7 Profile Rules for Attracting Quality Men Online In Today’s World!
You might be feeling pretty isolated and lonely in these challenging times.
That doesn’t mean you still can’t enjoy being around male energy.
You’re probably thinking, but we can’t meet.
But you can get to know someone using Skype, Facetime, Google Duo, or Zoom.
And what is so nice about meeting this way is that it’s a bit old fashioned . . . meaning, you get to create a friendship without letting a physical relationship cloud your judgment.
When you meet, you can see if the zing is there. If it’s not, you’ll have a wonderful male friend to hang with.
So how do you meet this new man?
With a great profile and that’s why today I’m going to share 7 of my ‘Best Profile Rules’ guaranteed to help you attract the type of man, you’ve been wanting to meet.
Profile Rule #1 . . . Men are visual and what gets their attention first is your face.
Over the years, I’ve looked at a lot of profile pictures and I’m always amazed when women post pictures that could be mug shots.
I kid you not.
All they need are a clipboard with numbers across their chest.
That’s how unhappy they look.
The thing is, men are naturally drawn to pictures of you smiling.
So make sure you post pics with some makeup and clothes that show off the best of you and your great smile.
You’ll come across as fun and positive and as the kind of woman, a good man wants to meet.
Profile Rule #2 . . . Be creative when answering the profile questions on Dating Sites
No one loves answering all those essay questions dating sites ask you.
But, it’s worth your while to get a bit creative when you do especially if you can write a story that a man can imagine himself being part of.
Here’s what I mean. The site asks you . . .
What’s Your Idea of a Great Date?
Instead of just saying riding bikes in the mountains. Add a few adjectives that draw him in.
Here’s an example . . .
Riding bicycles in the park together on a beautiful summer day would be a great date. We’d stop by a stream, open a bottle of wine, and enjoy a wonderful picnic together sharing our food as well as our thoughts.
Profile Rule #3 . . . Work at keeping the I’s in your profile to a minimum.
Think about this . . . when you go to a party and you meet someone who keeps talking about themselves saying things like . . . I do this, I like that, I am this . . . Don’t you get bored and start looking for someone to save you so you can move on?
This same scenario happens online with the overuse of the word “I”.
Here’s how to avoid that “I” trap.
Instead of writing . . .
I am looking for a wonderful man to share my life with.
Shorten it to: Am looking for a wonderful man to share my life with.
It’s still grammatically correct but you appear so much more relaxed.
Profile Rule #4 . . . Ask questions in your profile to draw a man in
For Example, You can say something like . . . Love getting dressed up and dining out but also enjoy a great burger at one of the dives around town. (What’s your favorite spot to hang out?) or (Want to join me? We can share our french fries.)
These types of questions give a man an opportunity to write you back.
Profile Rule #5 . . . I know you’re looking for your ‘soul mate’ but leave those words out of your profile.
Hey, I used to write that as well, cause, after all, that is who we want to share our life with.
But it’s really cliche and men have told me they see it over and over again in a woman’s profile.
Your goal is to look unique not the same as every other woman online.
Profile Rule #6 . . . Leave out the demands in your profile
Men over the years have told me how turned off they are when women write they have to make so much money or they have to take them to certain restaurants to get a date.
When you write this, you come across as high maintenance.
Yes, it’s important to let men know what you’re interested in but do it by telling stories in your profile about the things you love to do.
Most men have had enough demands put on them in their life and aren’t looking for someone they don’t know to add to them.
Profile Rule #7 . . . Be true to who you are in your profile
Pretending to be a certain type of woman just to attract a “Quality Man” not only doesn’t work but it’s also pretty hard to keep the facade up.
You have no control over who a man ultimately wants or who he is looking for.
You only have control over what you want in a “Quality Man.”
And that’s why all my coaching clients use a Dating Strategy called a Quality Man Template to help them finally attract the right man into their life.
Lisa, I met a really great guy during this pandemic and I’m having fun. The Quality Man Template we worked on together told the universe precisely what I wanted and guess what? He appeared. You were so incredibly helpful, Lisa teaching me how to do this safely. Thank you doesn’t begin to cover it! Ellie
This is a perfect time to figure out what it is you really want in a man.
It’s different than what you wanted in your 20’s yet most women are using how they dated in their 20’s as the barometer for finding love and that’s why it’s not working in their 50’s and 60’s!
I’d love to show you how you can attract, meet, and keep your forever guy, and do it as a woman over 50 and during a pandemic (of course safely)!
If you’re ready to find your forever guy, then click here and tell me a little bit about what’s been happening in your love life.
If I think I can help you, I’ll send you a link to my calendar and we’ll set up a complimentary Dating Breakthrough Call to talk about how you can make this dream of finding love after 50 come true for you.
Believing in you!
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