You might look like a killer in your photos if you: -Don’t smile in your photos -Have intense facial expressions -Have neck tattoos -Throw up gang signs -Have “scary muscles” that could snap a babe’s neck -Take photos of yourself in the hood -Use only photos of yourself and no one else. Avoid these things at all costs! For more on this topic check out my other post on the best tinder pics for guys. Bio #22: Stop Advertising Your Flaws Are you hungover from last weekend? Don’t advertise that — or any flaws — on your tinder bio. If you use photos where you’re holding alcohol and/or drunk, you’re telling women that you’re an alcoholic. If you’re smoking cigarettes or weed in your photos, that doesn’t make you seem like much of a prize either. Don’t advertise what’s not valuable about yourself. If it’s a threat — not an asset — exclude it. Here’s a bio example to emulate (in your words with your passions, obviously): Bio #23: Make Sure You Look Like the Same Person in All of Your Photos You don’t want her to get pre-date jitters wondering which version of you she’s going to get on a first date. Make sure that all of your photos look like you and that they aren’t simply a collection of all the different looks you’ve tried over the years. This is especially true in the facial hair department. Don’t use one photo with a beard and another without a beard — it’s too confusing. She doesn’t know which guy she’s going to get if she agrees to a date with you. Finally, don’t use a photo from 10 years ago when you were a bodybuilder and another photo from the present day, where there’s a 100-pound difference. It’s. Just. Confusing. Moving on, here’s one of the funniest Tinder bio examples I found during my research: Best Tinder Bio for Guys #24: Don’t Put Emojis Over the Faces of Other People in Your Photo I don’t know when or why this became a thing on Tinder, but don’t do it. Putting emojis over the faces of other people in your photo is just creepy. Maybe you’re worried that your friends don’t want their picture on Tinder or one of the people in the photo is an ex. Whatever the reason, use pictures of people that you know won’t mind making an appearance on your dating app and NEVER post a photo of you with an ex. It’s just tacky. With that said, this Antonio guy had an awesome approach on his bio: Bio #25: Don’t Say “I Don’t …” Focus on the things you do, not the things that you don’t do. When you start a Tinder bio with “I don’t” it’s negative and unnecessary. Think about what makes you special as opposed to things you may be lacking. Here’s a simple winner that made me crave more: Best Tinder Bios for Guys #26: Larry David and a 90’s R&B Singer This one is just strange enough to work. So you are going to remind me of Larry David and a 90s R&B singer…and you watch old Soul Train videos as a hobby? Feel free to indulge in your quirky side when it comes to crafting your bio. Remember, you want to capture a woman’s attention fast so that she swipes right. Bio #27: Who Doesn’t Love Pizza This one keeps it short and sweet, while also mentioning specific interests. I like that he listed two different musical tastes because it’s something that he can use to build rapport. And of course, pizza is something that pretty much everyone can bond over. Bio #28: Cute Animals + Humor = Amazing Tinder Bio You really can’t go wrong when it comes to a bio that mentions you love your pet. And in this case, this guy is demonstrating that he has a lot of patience and compassion, being that he clearly rescued two animals in need. But he’s making the most of his limited space (and limited attention spans) by also including a line to make girls laugh. Bio #29 Rollercoaster, Anyone? This bio is well and good overall, but what really makes this guy stand out is that he rides and designs roller coasters. That’s just not something you expect to hear everyday and also — it’s super cool! What is his favorite roller coaster he’s designed? Did he help design that one that made you sick last summer? How many loops does he consider being the optimal amount of loops! I have so many questions — and that’s the point. You don’t want to give everything away when you’re writing a Tinder bio. In fact, you don’t even want to give everything away when you’re messaging a girl on Tinder. Women like a little bit of mystery, so save deeper conversations and personal info for when you two are on an actual date. Best Tinder Profile for Guys #30: A Lot of Humor Packed Into One Tinder Bios FYI, the “side chick” this guy is talking about is a cardboard cutout from what looks like a Comicon convention. There’s nothing wrong with being a nerd, especially when you embrace it like this guy. I like that he peppered in some self-deprecating humor at the end as well. Women don’t want a guy who takes himself too seriously so don’t forget to laugh at yourself once in a while and go with the flow. Bio #31: Possibly the Best Tinder Bio Ever Created Honestly, you have my permission to copy and paste this bio because it’s one of the best out there. This guy crammed a ton of humor into a bio, along with pizza and tacos — pizza AND tacos!! This creatively includes humor and also holds the woman’s attention in a way that can be difficult on dating apps like Tinder. Bio #32: Kombucha and Pickles Again, if you have an interesting hobby, be sure to list it. Whether or not a girl would have making kombucha and pickles in common with you, it’s something that’s bound to catch her eye. Some guys shy away from sharing things they think are quirky and choose to list something generic instead. But remember, you want someone who can have shared interests with you, so it’s good to be up front right away. Doing this will increase your chances of matching with women you can have solid, real-life connections with. Bio #33: Poking Fun at Superficial Height Preferences Everything in this guy’s profile is pretty solid. He talks about specific interests and clarifies that the child he’s holding in one picture is his niece — this lets women know he doesn’t have kids but also shows that he’s good with kids. I really like that he ended with a lighthearted jab at height preferences on dating apps. A lot of guys who aren’t super tall get self-conscious when it comes to dating apps. But if you can take it with humor and flip the script, it really works in your favor. Bio #34: “I Have More Pictures of Dogs” You had me at dogs! This guy had an adorable picture of himself with a pooch and — like I said — cute animals make everything better. The fact that women know there are more cute animal pics where that came from is enough to make them swipe right. Also, like pizza, people are pretty unanimous in their love of tacos. Mentioning pizza and tacos at any time tends to be a good thing. In fact, if you are able to get someone to snap a shot of you making a pizza and taco platter while also holding a puppy, you’re golden. Best Tinder Bios for Guys #35: Short, Sweet, and Self-Deprecating This doesn’t delve too deeply into this guy’s interests, but it will capture attention quickly. Again, showing that you don’t take yourself too seriously is an attractive quality. In this case, the guy is clearly being funny and not being negative, which is a common problem a lot of guys run into when using dating apps. Make sure you don’t allow any frustration you have over online dating to bleed into your profile. Saying things like “sick of this app,” “on here not expecting anything,” or “is anyone here actually looking for a nice guy??” will just turn girls off and limit your success. Bio #36: Nick Cage FTW I officially need to find and download this Nicholas Cage app immediately! Aside from that intriguing piece of info, this guy starts off by showing he has a good sense of humor, which is always a good thing when it comes to creating a great Tinder bio. Bio #37: Three Truths and a Lie This is a great bio and could also make for a great first message after matching with someone on Tinder. Why? This piques interest and would require more than a “yes” or “no” answer as a response. When you ask an open-ended question or offer up a fun game like this one, you’re much more likely to develop a connection with someone and keep the conversation flowing, which can make it easier for you to get a girl to go out with you. Bio #38: More Games This one can be a little risky, because he kind of veers off into questionable territory with the whole looking for someone “fit” and “Think you’re badass enough to steal my heart?” Then again, he also gets super specific and for a girl who really aligns with his interests, this could work. If you’re unsure, just stick with the first paragraph in this one. People on Tinder tend to post the same types of things over and over again, so a lighthearted jab is fine as long as it isn’t mean or negative. Bio #39: Slightly Vulnerable This guy shares tons of awesome information about his career and also interests. I really like that he allowed himself to show some vulnerability without giving too much away. He runs a non-profit on the side in memory of his mother, which is extremely honorable and also pretty personal. It shows a lot of confidence and strength that this guy felt able to share that on a dating app. Vulnerability is really important when it comes to dating because it allows you to build a deeper connection with someone, which will help you find a long-term relationship. That doesn’t mean that you have to give everything away on a first date. But asking questions and being open to topics that aren’t merely skin-deep can help you increase your confidence and success in the dating world, as well as other areas of your life. Best Tinder Bios for Guys #40: Turn Your Tinder Bios into a Funny Advertisement I love this guy’s style. He’s showcasing a good sense of humor and creativity by turning his bio into a corny (albeit, effective) advertisement. There are other bios I’ve seen in the past that follow this kind of format, but with fake quotes from friends and family that read like quotes from movie critics. For example. Let’s say your name is Nick. Your bio could read something like this: “Five out of five stars when it comes to cleaning dishes.” — Nick’s old roommate “I don’t know why he doesn’t have a girlfriend yet. HAVE YOU SEEN THAT FACE??” — Nick’s friend “Awesome guy from the day he was born.” — Nick’s mom “Please stop asking to quote me on your Tinder profile.” — Nick’s acquaintance Bio #41: Be Topical “I just want a woman who washes her hands for 20 seconds and knows how to properly microwave popcorn. (Hint: Never hit the microwave button.)” We’ve all been emotionally drowning in COVID-19 talk for the past year. Avoid talking about COVID and how apocalyptic it is unless you’re making it known that you’re aware of how it spreads and take proactive steps in combating it. This will signal to other singles that you don’t make risky social decisions and are probably safer to date than other men. However, only writing about COVID doesn’t show how multi-faceted you are. This person ironically adds a little humor to their Tinder bio by talking about the gravity of COVID while in the same sentence making it known that he also wants a woman that knows how to handle her popcorn. Bio #42: New Year, New Boo “My New Year’s Resolutions: Run a marathon Learn how to play The Piano Man on piano (but first learn the piano) Stop using the poop emoji out of context Date more like-minded women from Tinder” Not all guys feel like they can stack up against the competition. You might be one of them. So instead of talking about who you were or who you are, talk about who you want to be. Look, the chances are you’re better than oodles of guys on Tinder, but maybe you feel as though you can’t convey that. That’s fine. Instead of talking about the past, tell her who you want to become. Bio #43: Keywords Are Your Cinderella Slipper “Just your average 6’2” man trying to go rock climbing for a first date, bowling on a second, and make love on the third. What are my hobbies you ask? Painting with a craft brew in hand, making fun of Republicans, celebrating 4/20 every other weekend, running multiple 5ks a week and basically personifying Chris Traeger.” Artfully use keywords throughout your bio. Tinder works by trying to place your profile in front of user’s that it believes you’re compatible with. It does so in part by using keywords. Writing specific likes and dislikes on your profile is likely to get you paired up with users that used those same keywords on their profiles. Just be sure not to list out 30 things that you’re into. Keyword vomiting may put your profile in front of women you’re compatible with, but it shows zero signs of personality. Humanize yourself by penning a profile in your own voice while utilizing keywords. Bio #44: Let’s Talk About Our Future “Just a list of first date ideas: -Dress in matching koala onesies, go to the zoo, jump in the koala exhibit and become king and queen of the koalas -Go to a karaoke bar and only sing K-pop songs -Apply for Canadian citizenship -Finding the meaning of life, then sell it on eBay for a million dollars -Get coffee” 50% of Tinder profiles are blank. Another 25% are creepy. 20 more percent talk about their love for tacos and The Office. Then there’s that paltry 5% of profiles that are actually good, that women actually read from beginning to end and elicit a genuine laugh. Making a woman literally laugh out loud is a guaranteed swipe right. Bio #45: Keep The Good Times Rollin’ “Some of my friends say I’m too optimistic. I say they don’t understand that at any moment something amazing can happen… that’s why I always carry confetti around in my pocket. It’s emergency confetti.” This profile works because it’s so freakin’ adorably optimistic. Sure it’s a bit weird, but it touches on a great point. First impressions should always be positive. Considering she’s got so little to go off of, why start out by pitching yourself in a negative light? No one wants to date a sad guy with low self-esteem. Turn up the charm and positivity by presenting yourself as the guy that everyone wants to be around. Bonus: A Tinder Bio You Should Never Replicate We’ve gone through a lot of awesome Tinder bios, but I couldn’t end this article without directing you to the type of bio you should avoid AT ALL COSTS. Granted, this will make a woman stop and think — but for all the wrong reasons. What does this even mean? Does this guy think the Mona Lisa looks like a woman who has a hand up her skirt? Why is she so calm about it, then? I just can’t. If you craft a bio that is anything like this, a woman will do the following things: -Stop -Read the bio -Squint in confusion -Reread the bio -Reread the bio AGAIN -Swipe LEFT Best Tinder Bios for Guys: Conclusion Are you struggling to get more matches and swipe rights even when you upgraded to Tinder Plus? Is dating confusing to you? Not reaching your long term dating goals? I can help! Here at emlovz we offer a full suite of dating services from private coaching to group based coaching — and even a full service matchmaking program. There’s no more excuses to not reaching your dating goals this year! Ready to get started? Then head over to my calendar and book a new client 1-on-1 Zoom session with me or one of my other coaches today. During this intro session, we will discuss your dating roadblocks and create an action plan to help you crush your goals and get you on the road to finding the woman of your dreams! 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Are You Dating A Married Man? The 26 Rules – And How To NOT Get Hurt
Most women never set out to date a married guy. But for some reason this guy was so appealing and so interesting, and now you find yourself dating a married man. He could be a guy you work with, a guy you met at a party, or really anywhere. Maybe you started talking and realized that you have this deep twin flame connection. It just seems so easy to date a married guy, that you can’t help yourself. And before you know it, things got really complicated. It could be you – or a friend – or a relative… My goal is to help you NOT get hurt! And to help you keep things REAL as you deal with the most complicated kind of relationship. Is it okay to date a married man? Let’s also put aside judgment – especially self-judgment – about this situation. It is what it is, now let’s figure it out and decide what to do. We won’t be talking about who is right, who is wrong, or who is good or evil here. The simple fact is that these relationships happen all the time. Trying to pretend that they don’t is just denial. Sometimes you might not even know this guy was married until later. He may not have intended to get involved outside his marriage. But maybe you still don’t want to give him up. You have a connection. There’s incredible guilt that goes along with dating a married man. In fact, I know at least FIVE of my immediate family that have had this situation – men and women. (Probably many more, dear reader.) Back in my early teens, I remember my dad even getting into an argument with a guy in our neighborhood who would stop by occasionally to hit on my mom. (AWK-ward!) So I know for a fact that it’s common enough, but we just don’t want to admit this. I’m going to give you some rules and some tips for handling the situation. If you’re dating a married man right now, you’re going to walk away knowing what direction you should head in. The truth is that this relationship probably started innocently enough. But, through a series of innocent steps, it became much more. Maybe you started out with just a chat. Talking to him for a few minutes, and realizing how easy it was to connect with him This might have happened a few times, and then you exchange contact information You might start sending each other occasional texts Maybe you go out on a lunch with him sometime – telling yourself it’s just an innocent meal But then feelings start to develop… Before you know it, you’re on a date with him. And things keep getting deeper from there. First of all – let’s set the record straight: “Does Carlos condone extramarital affairs? Cheating?” No, I do not think that you should continue an affair with a married man. However, I fully understand that sometimes sh*t happens. You didn’t plan for it, but it happened. Life isn’t always neat, tidy, or convenient. However, at some point the relationship must turn the corner and either become YOUR relationship, or he has to go fix his marriage. That’s not what we’re here to discuss today, though. I will give you some simple rules for dating a married guy that will give you the best chance of turning this into a happily ever after story. (Because it CAN work out – if you handle it right!) Now, let’s talk about the rules for dating a married man. RULE #1: Drop the guilt! Look, we know what the situation is. Of course it’s not ideal. But it’s also not a reason to beat yourself up every single day about. The point is to resolve it as quickly and effectively as possible. In a perfect world, people would simply end the relationships that aren’t working so they can go find a good one. But sometimes we have to encounter a relationship that works to figure out that the one we’re in isn’t working. There’s no reason to feel a constant aura of guilt and shame. Accept the reasons you are where you are, and just move forward. Don’t gloat or wallow in it, simply figure out how to handle it and manage it. RULE #2: Be discreet If there’s one thing you know you need to do it’s keep things very secret. In order to avoid hurting anyone, you can’t let your relationship become public. Unfortunately this is the price you have to pay to keep your relationship going for the short-term. Now, hopefully he is working to end the affair or transition him out of his marriage. The important thing here is that it’s not up to you to do ANYTHING to help end his other relationship. If he’s decided this, it’s all HIS responsibility! That’s on him, and you shouldn’t be involved. Obviously, only if he’s not happy. If it were a happy marriage he wouldn’t be looking outside of his relationship for more. RULE #3: It can’t be just physical If you suspect your man is cheating on his wife just for the sex, you need to walk away. If you happened to be attached to him because of the bond you share, but he’s really only interested in the physical part, this is not healthy. In fact it’s the worst kind of situation. And you must have the willpower to let go of it. RULE #4: Have a plan Once you’ve established that your relationship is something you both want to continue – and build – then you must work together to end his other relationship as quickly as possible. Up front, I have to tell you that the only direction your relationship with him can go is one of two ways: He ends his marriage to be with you You leave him to go work out his relationship problems If you’re wondering about the “third” option of you just being his girlfriend on the side, that’s not realistic or ethical. You have to be moving forward in whatever relationship you choose for yourself. RULE #5: Take it Slow You have to take things slow with a relationship like this. The one thing you don’t want to be is just some horn dog’s mistress. You want to be sure he is actually emotionally connected to you on some level. This means that you must pace yourself when it comes to the physical side of your relationship. For all you know, he could just be an immature guy who needs to sow some Wild Oats. RULE #6: Lies end it. The fact of the matter is, many men will lie and say things just to get sex. Sex is a necessary and automatic part of most men’s physiology. Which is where they differ from women. Unfortunately he is driven by a different set of physical requirements than you are, so you need to protect yourself from his misrepresentations. Make sure he knows that lying is unacceptable in your relationship. Even if this seems a little bit hypocritical, it’s necessary for you to have honesty with him to the best of your ability. Tell him flat out: “If I find out you’re lying to me or twisting the truth, it’s over. Finished.” Don’t ever fall for the King of Affair Lies, where he tells you: “I’m going to leave her and marry you as soon as I can.” Yeah, sure. Every single guy says this to keep a woman strung along. You have to assume that your relationship is only temporary. He may use the lie about leaving his wife to keep you sleeping with him. And you’ll be able to figure this out on your own fairly quickly. If he lies to you or shows a habit of being deceptive, you should walk away as quickly as possible. It’s very likely that the entire relationship will just be a constant up and down roller coaster ride. Which brings me to – RULE #7: Don’t Let This Make You Crazy It’s very likely that dating a married guy will bring out a lot of your feelings of insecurity and jealousy. In fact it’s guaranteed. Don’t let this kind of relationship drive you crazy. You have to have a stable grip on your own emotions in order to last. Especially if it takes him some time to finally resolve and end his marriage. RULE #8: No, you won’t be able to handle a casual affair indefinitely A lot of women think that they can have a casual affair with a married man and not get emotionally attached. This simply is not true. It is virtually impossible for you to avoid getting emotionally entangled with a man you are sleeping with. It’s part of your psychology. What will happen is his unavailability will make you want more and more of him. Until you are feeling the scarcity of the relationship, which makes you chase him even more. Because you can’t have him all to yourself. You can keep it “casual” for a couple months at the most, and then it needs to end. I’m sure you’ve seen news articles and TV shows about relationships that have gone off the rails because of obsession. Don’t let this happen to you. RULE #9: Money Talks, BS Walks If you have come to an arrangement where he plans to leave his wife, you need to see concrete tangible proof on a regular basis that he’s working towards ending that relationship. Words are absolutely meaningless. They have no value whatsoever. The only thing that matters is that he is taking action to create your new relationship, AND working to dissolve the other one. If you simply accept his word for it, you could find yourself strung along for years while he gets the best of both worlds. RULE #10: Make sure you have non-physical chemistry In order for you to create a real relationship, you have to have more than the sex. You have to have all the elements of a great relationship. Such as: Clear and honest communication Strong compatibility Similar outlooks of life Shared interests Basically all the elements of a relationship with a single person apply here. You’ve got to have the magic of attraction and compatibility along with a great connection to make any relationship work. Don’t let the promise of something wonderful replace the evidence of something wonderful. RULE #11: Don’t get vengeful Be careful about letting crazy emotions steer you. You may get frustrated to the point of telling his wife about what’s going on. People have done some pretty crazy things under the influence of an affair. Don’t be THAT woman. Don’t fall victim to your dark side. If you feel your emotions boiling over like this, it’s far better to simply walk away from the relationship and have the willpower to stay away. RULE #12: Set A Hard Deadline If he decides that he does want to end his marriage, you need to find out exactly when. You don’t have to rush him, but you need a hard deadline. At the very least he should be able to give you a simple schedule of the steps he’s going to take towards this goal. Hold him to that. If he misses deadlines, find out exactly why. If he waffles or acts wishy-washy about it, he’s probably not serious and you should walk away. Also, be sure you get proof of anything he says. He might pull the old “What, don’t you trust me?” To which you reply: “Yeah, I trust – but I also VERIFY.” He should be able to prove to you which lawyer he’s going to talk to. He should also be able to show you official documents if he’s planning to file for divorce. You should be able to see some kind of proof that reassures you he’s legit. RULE #13: Keep Dating Look, the truth of the matter is that this is not a relationship quite yet. And it’s definitely not a PRIMARY relationship yet. It may be building and developing, but it’s not the real deal. While you’re waiting for him to sort out his marriage situation, you should also be dating other men. (Hopefully I don’t have to point out the hypocrisy of feeling like you would be cheating on him if you did this.) Keep your options open! Seeing other men is absolutely necessary. It gives you a frame of comparison by which you can figure out if this relationship is what you think it is. Also, if this married guy is going to do what he says and leave his wife for you, your limited time while you’re dating other guys is going to help motivate him. The truth is that you may very well find your soulmate in another guy while you’re having this affair on the side. And, honestly, when you’re dating a married man, this can give you a glow of validation that helps you be more attractive to single guys. You’d be surprised what kind of impact it has on your attitude. RULE #14: If he goes back and forth with her, he’s not serious Sometimes a man will simply have an affair or cheat just because he’s unhappy and has no real power in his marriage. But that can change as soon as the relationship improves. Watch out for a man who goes back and forth. If he jumps back into her arms when it’s convenient, and then back into yours when it’s also convenient, he’s not likely to ever leave his marriage. He’s simply not man enough to stand up for himself. Recognize this sign as soon as you possibly can. Because if you ignore it or pretend it isn’t there, you’re in for a very rough ride. RULE #15: If It’s A Fling – Just FLING Some of these relationships with a married guy don’t have to go anywhere. Maybe it’s just a fling. Maybe it was a one-night fling. Something he needed and you needed. Don’t be guilty of making something bigger out of something that is really just a temporary experience. RULE #16: If it gets tough, seek help Your relationship with the married man can very quickly go from casual to crazy at the drop of a hat. If you feel that the emotional burden is too much, the best thing to do right off the bat is to end the relationship. However if you feel, for any reason, that you can’t walk away from this relationship because of dependency issues or other emotional problems, you must seek professional help right away. This help would be in the form of a counselor or therapist. You need a realistic and trained perspective to help guide you through this complicated maze of feelings. RULE #17: Remember – you’re not his therapist Some women get very emotionally entangled with a married man that they are dating. She may even take on the role of his support system. She thinks that by doing this she is making him love her more and making it more likely that he will leave his wife for her. But in reality, she’s really over-investing in him. No woman should ever be the sole emotional support for her man. First, he should be able to do that for himself. Second, if he is experiencing a lot of emotional issues, he needs to see a therapist. In fact, it’s a good idea to request that he starts seeing a therapist of his own right away. He’s obviously got some issues to deal with, and it’s not for you to figure them out. Even in a perfectly healthy marriage, the spouse should not be trying to play the therapist for their life partner. It’s an unhealthy boundary that will only end in more pain and suffering. RULE #18: Verify When it comes to knowing what’s going on in his family, don’t just take it from him. Verify with people who know him. Find out exactly what’s going on and know the truth. The truth is that he could be telling you any story he wants. You have to have your own version of the truth to be able to know for sure. (Of course do this discreetly and without risking exposing your relationship with him. That should always be your first rule.) He’ll make all kinds of claims: “I only love you…” “We’re not sleeping together anymore…” “She’s okay with me having other relationships…” “It hasn’t been a marriage for years…” “We have an ‘agreement…’” “She said she wants to end it…” But you can’t afford to be misled. You’ve got to know for yourself. Don’t get snowed over by his words – or your own desire to believe him. RULE #19: Keep money out of it It’s not uncommon for women to be scammed by guys who use their mistress to help them financially. Don’t EVER loan him any money. And be extra suspicious and wary if he ever asks to borrow money from you. Even if he only mentions that he’s got financial hardships, he may be fishing to see if you will offer to loan him or give him money. Don’t fall for it. If he can’t manage his own money to extricate him and bring him closer to you, then he’s going to make a lousy life partner later on. Especially if he’s doing this in his current marriage! Listen to him and sympathize/empathize with him… But leave the responsibility of his money with him. RULE #20: Stay connected The best thing you can have is balance in your life when you’re dating a married man. Make sure you’re still social and keeping a balanced schedule. A lot of women make the fatal mistake of making the married man the center of their world. They wait for his call every minute of every day. They constantly check their phones to see if they’ve gotten a scrap of attention from him. This can create serious health and emotional disorders. Be social with your friends and make sure you’re going out regularly. Keep your perspective wide open. RULE #21: Be careful, discreet, and alert You’ll want to be very careful who you reveal your relationship to. Not everyone should know that you are dating a married man. As a matter of fact, almost no one should really know. There are too many people that could get hurt if this became common knowledge. And if the married man you’re dating has children or social status, it could also ruin his/their life as well. RULE #22: Get rid of the audit Trail Make sure you delete any and all text messages, or written messages or emails you get from him. Oh I know – you will want to review and reflect on all those juicy messages when you’re alone at times. I’ve known many people who cling to the words of a particularly good text conversation and read it over and over. Just to relive the thrill of it. But you can’t take this risk! Keeping mementos like this could leave you open to all kinds of liability. Especially if they’re found by the wrong person. Remember that congressman, Anthony Weiner? Showing his weiner in all those selfies? Don’t underestimate the power of DUMB. RULE #23: Don’t forget how toxic and addictive this kind of relationship can be Extramarital Affairs are very often the most complicated relationships you can possibly have. I’m not exaggerating that one bit. Dating a married man can be toxic – to him and you depending on the expectations you set up. They can also be addictive for both of you. The Forbidden is often the hardest thing to give up. You can even become addicted to the process of getting together. You might think that you are involved in a kind of “spy fantasy” – dangerous liaisons. Make sure you come back down to earth regularly and reality-check yourself. (One of the best ways I can think of is for you to re-read this article as many times as you can.) RULE #24: Make sure you know what you’re getting out of it It seems like an obvious question to answer, but you got to know what you’re getting out of this relationship. If it’s just sex, NOPE – you can get that anywhere. If it’s a rush of excitement because you’re doing something bad, reconsider the impact of it Make sure you know the true benefit before you go too far down this road. RULE #25: Make sure you know what you’re NOT getting out of it Make sure you also keep a list of all the relationship needs you’re not getting from this relationship. The truth is that while you may have a few things you’re getting, including the high level of excitement and thrill, there’s probably a lot you’re missing out on. Especially if this guy is only looking to have a good time. RULE #26: Make sure you’re not using this relationship to deceive yourself The truth is that many women who get involved with a married man are simply covering up their own commitment phobia. There I said it! The truth is that many women avoid commitment. They don’t realize how they avoid it, but it’s there. And it’s also very easy to blame on another situation. Is it possible you’re just using this relationship to avoid something in your own life? Is it possible you’re in this relationship to maybe get revenge of your own on someone? Someone I knew – a woman – who was cheated on by her husband, left her marriage to him… and immediately started a relationship with another married man! This was someone I knew VERY closely. Eventually, she ended it, but not before she had to face her own truth. Make sure you know what you’re really doing in this relationship and why you’re doing it. As an adult we have to take accountability as well as responsibility. There are probably lots more rules I haven’t even been able to cover here with you. but this should be a good start – if not an overwhelming one. It might sound like you have the world’s most difficult uphill battle. And you may! However, there are many many cases of people who were brought together in a difficult situation like dating a married man and they got it to work eventually. If you handle your relationship using these rules, you will do better than 99% of all other women. You can also get the edge by knowing what those other women don’t know. If you want to be successful with a relationship today, you’ve got to have an unfair advantage. Go find out how to make a man commit – with his heart and soul… Go learn about The Cupid Effect

3 “Weird” Behaviors That Hot Girls Can’t Resist (And Will Get You Laid WAY Faster)
These Flirting Tips For Guys Will Get You Laid–Even During Quarantine… Click Here to Discover 7 Secret “Sex Signs” She’s H*rny & DTF (That Most Men Miss)… Hey it’s David, one of Gotham Club’s experts. So in this video today, I’m going to show you some basic flirting tips for guys. Because even though most of us are under quarantine right now… once we get out of it, stuff is going to get crazy. So these tips will help you handle all the hot girls with pent-up energy once we can all go back out again. THE LATEST: This Simple Card Game Makes Any Woman Fall Deeply in Love With You (Click Here to Get It For FREE)! I’ll straight to the point. Do you know how to be sexy? If you’re being honest, you’re probably struggling to answer that question. So with that, let’s get started. [adning id=”11082″] Catch The Full Video Transcript Below… If you can’t answer that question, don’t worry, that’s completely normal. Being sexy is a little different for everybody. And of course, not all girls will find the same thing sexy. CONTROVERSIAL VIDEO: These Subtle Touch Tricks Get Her Soaking Wet, Naked & On Top of You In Bed (Even If You’re “Just Friends” Right Now)! But I’m going to show you a handful of things that you can do to make yourself sexy to women. It’s not something you have to fake. It’s about the way you talk and interact with them. All you have to do is keep reading and practice the techniques I give you. And once you’ve put in the work, you can answer the question, do you know how to be sexy with an emphatic “Yes!” The way women respond to you will prove it. And you can always come back to this to boost your confidence. Be sure to stay with me for the entire timeso you can take advantage of today’s value bomb with jumpstart your sexiness. [adning id=”11083″] How To Be “Sexy” to Women Without Overextending Yourself… So I’m going to give you three pieces of advice when it comes to being sexy. The first is something that you do internally. The second part is about something that you deliver. And the third part is about something that you’re bringing into the conversation. Now, a lot of the time I like to highlight the decisions she’s making consciously… or let’s say up front, she’s decided something. But then there’s decisions that her body is making. What sexiness is about is those decisions that her body makes. INSIDER SECRETS: 3 Shocking Under-The-Radar Touches That Get Hot Girls to BEG You For Sex… We’re talking about addressing her “gatekeeper” or her “secretary,” which is her conscious mind, who’s deciding whether or not she hangs out with you or sleeps with you. [adning id=”11084″] 1) This Counterintuitive Internal Technique… So the first part of it, and this may sound “woo woo” to you, but trust me, this is powerful. Before I tell you, I’m going to give you an example of this method. I have a friend who when he goes out, he wears a thong. Now, this is quite a masculine guy. He wears this thong because he says it makes him feel sexy. The feeling of sexiness is number one, in being sexy. How you feel sexy is different for different people. One of the things I’m going to recommend in feeling sexy, is go out every night. TRENDING: 3 Tinder Secrets to Find Fast Hookups With Hot Girls… 2) Spend Time Around Women You’d Like to Be With That doesn’t mean go to a club for four hours. But I mean, spend half an hour in a place that is not your home every day for at least five days a week. You want to go out enough that you can continue to continually meet people you don’t know by which I mean women. (If she gives you one of these signs, she’s totally DTF.) 3) Picture Doing THIS To Her… The next thing is, and this is extremely effective, when you’re talking to a woman, imagine having sex with her. Look at her thinking of what you’re going to do to her. Don’t think about what you might fail at or what you might do wrong to turn her off. In other words, that feeling of certainty that I know, what I will do to her and when I’m done, she’s gonna be glad she came here. And she’s gonna be thanking me that when I’m done, I’m going to break her. SHY OR INTROVERTED? Click Here to See Why Talking Less & Doing More of THIS Gets Hot Foreign Girls In Bed With You… Women are drawn to this and are extremely drawn to confidence. So for her if you act like you’re confident, she just believes that’s a fact. And that is extremely sexy for her so imagine what you’re going to do to her. After you’ve used these flirting tips for guys, try this final tip to seal the deal… The “Weirdest” Behavior Right Now (That Will Help You Seal the Deal With Hot Girls) Something that few guys will even think to try… and maybe the weirdest behavior on the list right now: Touch her. During this COVID panic… I can personally vouch for the fact that women are crawling up the walls… DESPERATE to be touched. They can’t just go out to the club… and find a random stranger to hookup with… And their vibrators can only take so much punishment (lol). So while touching a girl is completely “normal” most of the time… right now it’s probably one of the “weirdest” behaviors out there… because there’s so little opportunity to do so! So here’s how you can get a hot girl over to your place… touch her… and bang her … without a first date… … and it’ll not only work for you great right now… but also after all this craziness is over: Step 1: Use This “Get Laid Without Leaving the Couch” Trick (^^^ Ingenious… though a little bit “controversial”) Step 2: Send Her One of These 5 Texts Designed to Get Her to Come Straight Over For Sex I think my favorite is the “Howard Stern Text”… though all of them work equally well… Step 3: Once She’s At Your Place… Touch Her Like THIS to Seal the Deal… P.S. I know you probably can’t go out right now… but now’s the BEST time to learn all this for the upcoming coronavirus orgy that’s going to happen a month or two down the road… So click here now to get this valuable knowledge now so it’s internalized by then… Share this…

Attract Him with the Five Senses – Hearing
Let’s talk about the sense of Hearing. Sound can be very powerful: waves crashing on the shore, leaves crunching under your feet, children laughing, a slot machine that just hit the jackpot. Some sounds relax us, some annoy us, and some seduce us like a compliment from our lover or his whisper or moan. You have the power to impact your husband or even your first date by making sure he’s affected positively by what he hears… Here are some basic dos and don’ts to keep in mind. Do Compliment him. But don’t overdo it. If he looks good, tell him. If he’s talented at something, let him know you are impressed. Speak his language. Talk about current events, sports, work, hobbies and anything else you are both interested in. Laugh at his jokes. It’s music to man’s ears. Listen to your own voice on a recording. Yes, it’s frightening but necessary. You’ll hear where you need improvement. Do you speak too fast, is your tone uneven, do you pepper in “Umm”, “Like…”, or overdo words like “Actually” too often. Say “Yes” instead of “Yeah”. Use one of Jackie O’s tricks. She would speak soft and low so her gentlemen friends would have to lean in closer to hear her. A favorite of mine on romantic dates or anytime you want a seductive effect. Say “Thank-you” often and sincerely. Men desire your appreciation and respect more than anything else. Ask “Would you…” instead of “Could you…” It’s a small thing to us, but the difference between the two is not overlooked by men. They hear “Could you…” as doubt in their abilities. Don’t Don’t talk about your horoscope, past lives, inner child, therapist, or past boyfriends. Save it for your girlfriends. Don’t insult the restaurant that he chose. (if it was horrible, be honest or he won’t trust your sincerity. Say “the service was bad but the company was great.” But only if he brings it up first.) Don’t use “feeling” words. Men understand phrases such as: “Objectively speaking…”, “What’s Logical to me is…”, “I believe…”, “Here’s my take on the situation…” Don’t unload the news of the day, details of your shopping spree, problems with the kids, or work concerns the minute he walks through the door. Men need to unwind and shift gears. Give him at least a half hour… then, leave out everything you can analyze with your girlfriends. He doesn’t need or want to hear about the argument you had with your sister or about the latest office shenanigans. Don’t keep asking him “what’s wrong?” If you sense something is wrong but he doesn’t want to talk about it let him know you are there if wants to talk later and let it go. Men don’t need to analyze five ways till Sunday every lousy feeling they have. Don’t keep nagging him to do a chore. Ask him once and trust it will get done. When you keep nagging, it makes him want to do it less because he feels emasculated by mommy. Don’t tease him or criticize him in public – EVER! The male ego may be large and you may think it needs to be brought down a peg or two with lighthearted teasing at his expense but Ladies, the male ego is the most fragile thing in the world. Build him up to others, don’t tear him down. Don’t try to be one of the guys by telling off color jokes, talking too much or too loud and being “the funny girl”. You are set apart, ladylike, always a little mysterious. He doesn’t need to know every thought you have the moment you have it.

Attract Him With the Five Senses – Sight
If you want to effect a lasting impression on your man, bring all of his senses to life. Today, let’s talk about sight. It’s been proven that when the senses are engaged in an experience, the memory of the experience is stronger. Weather you are newly dating, in a long term relationship or married, paying attention to the sensual aspects of your environment will affect your relationship in a positive way. Let’s explore… Men are awed by women who naturally and easily express their God given sensuality. They are drawn in and mysteriously spell cast by our femininity. Do you make an effort to bring your best self forward in appearance and attitude or have you become complacent from your routine? Here are some ideas to consider with regards to the sense of “sight”. Clothes Men are visual and while you certainly don’t have to look perfect at all times making sure your appearance is put together in a way men respond to is a big key to how attractive he sees you.. Accentuate your best features. If you have great legs, wear skirts more often. If your arms are toned and sexy, show them off. Your clothes should be form fitting showing your womanly curves, but not with everything hanging out. Men prefer a hint of sexuality so they can imagine the rest. Brighter colors are more attractive and stimulating to men than neutral or black. Hair and Make-up It makes men feel cared for and special when their woman cares about her appearance. He wants to feel proud and lucky to have you on his arm and while we all wish love could be completely unconditional and our looks didn’t much matter, the fact is they do. Men aren’t expecting us to look like super models or look perfectly “done” at all times, they just want to see that we take the effort and care about our appearance just as much as we did when we started dating – for ourselves and for them. Men want your hair soft and feminine. Not a severe style that’s loaded with gel and hairspray. I was on a date once with a man who suddenly took his hand and ran it through my hair and commented that he had needed to find out if it was as soft as it looked. While his was a bold move, (it was only our 3rd date) I was instantly grateful that I hadn’t sprayed it into a stiff, hard shell. Hair should look soft and feel soft. We all look better with at least a little make up. While men like make up more natural, it’s important to “wow” him on date night by going the extra mile and playing up your eyes. Your Body You don’t have to be a size 4 or even the size you were when your relationship began, what makes you attractive is when you take effort to keep your present body in shape and healthy. Exercise, eat a well balanced diet, don’t smoke and drink alcohol in moderation. He loves to look at your body sitting, standing, dancing, sleeping and every posture in between. Give him that sensual pleasure and take pride in the assets you were born with. Lingerie What are you wearing under your clothes right now? At the very least make sure your bra and underwear are in good condition and MATCH. Mismatched bras and panties that are torn and faded are NOT attractive. Get rid of them now! Men want to feel like they are unwrapping a beautiful present that is just for them. When you put a little effort into your undergarments men feel special and your stock as a beautiful, sensual woman goes way up. The memory of undressing you to reveal pretty, feminine, lacy lingerie hiding your womanly treasures will burn on his brain for days. Your Home The overall first impression of entering your home and laying eyes on you will have a lasting effect on your man. If your home is a display of clutter and disorganization how attractive do you think that is? The clutter will be associated with YOU. Take time to clean and organize your surroundings before your man comes over for a date or your husband comes home from work. Have fresh flowers in a vase on the table. Light candles, or dim the lights turn off the TV. in favor of background music. If you are newly dating, you probably still do take the extra time with your appearance and home. But if you are in a long term relationship or marriage, ask yourself if you’ve relaxed a bit in these areas. If so, make a change. You will feel better about yourself and your man will feel lucky to be with a sensual woman who takes care of her appearance and environment for HERSELF and for HIM. Memories of you and how his surroundings were relaxing and pleasurable will come back to your man throughout his hectic workday and make him feel connected to you in a positive way.
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Honest Communication in Relationships. Really?
We all SAY we want honest communication with our partners but do we, really? I was chatting with some girlfriends the other day and I told them that I recently asked my boyfriend if there was really much variance in the way different vaginas felt. His answer, though not important to this article, was yes, they do in fact vary in feeling, texture, shape, size. The difference isn’t always subtle. Intriguing…Apart from the obvious: size, I didn’t think there could be much difference. See? Ask and you learn something new and interesting every day! But what I found the most interesting was the reaction of my girlfriends to the fact that I could ask him such a thing. While they wanted to know every detail of my boyfriend’s answer to this question, the thought of asking their own husbands the same question was incomprehensible. “But why?” I asked. “Because I don’t WANT him to think about the other vaginas he’s sampled.” FEAR “Because I don’t WANT to hear him describing the feeling of other vaginas he’s sampled.” INSECURITY “Because I don’t WANT to put the thought of sex with his past girlfriends in his mind.” CONTROL “But he has past experiences and memories that he probably thinks about from time to time, anyway.” I protested. “You’re asking him about them or not won’t control his mind.” “Perhaps”, they both agreed but they didn’t want to be the catalyst for placing those memories front and center if they were currently tucked neatly away. I understood what they were saying and I’m not suggesting everyone “should” go straight home and ask their men for details about the various vaginas they’ve sexed. But it made me wonder about other topics they surely avoid for the same reason. And how choosing to deny that your partner has certain thoughts and feelings usually also results in demanding that he lie to you by confirming your denial. “No, Dear, I couldn’t even imagine having sex with another woman.” “What woman? No, I wasn’t looking at her; I didn’t even notice another woman in the room.” “No, I never ever replay in my mind a sexual encounter that I had before I met you.” If we avoid truth, honesty and open communication because we are insecure or afraid then we place a barrier to the level of intimacy we can share. We claim that we want honesty from our partner and then demand that he lie so that we feel better. I’m not suggesting that unless you can ask your lover to describe the other vaginas he’s felt you are unhealthy. A question like that may never have crossed your mind. The point is, if you do wonder about something -anything-CAN you ask? Or does your fear of the answer paralyze you from action? And what if you do hear the answer? Do you punish him for it later or demand that he coax any insecurity that comes up? Can you separate YOUR emotional need for validation and accept who he is as a separate person with memories, experiences, sexual and otherwise that never included you? Can you let him share those things with you to bring you closer without feeling threatened? I’m the curious sort. I ask all kinds of questions about everything because I am genuinely interested in the answer. I’m not looking for validation, i.e.: “Your vagina feels the bestest!” I’m not looking to set him up by asking for information that I will hold against him in the future. “Remember all those vaginas you talked about? Just HOW MANY are we talking about?! How often do you dream about them?!” But before he understood my goofy questions truly held no secret agenda, he tread so carefully answering them it was like pulling teeth. He was visually uncomfortable. Sometimes he would just shut me down and say he didn’t want to *go there*. When we talked it through he said he felt like I was looking for an angle or leading him somewhere that he’d ultimately be in trouble for. WHY did I ask random questions out of the blue? Surely there was a diabolical, female scheme! a.k.a. “Do I look fat in this?” Women do this all the time. They aren’t interested in the truth; they are looking for verbal salve to mend an insecurity or fear. When my boyfriend relaxed and took a leap of faith and began answering all my goofy, strange and wild questions he began to really like it. We began to have the best talks and our intimacy grew. “I love your silly little questions.” He now says. “I can talk about anything with you.” He knows he can be himself and tell me the truth. He trusts me with the truth of who he is. Our relationship is very intimate and close. He doesn’t have to hide to protect himself or me. The cliché that communication is the most important part of a relationship is true, but it’s not the whole picture. Sometimes it’s not what you say, but what you DON’T say or are AFRAID to say that begins to eat at trust and intimacy. I am a normal woman like any other. I DO have fears and insecurities that creep up sometimes in my relationship. But those are MY RESPONSIBILITY to deal with and work on. Not his. And I DO work on them to always be the best person I can be for myself first and then for him. I won’t demand that he tell me what I need to hear or shade and deny the truth of what he thinks and feels at the expense of the integrity of our relationship. I won’t demand that he make me feel better about my fears. Most times, he’s oblivious that they are even there at all. To him I am this incredible, cool chick that makes him feel accepted and loved for exactly who he is. He says he is more “himself” with me than with anyone before. And that is what I needed to hear!

Ingenious Top 10 Romantic Tips
Marriage is an organization whereby the couple joins in an exceptional type of permissible and social reliance with the objective of initiating the family life as well as taking care of them. The moment we enter into the marital life, we start wondering how we ever survived without our beloved partner. We get completely occupied in each other which help us to have an intimate romantic relationship. Romance novels provides lots of love tips to duos for a joyful married life. You would feel that once you are married you are tied up with lot many responsibilities which can result to fall down of your romantic life, like more concentrated focus on occupational profession, children as well as paying bills. Are you able to find time for your spouse in this materialistic world? If ever you wish to have lifelong romantic relationship with your dearly loved please give them sufficient time. You need to stay focused on your much-loved companion. You need to convey your love to your partner in as many ingenious ways as possible. Let us discuss some romantic techniques in a nutshell. 1. Romantic Message to your partner will always count a lot: There is one simple & exceptional technique which can maintain the spark and fervor going in your martial relationship i.e. highly recommended to send every day reminders to your darling on how much you love & value them. 2. It’s always a best romantic idea to sing a song for your beloved companion. Other way is calling your neighboring radio station, requesting a romantic melody for your partner that express how you feel about them & their romantic relationship. 3.You can go for electrifying romantic long drive which bestows you an exceptional opportunity to be in each other association. It would be an implausible idea to have a walk together on the seashore. Let the nature set the frame of mind for romantic twilight. It would be lovely if you hold the hands of your partner while walking. Be an attentive listener. In this way you can understand your companion in the much better way. 4. Cook the favorite dish of your darling: The most excellent way to reach the heart of any human being is through their stomach. Astonish your partner by serving their preferred feast when they are back to home from the office after the completion of the working hours. They will be overjoyed to have the yummy meals & would surely be grateful for the endeavor and the time you had invested in cooking. 5. It’s good to watch a romantic movie with your companion. Do confirm the timings of the movie time and hang out with each other by having a wonderful time. 6.Only speak up on those subjects that interests your partner & be a caring listener while they talk by showing your concern. No matter the topic is not of your interest, take pleasure in watching your beloved as they get predetermined over the discussion. Please take interest in the leisure pursuit of your partner, like watching the cricket match. Perform it with the spirit of romantic love & enthusiasm. 7. You need to have eye to eye contact with your dearly loved when they have conversation with you. This will confirm that you are giving them complete attention on what they desire to say. One to One contact in the eyes will make your companion feel that you truly admire them & are genuinely interested in what they want to articulate. 8. Always best to plan a romantic date within the specified budget. The moment your partner comes home tell them to get in the car without any queries. Keep smiling so that they don’t get an emergency alarm. Do take your sweetheart to the exact venue of the romantic date, play calm peaceful soothing music and have some appetizing banquet of their choice. 9. Always better to create your own blog or your website. Each day write a short love note for your sweaty pie consistently in your own words and do make an endeavor to express it on your romantic blog. 10. Make an exceptional photograph album for your spouse with unique letters, cards & other back to back reminders. Always keep your wedding photographs on show. Do take some little time to share your old romantic memoirs on your wedding anniversary collectively as you assess them. It will be a great memento on the commencement of your love journey and how it has achieved the joyful goals of love and happiness within the specified period of time. Please write your thoughts in the comments.
do you ever get over your first love?
still dealing with my first real breakup and i still feel so alone. i feel so much love for them still and im scared ill never click like that again with someone. it was a really unique feeling and it makes me feel so sick and anxious when i feel like they were so perfect and ill probably never meet someone i match so well with again. Ive had crushes but even just crushing on him was a totally different feeling, he was my bestfriend for years and i feel like everythings screwed now and im never going to be loved again. Do you ever completely move on and, can you really love the same or even better again? submitted by /u/chadthenotsotough [link] [comments]

Is Coronavirus Killing Our Social Skills?
Is Coronavirus Killing Our Social Skills? | Evan Marc Katz Understand Men. Find Love. Skip to content Once upon a time, there was a global pandemic. It was terrible for the world – tens of millions infected, economies and businesses destroyed, people going hungry, misinformation and blame abounding. But for some individuals, it was a mixed blessing. For extroverts and overly scheduled people, it was a chance to reflect on how busy you were and how many social obligations were draining and unnecessary. For introverts, it was a perfect excuse to stay home and avoid the hustle and bustle of real life. Maybe it was a little TOO much alone time but working from home has turned out to be a pretty positive side effect of coronavirus. You know who really got hurt by lockdown? Kids. Kids, who learn to grow up by interacting with other kids, by joining sports teams, by having playdates, by pushing boundaries set by teachers, by figuring out their own identities. Teenagers, who were already too addicted to their phones, becoming more dependent on them. Pre-adolescents, who were already a little immature, falling a year behind their peers in terms of social maturity. what I teach in Love U is not so much dating advice, but social skills. Which brings us to today’s article, “An Adult’s Guide to Social Skills,” published in the New York Times earlier this year. Reading it was a validation that a lot of what I teach in Love U is not so much dating advice, but social skills. Confidence. Boundaries. Emotional Intelligence. Self-Awareness. Empathy. Communication. It’s a worthwhile read so click here to check it out. In the comments below, please share what you need to work on with your social skills. For me, it’s my fierce and unfortunate loyalty to telling the truth instead of being more tactful and sensitive. It got me fired from a few jobs and still gets me in trouble today…as you can easily see for yourself. Post navigation Happy Clients “Many thanks to, you, Evan. You really know what you’re talking about — and you CARE.” The Inner Circle really has been a learning process for which I’m grateful. In the meantime, I am enjoying a type of peace and ease in a relationship that I’ve never experienced before. That, in itself, is a tremendous gift to me, and worth its weight in gold. Melanie R. “I have read it 10 times already, and keep revisiting it every time I begin to even hint at a moment’s insecurity.” Brilliant! Once you understand where men are coming from, which I would not have been able to do without the help of “Why He Disappeared,” it is very simple! I have never felt so relaxed around him, he knows this and wants to spend more time with me. His choice! Karen M. “I have met a man I can only describe as practically perfect.” Evan’s info gave me the understanding that if a guy is interested in you, he will want to be with you, he will call when he says he will call, he will make sure he arranges time to spend with you. Janis P. Recent Posts Understand Men. Find Love. © 2021 Dating Coach – Evan Marc Katz | Understand Men. Find Love. This website uses cookies to improve your experience. Feel free to opt-out in the cookie settings if you wish. 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6 Truths To Overcome Performance Anxiety With New Women
Preparing for sex with a new partner can feel like preparing for war. Honestly, there are few moments in life when men feel that same intense feeling of dread. I’ve seen men getting ready for a date with a woman with their hands shaking and ready to puke like they’re about to storm the beaches of Normandy. They even go through the same processes… They psyche themselves up to embrace their courage. They try to strategize the tactics they’ll need to be their most effective in battle. And then they consider an escape plan for when things go wrong. But that will never make you eager to jump in bed with someone! That pressure just stresses you out and causes massive performance anxiety. Who wants to start off their romps like that? Luckily, I want to show you that your concerns are largely unfounded. The path to everyone having a great time in bed is simpler than you think. It’s about stripping away all the bullshit of what women are expecting from you. Here are 6 truths to overcome your sexual performance anxiety with new women. Women aren’t expecting your best You might feel the pressure to give women some mind-blowing experience the first time they have sex with you. The reality is that no woman assumes that will be the case. Women understand that when two people are exploring intimacy together, it takes time to align. They know you both will be more anxious. They know things may be a little clumsy to start. In fact, sometimes a bit of awkwardness is a great way to laugh and take the seriousness out of the room. Women know this is a process where you two will uncover what you enjoy. And that you will have to build the right communication patterns together. So if a woman likes you, she will be patient because she knows the best sex is yet to come. They can’t sense your inexperience If you haven’t had much sexual experience, you’re probably worried that women will somehow pick up on it. But women aren’t mind-readers and honestly, there isn’t much physical difference between an experienced man vs. an inexperienced one. It’s still putting your penis in and out of a vagina. If you go a little slower, a little faster, deeper, shallower, it’s not going to make you stand out as a noob. It’s not like she’s thinking, “Wow, this guy thrusts like an amateur!” The only way a woman is likely to know you’re inexperienced is if you tell her or constantly apologize for your performance. If you just do your thing, however it may be, she’ll just think it’s part of the normal discovery process. You don’t need to make them orgasm Porn really messes with our perception of women’s sexual experiences. If you watch enough of it, you might believe that women are supposed to have toe-curling, eye-rolling, guttural-screaming multiple orgasms. Really, many women struggle to orgasm during sex. Or they don’t orgasm every single time. And this is especially true when it’s with new partners. Again, we all have a higher level of anxiety, uncertainty, and are focused on figuring each other out — which makes it harder to come. More importantly, women don’t need to orgasm to have incredible sexual experiences. So much of their pleasure is about the vibe, your closeness, your eye contact, and the feelings you share. Finally, women have so many more nerve endings down there than you do. Sex feels incredible the whole time and the orgasm is just a nice bonus, unlike with men where a lot of the pleasure is during those final moments. If you struggle to stay up, women usually think it’s on them No one wants to show up to the batting plate with a wet noodle. But the pressure to stay hard causes anxiety and keeps you soft. When you’re feeling anxious, it’s almost impossible to feel aroused as well. We can only hold one strong emotion at a time. So let me provide some relief: If for some reason you don’t stay hard, women usually assume it’s something about them or the circumstances. They’re more concerned if they’re hot enough or if you’re enjoying yourself. They’re not thinking, “This guy can’t get it up, what’s his problem?” I’m not saying you should mislead women or put the blame on them. Rather, if you just let them know, “Hey no stress, not sure what’s going on, but I’m having a great time with you regardless.” then they can still have fun, too. Remember, the entire experience for women is about so much more than penetration or the orgasm. And as a reminder… If you can’t use your member, you’ve always got your hands (or tongue) Your junk ain’t working? Guess what? You’re in luck! Your other appendages are always good to go and they feel amazing to women. Let’s imagine you’re struggling to get it up. If you don’t make it a big deal then she won’t see it as one. Remove the pressure to keep trying and instead offer to please her for a while. Vice versa, you can also ask her to touch and play with you, too. If you’ve never just made out, messed around, laughed, and ran your hands all over each other with a new woman — you should absolutely try it. It’s a ton of fun and helps reinforce that it’s not always about the end goal but the journey. Funnily enough, when you lose yourself with a woman like this, that freedom paves the way for more arousal. So many times I’ve talked to men who stopped trying to penetrate a woman, fooled around for a while, and then found themselves ready to rock and roll. Women are most concerned with your enjoyment Like I said, women aren’t expecting you to knock their socks off from the get go. I think so many guys imagine women going through a 10-point checklist of their performance during sex. They envision that girl moving down the list: “doesn’t thrust deep enough”, “too quiet”, “sweating too much”. Or they imagine a woman actively comparing them to other men in the moment. The reality is, they are just as concerned about providing you with a good experience as you are with them. (At least someone who gives a shit about your enjoyment is.) And if not, that’s not someone you should worry about connecting with further. Their checklist is more like, “Is he turned on?”, “How do my stretch marks look?”, “Does this position look flattering?”, “How do I smell down there?”, or “Do I look chubby like this?” So instead of focusing on your technique and stamina, connect to the moment. Feel the physical sensations, listen to her sexy voice, and explore the positions or ideas that excite you deeply. These are all things that are easily within your control. Let yourself feel the softness of her skin. Relish in how good her vagina feels or how her hands feel like silk wrapping your dick. Let her soft moans run down your spine and travel through your core. Look her in the eyes while you enter her. Don’t hold back — let the sensation of moving in and out of her run through you and make you moan in ecstasy. If she can see you’re having fun, she’ll feel the same way. And she’ll leave the experience with only positive associations. — In reality, having sex with a new partner is not like war at all. If anything, it’s like your first dance together. It’s about exploration, feeling the vibe, and slowly getting in rhythm with each other. New sexual experiences are supposed to feel fun, not fatal. It is not a do or die situation. It does not demand perfection. And if you mess up, you will have many more chances to fight again. The best thing you can do is lower the expectations for yourself. Because honestly, that’s all women want from you, too. Now this isn’t to diminish real ongoing issues like finishing too quickly. If you’ve struggled with premature ejaculation, I know that can be a huge source of sexual performance anxiety. And it’s not easily resolved with a few words in a blog post. That’s why I’m excited to announce Love Longer, a new video course from my sex coach at Reconnected, Keeley Rankin. It’s a step-by-step master class to delay your orgasm, be a better lover, and enjoy anxiety-free sex. Ready to gain more control over your performance? Start lasting longer now.
Jealousy

How To Make Him Jealous – And Love You More! – 12 Secrets
One of the most common problems a woman has is when a guy seems to be losing interest. And you know that one of the best ways to get him interested again it’s figuring out how to make him jealous – and how to make him love you again. It always seems like he’s got another priority above you. You never feel like you’re at the top of his list. And you probably know that “stoking the fire” with his emotions is a way to inspire him. Look, jealousy works. I’m going to show you how to use this powerful emotion to your advantage. Because he should be feeling a little insecure from time to time, right? The reality is that we all get a little bit jaded. We start to take our significant other for granted, and we don’t pay attention like we should. Men are especially prone to this. And every so often he needs a good kick in the butt. “But Carlos, why jealousy? Isn’t this manipulation?” Well, if you ask any woman who has a guy who isn’t making HER a priority, she doesn’t care one bit how she gets the attention she deserves. She just knows she wants it. And you should get that attention! If you’re jealous of the time he’s spending with his friends, or with other people instead of you, then you know exactly how you want him to feel about you. Jealousy can definitely be used for good in your relationship because it can: Make him remember your value Make him remember his feelings that he may have put aside Remind him how blessed and lucky he is to have you Show him that you are still attractive and desirable, and other men want you Make him understand that you are not permanently obligated to be his Remind him how much he wanted you before the complacency set in – just get rid of whatever “boredom” he might be feeling Rule #1: Use jealousy ONLY for good. Never to manipulate. The reason I’m showing you this method is because it’s ETHICAL – because it’s for a WIN-WIN. WARNING: When I show you psychological tricks like this, I assume that you are a good person. That you would never misuse or abuse these strategies. The other part is, it’s not manipulation when we are doing it with heart. If you know you are coaxing your man to do the right thing, then it’s never manipulation. It’s inspiration. Jealousy is one of the most powerful emotions. It’s like super-concentrated explosive. Just a little goes a long way. Jealousy is a warning – that something important to you is about to be lost. Or possibly taken away. Jealousy will absolutely keep you ON HIS MIND. I’m guessing you’ve probably felt jealous about something at some point in your life. Everyone has. Jealousy is intense and it gets you moving like nothing else. Jealousy motivates you to take action immediately to protect what you have. And that’s why it’s so important to use jealousy effectively if you’re going to make a man pay attention to you. You’ve got to get this guy off his butt and working to win your heart again. If you don’t, he will just keep losing interest and eventually fade away. Or, more likely, he will simply find someone else. And who will be jealous then? Unfortunately, probably you. So let’s make sure that doesn’t happen! Rule #2: Jealousy is powerful, only use a little tiny bit. The one problem with jealousy is if you use too much, you can poison your relationship. So go easy and don’t overdo it. You don’t want to create toxic feelings between you and him. Especially if he thinks you are playing games. (Which, if you do as I explain, this won’t happen.) Jealousy has explosive power, which is important for you to leverage. Keep Him On His Toes – Jealousy Tactic 1: Remember Yourself Look, the reality is that when you’re in a relationship, sometimes you forget to make yourself a priority. This happens frequently for women. When you do, you stop showing him how he should treat you. Remember the saying: “We teach others how to treat us.” We do this by how we treat ourselves. Make yourself a priority again! Pamper yourself Remind yourself of your strengths Remember your personal power In order for a man to really value you, he has to see that you value yourself. So you must always start with getting back to basics. Make sure you are tending to your own feelings of self-worth. Jealousy Tip 2: Drop a firecracker One of the best ways to remind a guy what he could lose is to remind him that you were not always pining away for him. You had other boyfriends who really appreciated you. Drop a small firecracker near him by mentioning something from your dating past. Don’t be obvious with this, make sure it’s something that fits into the conversation. For example: You’re talking about where to go on vacation and what to pack. You could say: “Yeah, I remember when Tim (your ex) and I went to Hawaii. We didn’t bring nearly enough clothes. And we had to do laundry. We should avoid that if we can.” You don’t need to flaunt what you did with Tim, just mention his name casually. You don’t even need to go into specifics. Your guy’s “Boyfriend Brain” will do the rest for you. A word of caution: Do not mention sex with previous boyfriends. This is going too far and could likely backfire on you. Your current guy will interpret your mentioning this as trying to start a fight. Don’t go there. Jealousy Tip 3: Be a little extra flirty If a woman wants to be constantly in demand, she must always play the role of the Coquette. In fact, Coquette actually means “a woman who flirts.” ALL of the most desirable women flirt a little bit. Never disrespectful to their partners, but just enough to remind him that you’ve got options. For example, the next time you meet up with some friends, make sure you give the guy friends a little extra hug. Maybe even a peck on the cheek. In fact, at this point I want to make sure you’re aware of something: No matter how innocently or casually you flirt, a man will always use anger to demonstrate his jealousy. Yes, this means he might get a little bit mad. (If he gets really mad, that means he has some anger issues or you just went too far.) When a guy gets mad, most women seek to pacify him. High demand women don’t coddle his reaction. Let him be a little mad. He’s not really mad at you, he’s mad that he feels threatened. Guess when a man will put in the most effort? When will he work the hardest to keep you? Exactly – when he’s threatened. That’s when he gets his butt in gear and gets moving. Isn’t that what you wanted? If so then don’t let your fear of his emotional reaction (anger) stop you. As the saying goes, if you want to make an omelette you have to break a few eggs. Don’t wuss out! Jealousy Tip 4: Pause the flow Chances are he’s gotten very used to you responding to his texts right away. You probably do this thinking that it is respectful and how you would want him to treat you. The problem is that we don’t treat people the way we are treated. We treat people the way they treat themselves. So my next suggestion for you is that you Pause The Flow – slow down on texting him. If you usually text him every single day in the morning, stop. Increase the time in between your texts. If he usually texts you back on his lunch break, wait a little extra longer before you text him back. The more he waits on you, the more he’s thinking about you. It’s a simple rule. If a guy feels like he’s got you wrapped around his finger, he’s going to get lazy with his attention and his affection for you. He’ll take his sweet time to respond to you figuring that he’s got you all locked up, nice and neat. It’s your goal to break this assumption in his head. Shake up his world. The more you can make him doubt his hold on you, the better. Then he goes back to trying to win you over again. The way he should have from the very start. Remember, a man isn’t yours until he begs you to marry him. Most women give up the game way too early. And as a result they end up chasing their man for the rest of their lives, instead of him chasing you. Which one would you rather have? Jealousy Tip 5: Touch Tactic Every so often it’s a good idea to casually touch another guy in your man’s presence. What I mean by this is, just a momentary hand on the arm of some other guy while you’re with your man is a good idea. It’s innocent enough that he can’t really make a big deal out of it. (But don’t you worry, he will. And he may even try to make it sound like it’s your fault.) Don’t fall for his games! You know that you’re just innocently flirting. If he can’t handle it, he’s now just realizing that he doesn’t have the hold on you he thought he did. Time for him to wake up and smell the coffee! Jealousy Tip 6: Go Out Somewhere Fun & Social – with the girls! If you’re not already spending time with your friends, you may have fallen victim to one of the biggest traps of dating and relationships: the Trap of forgetting your friends. A lot of women fall into a pattern of giving all of their time to their boyfriend. This is one of the ways you can really sabotage your relationship. You should be going out with your girlfriends at least once a month if you can. Definitely no less than once every two months. And of course going to lunch here and there as well. But you should definitely get out to have a dinner and drinks with some of your friends. No men allowed. (Except the ones that hit on you, of course!) You should text him a picture of you looking all dressed up and ready to go out. You get extra points if you can make sure there’s at least one single girl in your group. This will give him a little apprehension that will keep you on his mind. Jealousy Tip 7: Meet a stranger Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be friendly and social. In fact, it’s a good idea to talk to new people from time to time – even men. If you happen to get approached by a guy who starts a conversation, don’t rush away in a panic that you’re somehow cheating on your boyfriend all of a sudden. In fact, if you find yourself worrying about this sort of thing when talking to new people, you should check in with yourself and figure out why. Make friends with new people. Expand your Social Circle. And if a guy happens to talk to you, you’ve got nothing to feel guilty about. In fact, you might even want to mention it in conversation later on to your man. Jealousy Tip 8: Compliment his buddy Assuming that he has decent quality friends, then you should from time to time pass them a compliment. Not in an overt sexual kind of way or anything, just a nice compliment. Maybe it’s about something he’s wearing, or a smart decision he made. Always feel free to be generous with your appreciation of others. Mind you, if you’re not complimenting your man regularly, this can seem a little bit touchy. Make sure you’re still appreciating him before you use this strategy of complimenting someone else. He wants your praise. And he will work hard to get it! Jealousy Tip 9: Ignore him for a bit If you’ve ever felt ignored or been ignored before, then you know the power of this! Every so often he needs to feel what it would be like to NOT have you. Make him wonder what you’re doing and what you’re up to without him. Plant the seeds of doubt and insecurity in HIM for once. (Instead of YOU!) Just choose one evening or whole day of the week and don’t respond to him at all. No calls or texts. Then just pick it up right where you left off in the next morning. Like there was no gap. Think about it this way, if you are a high-demand woman, would you be responding to him within seconds of his every text or call? NO, you wouldn’t! You’d be too busy paying attention to your own life – your friends, and social circle. And that would be a healthy thing to do! Remember: Always act like the high-demand woman you wish to be. Make sure he knows that you’re NOT available for him every moment of every day. Well, at least not until he finally proposes to you. Jealousy Tip 10: Go spend some time with a male friend There’s absolutely nothing wrong with spending a little quality time with your friends. And if that friend happens to be a guy, so what? As long as there’s no funny business, then there’s nothing to discuss here. You are completely in the clear if you want to do it. And you should do it, and let your boyfriend know about it. Go meet for a friendly dinner, nothing romantic. Stir up some emotion in your man as he starts planning how to chase you again. Jealousy Tip 11: Start dressing up again There’s a good chance you may have fallen into patterns of dressing in a more “casual” way after your relationship got going. After all, you don’t need to win him anymore do you? (Sorry, those yoga pants should not be your default attire. Get back to some fashion!) And the truth of the matter is, you need to feel valued yourself! When you dress up and go out: other men will pay attention to you you’ll feel better about yourself you’ll probably get compliments and attention from lots of people you’re keeping the mindset of a high-value woman! And of course, this will get his gears turning. He’ll wonder why you suddenly decided to care about your appearance again. All you have to tell him is: “I just wanted to get back to my old self.” Let him figure out what that means. Jealousy Tip 12: When other guys approach you or ask you out, let him know about it As soon as you start treating yourself like the high-value woman you are, other men will notice. Other men will approach you and talk to you and probably ask you out. I’m just warning you because it’s going to feel great. You’re going to wonder why you didn’t do this before. Maybe you’ll feel a little bit squirmy about it, but you’ll get over that when you realize what you were missing out on. And when other guys start paying attention to you, you should soak it in. Don’t misuse or exploit it, but definitely let it encourage and validate you a little. And also let this realization really hit you: You’re desirable! How does that feel? To know that? And when a guy does hit on you or ask you out, casually mention it to your man. Let him absorb that concept fully. Let him realize that he also needs to work to keep your attention. This is a healthy thing. Jealousy Tip 13: Post a picture of you with other male friends Sometimes social media is a great tool for reminding your man what he needs to pay attention to. The next time you’re out with some male friends or coworkers, take a selfie with a few of them. Post it on your Facebook page, or in Instagram. Then listen as your man starts asking all kinds of questions about it. And he gets back to work on chasing YOU! Jealousy Tip 14: Talk Up A Movie Star Back when I first met my wife, she had a crush on Brad Pitt. He was probably the only Hollywood star she thought was hot. And every time she talked about him part of me would bristle. After all, why isn’t she talking about me like that? (Besides the fact that I’m no Brad Pitt) The truth of the matter is, most Hollywood stars wouldn’t be very fun to date. They may look attractive, but their personalities are not appealing to say the least. But that shouldn’t stop you from letting your boyfriend know about that one sexy celebrity that you love to look at. Especially if you can bring it up in conversation around some of your girlfriends. Let him know – subtly – that this celeb really gets you going. You can do it with a simple glowing look and smile, or a deep “mmmmmmm….” when you see a picture. It can also be inspiration to get him exercising again and caring about his appearance. He knows on some level that he can’t compare to the status of a hot movie star, and probably never will. And this is something that all men struggle a little bit with. Why not use it to wake him up a little bit? To get him to want to win you over all over again. Every so often, if he’s back to working on his appearance, then compliment him on it! Jealousy Tip 15: Cancel a date When a guy starts taking you for granted, there’s a very good chance he just assumes you’re always going to be there for him. And chances are you have been too available for him. When you are always there when he asks, and always available to go out when he feels like asking you, you’re diminishing your value. Imagine if you were trying to negotiate a better price on a car. And you say to the salesman: “Wow! I gotta have this car! It’s perfect.” Right at that moment, the salesman knows he’s GOT you. He doesn’t have to lower his price one bit because you’ve made it clear you’ll pay whatever he asks. It’s the same thing in relationships! If you’re too easy, don’t be surprised if the other person takes advantage of this. Every so often, cancel a date on him. Let him know that you won’t always be available at his beck and call. Let him have a few doubts about his hold on you. It was these doubts that made him work to win you in the first place! What Happens After He Feels A Little Jealous? Will He Come Back? Don’t be surprised if he comes back to you with double the energy, once you’ve inspired him to stop taking you for granted. Most men who are still emotionally attached will actually ENJOY the rush of feeling emotions about you again. It will awaken his desire. On the other hand, if he doesn’t feel jealous for some reason, then you’ve got a serious problem to look at. If he isn’t jealous, this shows that you no longer inspire fear of loss in him. It probably means he isn’t in love anymore. Not only this, but it might mean that he’s already started dating or looking at dating other people. If you can’t get a man to feel a little jealous, this means you have no influence over him – and that means you better act FAST. And if this is the case, you need a more serious plan to get him interested in you again. So, these jealousy tactics are not just good for waking him up – they can be an early warning system for a relationship in trouble. Jealousy, when properly used, is a very effective tool in your arsenal. Don’t be afraid to use it! Not to hurt the other person, but to make a point – remind him that you’re not going to be taken advantage of. Or for granted… Or ignored! Go take a look at this plan for getting him to feel irresistible desire for you…

Jealousy and Envy: Duo of Self-Destruction
“I wish I had a body like that.” These words slipped from my mind and out of my mouth recently when I was at a party and I noticed a fit (and also nearly middle aged) friend of mine looking amazing in a mini-skirt. In what seemed like a split second, I spoke words that not only expressed my desire to look that fabulous in a mini-skirt, but also my own insecurities about my current body size and shape. One of my passions in life is to affirm the beauty in all people and, specifically, to help women accept and love their bodies and themselves more fully. How embarrassed I was to have this envious statement come from me! But, it happens to just about every one of us, even those who work hard on personal growth. Jealousy and envy creep up and come out in our thoughts, words and actions– sometimes when we least expect them. You are probably well aware of how damaging jealousy can be to a love relationship, marriage or even a friendship. You may struggle with fears that your partner will leave you for someone more attractive/successful/sexy/funny or whatever. This can manifest in interrogation, accusation and spying too. You might jealously worry that your friends will stop inviting you out or stop confiding in you because there are “so many” others who are better friends/cooler/more fun/more interesting or whatever your insecure mind comes up with. You may be envious of the “good luck,” passionate relationship, prosperous bank account, creative talents or amazingly fit body of friends, family or strangers walking down the street. Jealousy and envy can wreak havoc on a relationship with another person. Distance and conflict are inevitable after-effects that can lead to a breakup or the end of the relationship. This unwanted duo is also painful and destructive to you. There is no doubt that trying to keep a relationship or friendship together when you are weighed down by habitual jealous or envious thoughts is difficult. Adding to this is the emotional pain and exhaustion that often accompany this way of thinking, believing and acting. It’s a lot of work to carry around all of these doubting, fearful, worrisome and self-deprecating beliefs! Your self esteem tends to plummet, you might experience physical and emotional health problems and it’s nearly impossible to enjoy the life you have and reach your goals. Recognize jealousy and envy when they first crop up. A common reaction to noticing uncomfortable thoughts or feelings is to ignore or push them down. This is understandable, but not beneficial. When that envious statement came out of my mouth at the party, I very quickly felt like crawling in a hole. I felt immature and not very enlightened or healthy about my own body image. Despite urges you might have to deny or numb out so that you can’t “hear” your jealous or envious thoughts, it’s really in your best interests to acknowledge them and do so as soon as you notice them. It’s just about always easier to tend to destructive habits when they’re just cropping up and before they intensify and solidify. This is common sense, but very few of us take the time to actually do it. So, here’s your (and my) reminder to be courageous and acknowledge jealousy and envy as soon as you notice them. Don’t make yourself “wrong” or even “right” or “justified” for thinking and feeling this way, just notice. Even if you catch yourself in the middle of speaking out loud or taking action from a place of jealousy or envy, catch yourself and pause. Focus in on acknowledging what’s real for you in the moment without judgment and without continuing down that habitual path. Pay attention to what jealousy and envy are trying to tell you. It’s time to get curious. Thoughts like, “I wish I had a body like that” don’t just form from nothing. There is almost always a deeper story and set of beliefs and desires that link up to jealousy and envy. Any fearful, worrisome or self-deprecating thoughts, words and actions are more than what they seem. They are rarely just off-the- cuff remarks. They indicate places where you are possibly hurting, insecure or wanting a change. Instead of merely brushing off your jealousy and envy– because it’s more comfortable to do so– take that second and deeper look at what your thoughts, words and actions are trying to tell you. *What is possibly unresolved and yet to heal from your past?*What might be going on right now that is not in alignment with your values and goals?*What do you desire to change about yourself or to experience differently?*What is (at least) one thing you can do to challenge those limiting beliefs and start to make a shift? Again, move away from labeling any part of this process “right,” “wrong,” “good” or “bad.” Really listen and learn from your jealousy and envy and then decide what your next move will be

Ruining Your Life: 7 Steps to Stop Jealousy & Bitterness
Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Email WhatsApp Pinterest Print Sometimes you feel jealous of other people’s happiness, success, or love life. You should be happy for the other person but compassion is difficult when you are feeling broken inside or if your life is falling to pieces. Your desire to love others and have a relationship may be overwhelming; you could also be seeking more from life and work. Feelings of jealousy, frustration, and even depression could be caused by your jealousy. You need to stop this jealousy to move on with your life. Jealousy can have negative consequences. Feelings of lust and rage manifest itself in jealousy. The key is to acknowledge your jealousy and respond appropriately. You can’t simply run away from your situation. Steps To Overcome Jealousy The following steps will help you to overcome your bitterness and jealousy. 1: Find Solitude When jealousy strikes you will need to give it attention. Find a quiet spot where you will not be interrupted and that makes you feel peaceful. 2: Accept Your Emotions You already know you are feeling jealous so you need to feel the emotion. Acknowledge it but do not overindulge in the jealousy. Consider why you are feeling jealous. Is it simply because the other person has something you want? Or is it because of your own unhappiness with your life? Exploring your feelings of jealousy may lead you to realize your hidden wants. 3: Understand The Lesson Every emotion is trying to teach you something about yourself. The feelings of being jealous is usually a result of sadness or fear. Use this feeling to help you change and make it a positive situation. Accept who you are and let go of any grudges you may have against other people. 4: Observe Your Emotions You cannot avoid negative emotions so embrace the problem but do not become attached to it. Feelings will come and go, including the jealous emotions you currently experience. It does not have to affect your life forever but will reveal details about your beliefs and expectations. Read More: Emotions: Affection Or Withholding Revenge 5: Identify Toxic Issues Jealousy can often stem from toxic situations or environments. Identify these issues in your life and let go of them. You need to stay away from toxic thoughts as it will make you miserable and cloud your judgment. If you cannot change the toxic environment then you will need to change your outlook on life to stop the jealous attitude. 6: Take a Break If you are jealous and this emotion is triggered by friends or family then you need to take time for yourself. Tell the people in your life that you need to unwind and need time to relax. This will buffer your jealousy and give you space to understand your emotions. 7: Self-help Strategies Support your reflection with other self-help strategies. You can spend time meditating or doing exercise. Affirmations and reading self-help books can aid you in overcoming your emotions. Jealousy can prevent you from having good relationships. Address the situation and discover your emotions to understand the roots of your jealousy. Once you have understood what is happening, head on over to GoMarry.com for more expert tips and relationship advice.
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Honest Communication in Relationships. Really?
We all SAY we want honest communication with our partners but do we, really? I was chatting with some girlfriends the other day and I told them that I recently asked my boyfriend if there was really much variance in the way different vaginas felt. His answer, though not important to this article, was yes, they do in fact vary in feeling, texture, shape, size. The difference isn’t always subtle. Intriguing…Apart from the obvious: size, I didn’t think there could be much difference. See? Ask and you learn something new and interesting every day! But what I found the most interesting was the reaction of my girlfriends to the fact that I could ask him such a thing. While they wanted to know every detail of my boyfriend’s answer to this question, the thought of asking their own husbands the same question was incomprehensible. “But why?” I asked. “Because I don’t WANT him to think about the other vaginas he’s sampled.” FEAR “Because I don’t WANT to hear him describing the feeling of other vaginas he’s sampled.” INSECURITY “Because I don’t WANT to put the thought of sex with his past girlfriends in his mind.” CONTROL “But he has past experiences and memories that he probably thinks about from time to time, anyway.” I protested. “You’re asking him about them or not won’t control his mind.” “Perhaps”, they both agreed but they didn’t want to be the catalyst for placing those memories front and center if they were currently tucked neatly away. I understood what they were saying and I’m not suggesting everyone “should” go straight home and ask their men for details about the various vaginas they’ve sexed. But it made me wonder about other topics they surely avoid for the same reason. And how choosing to deny that your partner has certain thoughts and feelings usually also results in demanding that he lie to you by confirming your denial. “No, Dear, I couldn’t even imagine having sex with another woman.” “What woman? No, I wasn’t looking at her; I didn’t even notice another woman in the room.” “No, I never ever replay in my mind a sexual encounter that I had before I met you.” If we avoid truth, honesty and open communication because we are insecure or afraid then we place a barrier to the level of intimacy we can share. We claim that we want honesty from our partner and then demand that he lie so that we feel better. I’m not suggesting that unless you can ask your lover to describe the other vaginas he’s felt you are unhealthy. A question like that may never have crossed your mind. The point is, if you do wonder about something -anything-CAN you ask? Or does your fear of the answer paralyze you from action? And what if you do hear the answer? Do you punish him for it later or demand that he coax any insecurity that comes up? Can you separate YOUR emotional need for validation and accept who he is as a separate person with memories, experiences, sexual and otherwise that never included you? Can you let him share those things with you to bring you closer without feeling threatened? I’m the curious sort. I ask all kinds of questions about everything because I am genuinely interested in the answer. I’m not looking for validation, i.e.: “Your vagina feels the bestest!” I’m not looking to set him up by asking for information that I will hold against him in the future. “Remember all those vaginas you talked about? Just HOW MANY are we talking about?! How often do you dream about them?!” But before he understood my goofy questions truly held no secret agenda, he tread so carefully answering them it was like pulling teeth. He was visually uncomfortable. Sometimes he would just shut me down and say he didn’t want to *go there*. When we talked it through he said he felt like I was looking for an angle or leading him somewhere that he’d ultimately be in trouble for. WHY did I ask random questions out of the blue? Surely there was a diabolical, female scheme! a.k.a. “Do I look fat in this?” Women do this all the time. They aren’t interested in the truth; they are looking for verbal salve to mend an insecurity or fear. When my boyfriend relaxed and took a leap of faith and began answering all my goofy, strange and wild questions he began to really like it. We began to have the best talks and our intimacy grew. “I love your silly little questions.” He now says. “I can talk about anything with you.” He knows he can be himself and tell me the truth. He trusts me with the truth of who he is. Our relationship is very intimate and close. He doesn’t have to hide to protect himself or me. The cliché that communication is the most important part of a relationship is true, but it’s not the whole picture. Sometimes it’s not what you say, but what you DON’T say or are AFRAID to say that begins to eat at trust and intimacy. I am a normal woman like any other. I DO have fears and insecurities that creep up sometimes in my relationship. But those are MY RESPONSIBILITY to deal with and work on. Not his. And I DO work on them to always be the best person I can be for myself first and then for him. I won’t demand that he tell me what I need to hear or shade and deny the truth of what he thinks and feels at the expense of the integrity of our relationship. I won’t demand that he make me feel better about my fears. Most times, he’s oblivious that they are even there at all. To him I am this incredible, cool chick that makes him feel accepted and loved for exactly who he is. He says he is more “himself” with me than with anyone before. And that is what I needed to hear!

Ingenious Top 10 Romantic Tips
Marriage is an organization whereby the couple joins in an exceptional type of permissible and social reliance with the objective of initiating the family life as well as taking care of them. The moment we enter into the marital life, we start wondering how we ever survived without our beloved partner. We get completely occupied in each other which help us to have an intimate romantic relationship. Romance novels provides lots of love tips to duos for a joyful married life. You would feel that once you are married you are tied up with lot many responsibilities which can result to fall down of your romantic life, like more concentrated focus on occupational profession, children as well as paying bills. Are you able to find time for your spouse in this materialistic world? If ever you wish to have lifelong romantic relationship with your dearly loved please give them sufficient time. You need to stay focused on your much-loved companion. You need to convey your love to your partner in as many ingenious ways as possible. Let us discuss some romantic techniques in a nutshell. 1. Romantic Message to your partner will always count a lot: There is one simple & exceptional technique which can maintain the spark and fervor going in your martial relationship i.e. highly recommended to send every day reminders to your darling on how much you love & value them. 2. It’s always a best romantic idea to sing a song for your beloved companion. Other way is calling your neighboring radio station, requesting a romantic melody for your partner that express how you feel about them & their romantic relationship. 3.You can go for electrifying romantic long drive which bestows you an exceptional opportunity to be in each other association. It would be an implausible idea to have a walk together on the seashore. Let the nature set the frame of mind for romantic twilight. It would be lovely if you hold the hands of your partner while walking. Be an attentive listener. In this way you can understand your companion in the much better way. 4. Cook the favorite dish of your darling: The most excellent way to reach the heart of any human being is through their stomach. Astonish your partner by serving their preferred feast when they are back to home from the office after the completion of the working hours. They will be overjoyed to have the yummy meals & would surely be grateful for the endeavor and the time you had invested in cooking. 5. It’s good to watch a romantic movie with your companion. Do confirm the timings of the movie time and hang out with each other by having a wonderful time. 6.Only speak up on those subjects that interests your partner & be a caring listener while they talk by showing your concern. No matter the topic is not of your interest, take pleasure in watching your beloved as they get predetermined over the discussion. Please take interest in the leisure pursuit of your partner, like watching the cricket match. Perform it with the spirit of romantic love & enthusiasm. 7. You need to have eye to eye contact with your dearly loved when they have conversation with you. This will confirm that you are giving them complete attention on what they desire to say. One to One contact in the eyes will make your companion feel that you truly admire them & are genuinely interested in what they want to articulate. 8. Always best to plan a romantic date within the specified budget. The moment your partner comes home tell them to get in the car without any queries. Keep smiling so that they don’t get an emergency alarm. Do take your sweetheart to the exact venue of the romantic date, play calm peaceful soothing music and have some appetizing banquet of their choice. 9. Always better to create your own blog or your website. Each day write a short love note for your sweaty pie consistently in your own words and do make an endeavor to express it on your romantic blog. 10. Make an exceptional photograph album for your spouse with unique letters, cards & other back to back reminders. Always keep your wedding photographs on show. Do take some little time to share your old romantic memoirs on your wedding anniversary collectively as you assess them. It will be a great memento on the commencement of your love journey and how it has achieved the joyful goals of love and happiness within the specified period of time. Please write your thoughts in the comments.
Is Marriage Counseling a Good Option for me?
You Need To Visit A Marriage Counselor The decision of seeking marriage counseling can be hard or your partner may not be willing. But during transition periods of life, a lack of communication, mistrust, sense of infidelity may need counseling of the expert. Marriage counselors often have credentials and expertise in that particular field but you may have to try out a few to find the best fit for you for counseling. Admitting that your partnership or marriage is having problems that cannot mend on their own can be the hardest part. But going to the therapist when it’s on the verge of breaking is not a good decision. Counseling would help you to see your partner as actually who they are and mend your trust and have open communication with each other to strengthen your relationship or will help you to realize firm reasons for separation. Marriage Counselling – An Overview Marriage counseling or couples therapy is psychotherapy for resolving conflicts, increasing understanding for a crisis in marriage, and premarital counseling by experts licensed in marriage and family therapy. It generally is a short-term therapy. But the length and participation depend on the situation. In case of participation sometimes one of the partners does not want to attend it. In that case alone, participation also helps. In some cases, one of them may need medical assistance for substance abuse or mental illness along with counseling sessions to address the whole problem. Why You May Need Marriage Counseling Many couples take part in marriage counseling initially for mainly three reasons: Money Lack of physical intimacy Parenting But according to the interview of Hal Runkel, a marriage and family therapist and McNulty, a master trainer at Gottman Institute on bussinessinsider.com these are never the main reasons. Generally, insecurities, communication problems, and the feeling that a person has to change themselves in order to be with the other are the reasons people seek therapy. Many ongoing events and underlying emotions can lead to this kind of broken relationship. Communication problem Sexual problems Lack of open communication Transitions e.g. marriage, childbirth, retirement Domestic abuse Substance abuse A counselor would understand both of your narratives, observe your responses, and help you to unwind and take rational and best decisions. A counselor would decipher the meaning behind the complaints. It helps you to take the focus out of your lives and problems and put it on yourselves and the expectations from each other, and find a solution that is best for both. Signs That You Need Marriage Counseling A Gap Of Communication: When you don’t communicate, going back is really difficult. More than frequent arguments and negative communication evokes a sense of shaming, belittling, and disrespect. Negative communication also includes emotional abuse. If your partner is becoming hard to approach and almost anything from money to sex and the aftertaste of every communication feels bitter, it’s time you visit a counselor. Negative communication mostly leads to shutting down to each other and deterioration of mental health. Lack Of Physical Intimacy: When married couples turn into roommates the distance between them also increases mentally. Physical intimacy is a legit way to communicate the attitude towards each other. The way couples get intimate can indicate their love, care, and trust for each other. Lack of physical intimacy for a long time means two of you are getting disinterested in each other. Another spectrum of this is, if sex is given as punishment and your partner becomes controlling and angry most of the time, it’s likely your partner is abusing you. Transition: Major life changes like childbirth and retirement can create a distance between partners and have an impact on their marriage. Many couples go for counseling before marriage to iron out all their differences and strengthen their relationship. Premarital counseling always helps in the long run. After childbirth, parents generally don’t get to take time out for themselves, and ignorance and misunderstanding can increase. But in most cases, parenting is not the core of the problem. The core problem is a lost connection and a sense of infidelity. Addiction Of Substance: If one of the partners is addicted to alcohol, drugs, and other substances, that can lead to domestic abuse, ill health, and mental problems. If your partner or you has an addiction and if that is ruining your relationship you should go to a counselor who will also recommend medical treatment and other therapies. Domestic Abuse: Abusive partners are difficult to deal with and can be ruining his or her spouse and their children’s lives in which case, solo-counseling is a must. If your partner hurts you physically and mentally, if you are afraid to talk to them and if there is a radical change in a short time, that is if they are harmful and rude one moment and the other moment is full of affection, then those are signs of abuse. Having An Affair: If one or both of the partners are having an extramarital affair, things can get complicated and some couples go to counselors for divorce, in that case, after assessment of the situation counseling can be processed to prevent mental harm. Does Marriage Counseling Really Work? The simple answer to the question Does marriage counseling works is? If the couple finds the correct therapist and is willing to let the counselor help them, it obviously works. Each marriage is like a DNA sequence; i.e., it is unique for each of them. If your marriage or relationship fails or has problems that you want to solve, a counselor would give a transparent look at you and your partner’s lives. At first, you may find it challenging to tell your problems to the counselor in detail. You may end up arguing with each other or remaining completely silent during the sessions. That is completely fine. Acting normal and interacting with each other would let your counselor observe. A counselor can give you communication exercises or exercises to do together and can bring you closer and refer treatment for mental and physical health problems, helping you have a peaceful and clean divorce. Conclusion When two persons live together, their dreams, expectations, lifestyles can collide and create problems. Getting professional help to help your own life is always a wise choice. You can ask friends, families, or healthcare providers for referrals. The success rate of EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) is 75% nowadays. The earlier you go to the counselor the better will be your relationship. Signup for Our Newsletter Share This Article

Money Matters in Dating
In the beginning stages of a dating relationship, there tends to be a great deal of dining out and other planned activities. While this is a fun time, it’s all too easy for money (payment for activities) to create awkwardness. Here I reflect on some ways in which that awkwardness can be avoided; it is essentially a list of behaviors I have observed in men that have the potential to cause their companion discomfort. I say men because I only have a woman’s perspective to offer on this subject. This reflection is not about who should pay for what, whether men should be expected to pay, and so forth. I comment here merely on behaviors I have witnessed that may be viewed as tasteless. Let’s start with a note on planning the date. I find it tremendously off-putting when a man uses the phrase “take you out” when suggesting an excursion. It is a reference to money and the most well-meaning of men do this; they use that phrase as code for “I’ll pay,” but it’s patronizing and downright jarring. Replace “Can I take you out to…” with “Would you like to go to…” or “Shall we go to…”. Hopefully you are dating an adult who is accompanying you to some place; she is not being taken there. I take the Kid to school or to the doctor. I do not get taken to a restaurant. The most common situation involving payment is dining at restaurants. Ah, so many “don’ts” here… And, yes, I’ve seen it all. This is a non-exhaustive list of things a man should never do at a restaurant. (a) Comment on prices of menu items; for instance, “this sixty-dollar steak better be good.” (b) Tell your companion to order whatever she wants; she’s an adult, she already knows she can do that. (c) Explicitly mention that you will be paying; comments such as “it’s my treat,” “splurge, it’s on me,” are always tacky. Once, walking around looking for dinner spots, I rejected a place for being too fancy; my companion responded “don’t worry, I’m paying.” No, no….don’t ever say that. Maybe I just didn’t feel like a fancy place. (d) Don’t look shocked or roll your eyes when you get the check, or comment on the amount. (e) Don’t take forever calculating the tip amount; quickly guess twenty percent of the total even if it’s not accurate. (f) Don’t start going through the itemized bill; unless something looks massively wrong, don’t dissect it. (g) Don’t take the receipt with you; makes it seem that you are keeping an account. You can look at your credit card account later. (h) Don’t pay with cash; it’s inelegant and makes money distastefully visible. Relatedly, always carry a back-up credit card; it’s not unusual for a card to randomly be declined. If that happens, there is no need to be embarrassed; just offer a different card. Wine can be tricky. If picking a bottle from an extensive wine list, prices can run the gamut. I pride myself on how I deal with this situation. Having some wine expertise, I ask whether I may pick the wine. I ask my companion for general preferences (e.g. “is Malbec ok?”), and then pick a moderately priced bottle; that way, he’s off the hook for picking a $300 bottle of wine and doesn’t risk looking cheap by picking an inexpensive one. However, your date generally won’t be so slick. You should ask her for preferences, pick a bottle that you can comfortably afford, and run your choice by her. It would be highly inappropriate for her to suggest something outrageous instead. If you valet-parked the car, be sure to have an appropriate tip amount in cash in an accessible place (no fumbling). If she drove, let her tip the valet. My rule is: whoever drives tips the valet or pays for parking. You want to be gallant without being overbearing. Along those lines, if your date insists on paying for dinner (particularly if it’s not the first date), please let her; certainly don’t start grabbing the check out of her hand and arguing. And definitely don’t put a stack of cash for your perceived share in front of her! No…don’t do that. Actually, there should never be cash exchanges in dating scenarios. Another area in which money comes into play is gift-giving. What do you do when you haven’t known someone very long and her birthday comes up? You would like to get her a present, but have no idea what she might want. So why not take her to a store (say a boutique) and let her pick something she likes? Sounds like a good idea? No! This is a terrible idea. She is constrained by your budget, which she doesn’t know. Does she look at price tags and watch your face for a reaction? Does she simply ask you? It’s so very awkward! And then there is the pressure of finding something that she thinks you would like as well. What if she doesn’t like anything or is an unusual size (like me) and feels that she has to find something? And then subsequently there is the expectation that you would want to see her wear it. Instead, get her some flowers and wine (if she likes wine). And arrange a nice dinner. Who doesn’t enjoy flowers? Gifts don’t have to be functional. You decide you are going to cook together and go to the grocery store to shop first. If the dinner will be at her house and she starts paying at the store, there is no need to fight her. If you would prefer to pay, do it quickly before she can get her card out. But don’t try to split up the items and don’t try to pay her back for something random you picked up (say you needed a toothbrush). Absolutely don’t try to give her cash for your items. I once had someone forcefully put cash in my purse at a store; weird and awkward and uncomfortable. Just say thank you, and remember: no cash exchanges. On these early dates, another challenge is to find good topics for conversation. Money is not a good topic, in any context. It’s not appropriate to talk about your salary, your mortgage, the price of your car, how much you pay in child support…nothing that involves revealing actual amounts. These topics are for later in a relationship, with much higher levels of closeness. As relationships evolve, discussions of money become inevitable and smoothly work their way into conversations and practices. But until that happens organically, it is best to leave money out of it and enjoy the romance. Signup for Our Newsletter Share This Article

Here’s the Reason You’ll Never Be Satisfied With Your Partner
“Heterosexual women of a progressive bent often say they want equal partnerships with men. But dating is a different story entirely. The women I interviewed for a research project and book expected men to ask for, plan, and pay for dates; initiate sex; confirm the exclusivity of a relationship; and propose marriage. After setting all of those precedents, these women then wanted a marriage in which they shared the financial responsibilities, housework, and child care relatively equally. Almost none of my interviewees saw these dating practices as a threat to their feminist credentials or to their desire for egalitarian marriages. But they were wrong.” This first paragraph knocked me out. It comes from an Atlantic article called “If You Want a Marriage of Equals, Date as Equals.” It shows, in great detail, the myriad contradictions that come with modern dating. “The men I spoke with held persistent double standards. They expected women to walk a fine line between enough and too much sexual experience. They admitted to running into conflicts with “strong-willed” women. Men also wanted to be taller, stronger, and more masculine than their partners. And many of the men expected women to take their last names after marriage.” No surprise here. It’s the same thing my readers complain about frequently. But women were no different in their mixed emotions. They all want egalitarian relationships…except when it comes to men paying for things. “In a throwback to an earlier era, many women I spoke with enacted strict dating rules. “It’s a deal-breaker if a man doesn’t pay for a date,” one woman, aged 29, told me. A 31-year-old said that if a man doesn’t pay, “they just probably don’t like you very much.” A lot of men, they assumed, were looking for nothing more than a quick hookup, so some of these dating rituals were tests to see whether the man was truly interested in a commitment. A third woman, also 31, told me, “I feel like men need to feel like they are in control, and if you ask them out, you end up looking desperate and it’s a turnoff to them.” These contradictions are at the heart of Love U, where I guide women through these contradictions with a dose of reality-based dating coaching. People want what they want, even if the thing they want is a contradiction. In short, people want what they want, even if the thing they want is a contradiction. Want to poll well as a politician? Offer lower taxes and more free stuff. People love both! So let’s get it straight, everybody: If you’re a woman and you want a man who makes more than you and pays for everything, you should probably expect that he’s not going to want to manage domestic duties and that’s going to be more your responsibility. If you’re a woman and you want a man to take on 50% of domestic duties, you may have to choose a man who doesn’t make as much as you. If you’re a man and you want a smart, strong, successful woman who loves her work and makes equal money, you shouldn’t expect her to take on the lion’s share of domestic duties and you need to find a way to divide things equally. If you’re a man and you want a woman who takes care of you and the house, maybe you should value nurturers over career-oriented women. And if that’s not enough to chew upon, here’s an addendum: If you’re a person who has taken on the majority of domestic responsibilities, you should have the respect of your spouse, but that doesn’t mean he/she is obligated to care as much about the details of those responsibilities or do them exactly like you. If you’re a person who has taken on the responsibility of paying for the majority of things, you should have the appreciation of the lesser-earning spouse, but that doesn’t mean you’re more important to the relationship. You just have different roles that contribute to a happy marriage. As always, I think I’ve nailed it here. If you disagree, what do you think I’m missing? Your thoughts, as always, are appreciated.
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Best Places To Meet Girls In Heidelberg & Dating Guide
If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Heidelberg with a dating guide you are in the right spot. This post is fully loaded with information on where to pick up single women and take them out on some great date nights. Table of Contents We bet many of you are hoping to hook up in the nightlife so that is where we will begin. Following that we will discuss meeting single Heidelberg girls during the day and the best online dating site to use when you hope to get laid quick. Date night spots and things for the two of you to do together when the sun is up will also be covered as we move along. Be sure to look through more of our posts on dating in Germany if you want to learn about many other towns here. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars This would be our list of the best singles bars and nightclubs to pick up Heidelberg girls: [embedded content] The main area for singles nightlife centers around the Untere Strasse pub street in Old Town. You can see that plenty of the bars from our list can be located there, and it really is the heart of the cities nightlife. Any guys who are traveling through town would be wise to book a hotel in Old Town if hooking up with Heidelberg girls is something you hope to do while here. The closer you are to the singles nightlife along Untere Strasse the better. Loft is a really nice club that is a good spot to meet girls in Ludwigshafen about half an hour away. If you aren’t satisfied with the scene here we have also covered Frankfurt girls and you can find them roughly an hour from here. Meet Heidelberg Girls During The Day Once again Old Town is going to be the best spot to find single Heidelberg women during the day as well. Walk along the Hauptstrasse which is the main street going through the city and you should have plenty of opportunities around all the shops and restaurants along it. Our younger readers may also have success picking up girls near you around the university campus. You can try to meet more singles at malls and shopping areas like: Darmstadter Hof Centrum Kurfursten-Passage Mathematikon B Chat With Girls Online Most of us can agree that the world has gotten pretty weird recently. Whoever would have imagined that cell phones and social media would have become such a major part of our lives. You probably have figured out that Heidelberg girls rarely notice their DM’s, all they really care about is how much attention their most recent posts are getting. This can make it pretty hard for us single men to get laid, particularly when they use bars and nightclubs as their new backdrop for their photo-shoots. It used to be that women went to bars or clubs to hook up just like us, but these days that doesn’t seem to be the case very often. But let’s flip this over to a positive and you can actually find girls near you online who want to hook up if you know where to look. In Germany and most of Western Europe Adult Friend Finder can be a really great wingman. Sure, scrolling through profiles and sending out messages may not be as fun as partying at a nightclub, but if it helps get a strange girl in your bed then what is the problem? Granted if you want to start a family or get married Adult Friend Finder is probably not the right site for you. It really isn’t even a dating site, it is a hook up site which we find great. When every girl in Heidelberg uses it to get laid and not to find love it makes our job a whole lot easier. It really cuts out the annoying parts of trying to hook up and lets you focus on the fun stuff. Heidelberg Dating Guide The best ways to meet single girls near you have been covered in full and now our Heidelberg dating guide needs to help prepare you for the next step in this process. You are only going to hook up if your date night is on point. Any of these romantic restaurants and cocktail bars can set the right tone for the night: Then you can go party at the Untere Strasse pub street, find a rowdy nightclub, or see if she wants to go to a live show at: Day Date Ideas Getting out to enjoy a sunny day is always a solid plan. Here are some great places to go on a nice day: Heidelberg Castle Garden Neckarwiese Spielplatz Schwanenteichanlage Bismarckplatz Park Botanical Gardens You can go hiking around Thingstätte, get great views of the city from up on Konigstuhl, or just stroll along the famous Philosopher’s Walk and check out the Old Bridge. You can always find plenty of neat stuff around Old Town and Mannheim is pretty close if you want to check it out also. For some more sophistication on your date during the day try: Heidelberg Castle Pharmacy Museum Kurpfalzisches Museum Carl Bosch Museum Heidelberg Body Worlds Museum Schloss Schwetzingen When you want to take your girl away for a quick trip try somewhere like Hanover or Strasbourg. Enjoy Dating Heidelberg Girls We will update this post a few times a year but for today that is all we have to offer. Please use the comments to update any old news we may have posted or to let us know about your own favorite spots. Also don’t forget about the single women near you on Adult Friend Finder who are always ready to hook up. That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Heidelberg with our dating guide, enjoy your time here. Tagged dating, europe, germany, girls

Money Matters in Dating
In the beginning stages of a dating relationship, there tends to be a great deal of dining out and other planned activities. While this is a fun time, it’s all too easy for money (payment for activities) to create awkwardness. Here I reflect on some ways in which that awkwardness can be avoided; it is essentially a list of behaviors I have observed in men that have the potential to cause their companion discomfort. I say men because I only have a woman’s perspective to offer on this subject. This reflection is not about who should pay for what, whether men should be expected to pay, and so forth. I comment here merely on behaviors I have witnessed that may be viewed as tasteless. Let’s start with a note on planning the date. I find it tremendously off-putting when a man uses the phrase “take you out” when suggesting an excursion. It is a reference to money and the most well-meaning of men do this; they use that phrase as code for “I’ll pay,” but it’s patronizing and downright jarring. Replace “Can I take you out to…” with “Would you like to go to…” or “Shall we go to…”. Hopefully you are dating an adult who is accompanying you to some place; she is not being taken there. I take the Kid to school or to the doctor. I do not get taken to a restaurant. The most common situation involving payment is dining at restaurants. Ah, so many “don’ts” here… And, yes, I’ve seen it all. This is a non-exhaustive list of things a man should never do at a restaurant. (a) Comment on prices of menu items; for instance, “this sixty-dollar steak better be good.” (b) Tell your companion to order whatever she wants; she’s an adult, she already knows she can do that. (c) Explicitly mention that you will be paying; comments such as “it’s my treat,” “splurge, it’s on me,” are always tacky. Once, walking around looking for dinner spots, I rejected a place for being too fancy; my companion responded “don’t worry, I’m paying.” No, no….don’t ever say that. Maybe I just didn’t feel like a fancy place. (d) Don’t look shocked or roll your eyes when you get the check, or comment on the amount. (e) Don’t take forever calculating the tip amount; quickly guess twenty percent of the total even if it’s not accurate. (f) Don’t start going through the itemized bill; unless something looks massively wrong, don’t dissect it. (g) Don’t take the receipt with you; makes it seem that you are keeping an account. You can look at your credit card account later. (h) Don’t pay with cash; it’s inelegant and makes money distastefully visible. Relatedly, always carry a back-up credit card; it’s not unusual for a card to randomly be declined. If that happens, there is no need to be embarrassed; just offer a different card. Wine can be tricky. If picking a bottle from an extensive wine list, prices can run the gamut. I pride myself on how I deal with this situation. Having some wine expertise, I ask whether I may pick the wine. I ask my companion for general preferences (e.g. “is Malbec ok?”), and then pick a moderately priced bottle; that way, he’s off the hook for picking a $300 bottle of wine and doesn’t risk looking cheap by picking an inexpensive one. However, your date generally won’t be so slick. You should ask her for preferences, pick a bottle that you can comfortably afford, and run your choice by her. It would be highly inappropriate for her to suggest something outrageous instead. If you valet-parked the car, be sure to have an appropriate tip amount in cash in an accessible place (no fumbling). If she drove, let her tip the valet. My rule is: whoever drives tips the valet or pays for parking. You want to be gallant without being overbearing. Along those lines, if your date insists on paying for dinner (particularly if it’s not the first date), please let her; certainly don’t start grabbing the check out of her hand and arguing. And definitely don’t put a stack of cash for your perceived share in front of her! No…don’t do that. Actually, there should never be cash exchanges in dating scenarios. Another area in which money comes into play is gift-giving. What do you do when you haven’t known someone very long and her birthday comes up? You would like to get her a present, but have no idea what she might want. So why not take her to a store (say a boutique) and let her pick something she likes? Sounds like a good idea? No! This is a terrible idea. She is constrained by your budget, which she doesn’t know. Does she look at price tags and watch your face for a reaction? Does she simply ask you? It’s so very awkward! And then there is the pressure of finding something that she thinks you would like as well. What if she doesn’t like anything or is an unusual size (like me) and feels that she has to find something? And then subsequently there is the expectation that you would want to see her wear it. Instead, get her some flowers and wine (if she likes wine). And arrange a nice dinner. Who doesn’t enjoy flowers? Gifts don’t have to be functional. You decide you are going to cook together and go to the grocery store to shop first. If the dinner will be at her house and she starts paying at the store, there is no need to fight her. If you would prefer to pay, do it quickly before she can get her card out. But don’t try to split up the items and don’t try to pay her back for something random you picked up (say you needed a toothbrush). Absolutely don’t try to give her cash for your items. I once had someone forcefully put cash in my purse at a store; weird and awkward and uncomfortable. Just say thank you, and remember: no cash exchanges. On these early dates, another challenge is to find good topics for conversation. Money is not a good topic, in any context. It’s not appropriate to talk about your salary, your mortgage, the price of your car, how much you pay in child support…nothing that involves revealing actual amounts. These topics are for later in a relationship, with much higher levels of closeness. As relationships evolve, discussions of money become inevitable and smoothly work their way into conversations and practices. But until that happens organically, it is best to leave money out of it and enjoy the romance. Signup for Our Newsletter Share This Article

Best Places To Meet Girls In Port Elizabeth & Dating Guide
If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Port Elizabeth with a dating guide then this is the right page for you. You will learn all about where to pick up single women around Nelson Mandela Bay as well as numerous things to do on a date night. This guide will begin with the nightlife before transitioning to where you can meet single Port Elizabeth girls during the day and how to use online dating sites to make hooking up more likely. Date night ideas and things to do throughout the day will also be covered as we move forward. We have written many African travel guides for men before if you are looking for more new cities to explore. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars This is our list of the best singles bars and nightclubs to pick up Port Elizabeth girls: [embedded content] The main area for singles nightlife would be on the Boardwalk along Marine Drive around Shark Rock Pier in Summerstrand and to the North of there. If you don’t live here and need a place to stay that is the spot. Being close to the best nightlife area will make it a lot more likely you hook up with Port Elizabeth girls while you are in town. And outside of improving your chances of getting laid it will also just make your whole trip more enjoyable. You shouldn’t be too surprised if there are prostitutes at Port Elizabeth bars or nightclubs. That is common here just as it is all across the continent and frankly in many places around the world. You can also find some great nightlife in Johannesburg and we wrote a post about that town at this link. Meet Port Elizabeth Girls During The Day Walking along the Boardwalk around Nelson Mandela Bay will also prove fruitful when trying to meet single Port Elizabeth women during the day. You may also want to head to the beaches in the area and Kings Beach often has the biggest crowds. These malls and shopping areas can also be good places to try and pick up girls: Cleary Park Shopping Centre Baywest Mall Walmer Park Sunridge Village Shopping Centre Greenacres Shopping Centre Chat With Girls Online We aren’t going to act like we know exactly what a single guy is supposed to do these days. Everyone has become so anti-social and that isn’t a good thing for someone who is interested in dating or hooking up in the near future. It has never been easy to get laid with attractive women, but now you barely even see them out and about. If you do notice them at a nightclub they are probably in VIP or with a big group of their girlfriends that want nothing more than to cockblock you. Believe me you are not the only one who is noticing these societal changes but we can’t just give up now can we? One cool thing is that you can quickly and easily begin to meet girls near you online on dating sites at any time. One of the main positives with tech is how much time they can save us and that definitely plays out here. Afro Introductions is the best dating site to meet single girls in Port Elizabeth online and it is the best wingman a guy could ask for in these modern times. Do you really want to get all dressed up in your nicest clothes and wait in line for an hour to get into a club when the hottest girls are going to be out of reach in VIP? Why not scroll through huge lists of dating site profiles and send messages to all the attractive women who catch your eye instead? To get in contact with a ton of girls in a short amount of time use Afro Introductions, and one thing you should always remember is that dating is a numbers game. The more you contact the more that will reply, and the more that reply the more you will be taking out on a date and hooking up with. Over the last decade the dating scene has certainly changed, but at least it brought us online dating to get that awkward first step out of the way as quickly and easily as possible. Port Elizabeth Dating Guide We just broke down all of the best ways to meet single girls near you and it is time to pivot to our Port Elizabeth dating guide. It is always great to get a number, but now you have to show her a good time on your date night if you hope to get laid. Any of these romantic restaurants or cocktail bars could do the trick: You could also go see a live show at: The last Thursday night of each month you should head to The Goodnight Market, and on other nights you can go party in the Boardwalk nightlife or just find a secluded spot on the beach and bring a bottle of wine. Day Date Ideas Most already know this but you can find some great nature in this part of the world. For good places to go on a sunny day try: Happy Valley Victoria Park Van Staden’s Flower Reserve Seaview Predator Park Kragga Kamma Game Park Addo Elephant National Park Cape Recife Jeffrey’s Bay is really cool and is about an hour away, plus there is the Jukani Wildlife Sanctuary two hours away. You can find some of the best scuba diving in the world at Sardinia Bay, or just hang out at beaches like Kings Beach, Humewood Beach, or Hobie Beach. Head to Shark Rock Pier, walk along the Boardwalk, or check out Stanley Street. If you want to get something to eat try out Vovo Telo Bakery. Then there are some nice museums and landmarks like: Bayworld Nelson Mandela Metropolitan Art Museum South End Museum South African Air Force Museum Donkin Reserve Pyramid & Lighthouse When you find the right girl to take a trip with the 8 hour drive to Cape Town on the Garden Route is stunning. However, if you aren’t from around here we highly suggest you do the drive in the day because the roads can be quite dangerous at night. A fun place outside the country for a weekend getaway could be Lusaka. Tips For Tourists & Expats This section is mostly going to be about travel, but you never really know what might assist in you hooking up with Port Elizabeth girls on your trip. The local currency is the rand and you get about 15 for every USD though that has fluctuated quite a bit recently. We mentioned it before but the best place to book a hotel would be as close to the Boardwalk and Marine Drive as you can find. Planning well can help you get laid and location is always key. The last thing that we want to briefly say again is that you shouldn’t be shocked if there are some prostitutes at Port Elizabeth bars and clubs. Freelance prostitutes are often around the nightlife in foreign countries, if you walk into a bar and a bunch of sexy women look like they are on the clock waiting for a customer and give you a ton of attention there probably are financial reasons for why. Enjoy Dating Port Elizabeth Girls If you have any special tips or want to correct any out of date information here please go ahead and do so in the comments. Don’t forget to use Afro Introductions to make it more likely that you hook up with the single women near you around Nelson Mandela Bay. That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Port Elizabeth with our dating guide, enjoy your time here. Tagged africa, dating, girls, south africa

Best Places To Meet Girls In Linz & Dating Guide
If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Linz with a dating guide then look no further. This post is full of info on where to pick up single women near you and then enjoy a great date night out together. Table of Contents Our first section is all about helping the singles hook up in the nightlife. Following that we will get into meeting single Linz girls during the day or using online dating sites to get laid more often. Date night ideas and plenty of other fun stuff to do around the area will also get a mention. For those that are interested check out some of our other posts on Austria at that link. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars This would be our list of the best singles bars and nightclubs to pick up Linz girls: [embedded content] The main area for singles nightlife is the Old Town right in the heart of the city. This is common for cities all across this continent and it really makes hooking up with Linz girls a lot easier. We have all been to cities that have no distinct bar street or nightlife district and it can really hinder your game. Luckily that is not the case here and any tourists reading this will definitely want to get a hotel in or near Old Town if possible. The closer you are to the Hauptplatz main square as you can be the better. You may also improve your odds of getting laid by being close to Passage Mall in Old Town where you will find popular venues like Linzer Alm and Remembar. Of course you shouldn’t expect there to be as many singles bars to meet girls as in Vienna, but you can still have plenty of fun here. Meet Linz Girls During The Day Should we just copy and paste the last section here? We love cities like this because with so many of the top things to do in one area it makes coming up with a game plan so much easier. Single Linz women will be coming into Old Town all throughout the day to shop, eat, grab a coffee or just stroll around. They will also be shopping along Landstrasse, or they may go to Alturfahr Beach during the summer. You can also try to pick up more girls at malls and shopping areas like: Plus City Lentia City Passage Linz Atrium City Center Arkade Palais Mannstorff Chat With Girls Online Our society has changed a lot in the last decade and many of them have made things a lot harder on single men who hope to get laid. Just think about how much time most girls near you spend on social media, and we all know how ‘social’ those apps really are. Unfortunately most girls in Linz are not going to see your DM’s because all that really gets their attention is how many followers they have and how many likes their last selfie got. We used to think bars and nightclubs were places to hook up, but now most women use them as nothing more than backdrops for their new ‘content.’ Fortunately if you know where to look you can find girls near you to hook up with online and in Europe your best chance to do so is on Adult Friend Finder. Maybe sending out messages online isn’t as fun as partying at a nightclub, but we doubt that will be an issue if it gets girls to join you in bed. Our favorite part is that Adult Friend Finder isn’t the type of site to help you get married or start a family. In truth it really isn’t even a dating site, it is a hook up site which is great. When all the girls in Linz use it know they are there to get laid and aren’t searching for love it makes our job a whole lot easier. This allows you to forget about the lies and games that normally come from dating and just skip right to the hook ups. Linz Dating Guide You just learned about the best ways to meet single girls near you out of the way and now this Linz dating guide is going to move on to the next step in this process. Most of us have learned that you are only going to hook up if your date night is on point. Any of these romantic restaurants and cocktail bars should set a nice tone for the evening: When your meal is over go party in the Old Town nightlife, take a walk along the Danube, or see if anything interesting is going on at one of these live performance venues: Day Date Ideas Most girls near you will prefer to get outdoors on a sunny day and some nice places to do so would be: Hessenpark Castlepark Schillerpark Stadt Park Botanischer Garten We mentioned that you could try out Alturfahr Beach in the summer, or go climb up the hill at Postlingberg to get great views of the city. You can also find great hiking and nature a couple of hours away in Salzkammergut if you feel up for a drive. Have a coffee at the café by the pond at Johannes Kepler University, take a boat trip on the Danube, or just start at the Hauptplatz and stroll around Old Town. These museums are also pretty cool: Lentos Kunstmuseum Ars Electronica Center Schlossmuseum When the time is right to travel with your Linz girl go check out our Salzburg dating guide and see if it sounds right for the two of you. Enjoy Dating Linz Girls We wish we had more to share with you today but for now that is all we’ve got. Feel free to mention your own local tips or let us know if we got anything incorrect in the comments. Those single women near you on Adult Friend Finder are always ready to hook up, but it is on you to send out that first message. That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Linz with our dating guide, enjoy your time here. Tagged austria, dating, europe, girls

Best Places To Meet Girls In Lusaka & Dating Guide
Last updated on January 4th, 2021 If you are looking for the best places to meet girls in Lusaka with a dating guide welcome to our site. There is a lot to discuss when it comes to picking up single women plus all the great date night options you will have. Table of Contents This guide will start by covering the nightlife before transitioning to where you can meet single Lusaka girls during the day and how to use online dating sites to hook up faster. Date night ideas and things to do throughout the day will also be mentioned as the post goes along. Zambian women are very beautiful, and so are the ones we discussed in our other dating guides for Africa. Nightclubs & Pick Up Bars This is our list of the best singles bars and nightclubs to pick up Lusaka girls: [embedded content] The main area for singles nightlife would be downtown near Arcades Mall & EastPark Mall. If you are a tourist who has never been here before that hopes to hook up with Lusaka girls we highly suggest you stay in that part of town. Like in many foreign countries the malls are like hubs where you find some of the best restaurants, bars, and places to party in the city. Being near them will probably make it more likely you get laid while also making your whole trip a lot easier. Another option would be to stay at Latitude 15 which is around Leopard’s Hill Road where you can also find some of the trendier bars and shops in the city. In fact the lounge at Latitude 15 is great for a date night or as a pick up spot. We should point out that jobs are pretty hard to come by in this part of the world so don’t be surprised if some of the Zambian women you see at nightclubs or bars are prostitutes. Freelance prostitutes are common here, just as they are many places so they will definitely be out in the nightlife. This is the same thing we have said for other nightlife guides we have written for other towns on the continent like Luanda, Maputo, and most others. Meet Lusaka Girls During The Day Day game in Africa isn’t easy for a variety of reasons. The main ones are that the streets are so dirty, chaotic, and overcrowded which make for a pretty tough environment. You might find some single Lusaka women walking along Leopard’s Hill Road during the day, or in the downtown area near the malls we listed above. Speaking of the malls these would be our top places to try and pick up girls near you during the day: Arcades Shopping Mall EastPark Mall Levy Junction Shopping Mall Garden City Mall Manda Hill Shopping Mall Chat With Girls Online These days things are pretty hard on single men. People are so anti-social right now and that isn’t a good thing for someone who is interested in dating or getting laid in the near future. It isn’t like it was ever easy to hook up with hot women in Zambia, but now you almost never even see them out in public. Those rare times that you do they are probably at a nightclub in VIP or with a big group of their girlfriends that want nothing more than to cockblock you. All single men out there are really feeling this, but we can’t just give up now can we? One cool thing is how much easier it has become to meet girls near you online. Online dating sites are just such a fast and efficient use of your time.. The best dating site to meet single girls in Lusaka online is Afro Introductions, and it is the best wingman a guy could ask for in Zambia or across the continent in these modern times. Do you really want to get all dressed up and wait in line for an hour to get into a club when the hottest girls are going to be in VIP and basically off limits? Why not just look through huge lists of dating site profiles and message all the attractive women in Zambia who catch your eye? To get in contact with a ton of girls in a short amount of time use Afro Introductions, and one thing you should never forget is that dating is a numbers game. The more you contact the more that will reply, and the more that reply the more you will be taking out on a date. Tech has changed the dating game for better or worse, but at least it brought us online dating to get that awkward first step out of the way as quickly and easily as possible. Lusaka Dating Guide We just fully covered the best ways to meet single girls near you so now it is time to pivot to our Lusaka dating guide. It is always great to get a number, but now you have to show her a good time on your date night if you want to have any chance of hooking up. Any of these romantic restaurants or cocktail bars could do the trick: Go to Arcade or EastPark where you can find tons of things to do in one small area and just hop from venue to venue until you find the spot that is popping on that night. Day Date Ideas Getting out to enjoy a sunny day is always a good plan and there are plenty of places to do just that in this part of the world like: Munda Wanga Environmental Park Lusaka National Park Chaminuka Game Reserve Kalimba Reptile Park Lilayi Elephant Nursery Nembo Scenic Park Victoria Falls is stunning though it would be a full day trip to get there and back. You may also want to check out the Modzi Arts center or on Sundays there is a big Crafts Market in the Arcade Mall parking lot that is really cool. And to get a better sense of the culture and history of the region check out: Kabwata Cultural Village Lusaka National Museum Namwane Art Gallery When you are ready to take a trip with your Lusaka girl go somewhere fun and unique like Bujumbura or Port Elizabeth. Tips For Tourists & Expats This section is mostly going to be about travel, but you never really know what might help you hook up with Lusaka girls while you are here. The local currency is the Zambian Kwacha and you can click here to check the current exchange rate. We mentioned it before but the best place to book a hotel would be downtown near Arcade Mall and EastPark Mall. Being in the right part of town will help you have a better trip and may even play a part in whether you get laid or not. We mentioned it before but it should probably be said again that you shouldn’t be shocked if there are some prostitutes at Lusaka bars and clubs. If you walk into a bar and a bunch of sexy Zambian women are shooting you more glances than you normally receive there is a good chance many of them are freelance prostitutes who are hoping to be paid. Enjoy Dating Lusaka Girls OK guys, that is all we have for you today. If you have any special tips or want to correct any out of date information here please go ahead and do so in the comments. Remember the fastest way to hook up with single Zambian women near you will be to use Afro Introductions to contact as many as you can. That wraps up our best places to meet girls in Lusaka with our dating guide, enjoy your time here. Tagged africa, dating, girls
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