By David Wygant July 9, 2019 991 Shares

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Shocking title, I know.

Because you came to this website to read dating tips and advice from this guy, me, who’s been teaching people how to date and connect for 20 years.

But, what I’m about to tell you is controversial and true.

There’s no such thing as a fucking dating expert.

None of the gurus you listen to, none of the people that give advice. They’re not dating experts.

It doesn’t exist. I’m going to tell you exactly why.

I started this thing, this industry.

I was the first person that slept on people’s couches to coach them.

I had people sleep at my house.

But, I had never taught — nor do I ever teach you — how to date, because here is a variable that none of these so-called wannabe dating experts (I’ll get to them in a second) are going to tell you.

I am not on that date with you.

I am not sitting opposite that person you are talking to.

I’m not inside your crazy mind.

I’m not inside their crazy mind.

I’m not with you after the date to download and interpret what is real and what is not real. And, I’m not inside their crazy mind as you speculate and go through the date, just like you’re doing.

You see, what I just described was just two human beings having a human experience.

Nobody can decipher what could and should happen on a date.

Nobody can tell you the “10 things you need to do on a date to make the date successful,” because that’s a variable that doesn’t exist.

Do you want to know why?

Because two random people are going out.

Two random people are there trying to connect. And, two random people are acting the way that they are programmed to act based on their subconscious minds.

So it doesn’t matter if you have 10 tips.

Chemistry and connection happens, not by listening to the so-called dating experts, but by really working on yourself.

That’s why I’m not a dating expert.

I’m a human being expert.

I understand the behaviors of human beings. But I don’t understand what the date opposite you is thinking, nor do I care.

When I work with somebody or coach them, I only care about you, your behaviors, your actions, because you can only control your universe.

So, if you continue to get sucked into the world of dating experts, you’re never going to get anywhere.

A lot of those experts are people that basically have just copied all of the things that I’ve done over the last 20 years, and then stuck their name on it.

How can a 26 year old person call their self a dating expert when they haven’t been married, let alone had that many relationships?

How can they coach you and help you through a relationship? How can they possibly know what it’s like to date in your 40s or 50s?

They don’t know.

So you see, there is no dating expert.

“Dating expertise” is an egotistical business that was started by a man named David Wygant. So, all that most of these dating experts are, is really just ego. They want to tell you what that masses are thinking. But we all know that people are individuals, not the masses.

If you want to be an expert at something, become an expert at yourself.

You see, if you buy my programs or work with me as your coach, I’ll make you an expert on yourself.

That way, you won’t care about what people say to you on a date. It doesn’t even matter, as a matter of fact. You won’t even care because you become an expert and the only thing that you have control over in the first place: yourself.

That’s all you can control.


That’s it.

So, become an expert in yourself.

Work with somebody who teaches you how to be an expert in yourself, so you won’t need to listen to some stupid dating advice by some dumbass 26 or 27 year old person who doesn’t know shit about life yet.

Or an older man woman that hasn’t had a relationship in 15 years and is pissed off and miserable, but yet they’re a dating expert. I know those people, as well.

Become an expert in you.

Control what you can control. You’ll find that you won’t care about what dating experts have to say. You’ll just care about what you are feeling, what you’re thinking, and how you’re growing in to the mystical, magical guardian of you.

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you’ve come to the right place.

Wendy Klempt

Wednesday, July 10th, 2019

You are absolutely right, David. We all are unique as everyone’s DNA is unique. There is no “written-in-stone” kind of recipe for dating. Everybody is in different situation when it comes to dating. We can change only ourselves with help of a dating coach, such as yourself, and then what happens is that things will start changing around us (with our new healthy attitude). When I used your services a year ago as a guidance, I definitely looked at my own behavior, and changed some of my attitudes, and now all is working well and I can say that I am happy with my life.



Monday, November 18th, 2019

It’s a concept that puzzled me because of a lot of these so-called “dating experts” were mostly giving advice on how to meet people and communicate. However, some of these so-called experts do tell people how to date! They give the do’s and don’ts as men and women ask for their advice. There are some good tips but ultimately it is about yourself. I haven’t been in here for a while, but was curious you, David, did you find your soulmate? I know you were married before and had a kid. Your history of connecting with women is amazing and many have benefitted from your experiences as you teach it to others but it puzzled me why you stumbled in the marriage department.


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