It doesn’t matter if it’s graduation time or time for your boy to set out on his own, it’s always nice to have a list of 10 songs about boys growing into men. They grow up so quickly and we desperately want to help them get situated on a good […]
I Don’t Make Money and I’m Worried That Men Will Judge Me For It Understand Men. Find Love. Skip to content Home > Blog > Dating > I Don’t Make Money and I’m Worried That Men Will Judge Me For It I have read about many examples on your blog […]
I recently walked away from a guy I had been dating and really liked. I followed your tips, and he was clear about how much he liked me. He made a good amount of effort throughout the course of our almost-relationship, and I think he wanted to feel ready to […]
Let’s just say it’s complicated. Which isn’t terribly surprising; we’re talking about the intersection of biology and sociology, a subject that remains ill-defined and is prone to emotional takes. This New York Times piece by Kim Tingley (great name, if you’re writing about sex!) tried to come off as neutral […]
Anytime I’ve ever brought up the idea of compromising on chemistry, someone pops up in the comments and shouts at me that I don’t understand how important it is. I’ve never said otherwise. Attraction is important. Good sex is important. But there’s a third category that falls in a slightly […]
We dated for 6 weeks and had a wonderful time. I noticed that he was very sensitive. He’s had a lot of emotional trauma in his life, there was abuse growing up, he had problems with authority, he acquiesced to his ex-wife all of the time and he said the […]
In this age of all of these swiping apps, I feel like men are trying to jump into a serious relationship immediately. Sometimes without even having met me, or after one date they are acting like we’re in a serious relationship. If I try to slow things down a bit […]
I’ve always had a glib answer as to why I’m a dating coach for women instead of men. “Men need more help. Women ASK for more help.” In general, this is true. I was a dating coach (one of the first) from 2003-2009 and I didn’t specify which gender I […]