If you’re thinking of dating an older man, you probably want to know what to expect. There are a lot of things you need to know in order to date older men. Both positive things – and some challenges you should be aware of. You may have a lot of […]
Hello, my dear. I heard about you and your man. I’m so sorry it’s over, but whatever. I’m sure he’s secretly in love with his sister Jalene, the one with the matted dreadlocks. Let them have each other. And the breakup was all his fault. It had to be. Unless […]
A couple of buddies and I were having this conversation about relationships with a few girlfriends of ours. The discussion eventually turned to how old we all were when we lost our virginity. Which led to more chatter from the ladies about how guys would prefer their wives or girlfriends […]
You ladies have lots of questions about men– and I have answers to share from a guy’s point of view. I receive a lot of e-mails and I make a sincere effort to respond to each and every one, but some do slip through the cracks or get caught in […]
“How do I know if this is a true love?” Someone asked me recently. I was confused. Not that I didn’t know what to answer. In fact I answered instantly. I seem to have had the answer for this question since ages. Maybe I knew it all the time. And now […]
Deep down inside, you know you don’t need a ‘Top 10 Signs’ list to realize you’re in an unhealthy relationship. The signs are there, you just need to identify them. If you’re constantly having to make excuses for your relationship to friends and family, you know damn well something isn’t […]
What the sick, self-pitying part of me meant when I said I needed an edgy dude was that, at heart, I needed a man as confused and crazy as I thought I was. My friends have been hearing me say it for years and years, in a surely grating array […]
Apparently, women take six days to break up with someone, while men drag things out for a month before cutting their lover-person loose. So there’s this new research that claims women generally take just six days to break up with someone once they’ve made up their minds the relationship is […]
People often have questions about a person who calls him or herself a writer. Some of them are outlandish, like, “When is your book going to be in theaters?” or, “Wow, I’m not going to wind up a character in your novel, am I?” Then people ask things like, “Would you please stop asking […]
Unless you’re a psychopath, no one enjoys dumping someone. And unless you’re a masochist, no one enjoys getting dumped. So how do we deal with dumping someone and being dumped when it’s so unpleasant and yet often so necessary? What if the wound is fresh and you were just recently […]