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Deleted Thread Day

image via Instagram We haven’t had a Deleted Thread Day in a long time, so let’s do it. This whole post and all comments will be deleted by 8 AM EST tomorrow, so feel free to vent, sob, rage, cheer, and share whatever’s on your mind.

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Update: “On The Fence” Responds

It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “On the Fence,” the woman who was dating a guy, “Carl,” who still had a drawer […]

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Call for Letters

Hey, I need your help! Last month, Google did what’s called a “core algorithm update” which affects how websites rank in search results. Google does these updates a few times a year, but this was a really big one that negatively affected websites in a few key industries including relationship […]

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Weekend Open Thread

I wanted to take a pause this week in deference to the moment we’re in, culturally. It has felt like a mass awakening among non-black people to the oppression black people are still subjected to, day in and day out. And while I want to say that I was already […]

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Weekend Open Thread and Links

Hello! I don’t even know what to say. This has been one of the strangest, scariest weeks ever and I know it’s just the tip of the iceberg. I hope all of you are safe and healthy and managing to handle these rapid changes with as much grace and patience […]

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