So, you’ve decided to go the matchmaker route to get expert help finding “the one.” But now you have a new problem — how to find the best matchmaker. For example, one search for “matchmakers in San Francisco” turns up about 562,000 results! Maybe you even came across emlovz somewhere on that list. But what makes emlovz different than other matchmakers? Narrowing down all those choices feels like a job in itself.
Let me make things easier for you. While you’ll find a ton of matchmaker options wherever you live, emlovz is different than other matchmakers in several key areas.
9 Keys to What Makes emlovz Different Than Other Matchmakers
Below, I’ll go through some of the biggest benefits you get from being an emlovz client. We think you’ll find that we offer a unique approach that’s unlike any other matchmaker you’ve seen out there, which is worth considering when you’re trying to wade through tons of options.
1. We Recruit From Scratch
I’ve been in this business for over eight years, but I’ve been matching people for much longer than that. As a former corporate recruiter, I know exactly how to use professional tools to find the right person for the job — and that skillset has transitioned nicely for me as a matchmaker. I’ve now shared my skillset with my team.
So here’s one thing that makes emlovz different than other matchmakers: our recruiting strategy. We’re not limited to using a database that’s only filled with male and female clients who have already compensated us.
Instead, we’re like love headhunters. We go out and hunt for the best possible matches for you from scratch. This helps us find the highest quality candidates, and the best part is, this gives you access to a huge potential dating pool no one talks about: the 70% of U.S. adults who are not on dating apps.
How do we do this? We strategically find places where our clients’ ideal matches would be located and target those places to find the best match. In fact, we get in front of the highest quality singles this way.
Not only that, but we have more leverage with them. When approaching them as a matchmaker, they are more likely to respond than on a dating app with millions of other people competing for their attention. In fact, our response rate from potential matches is a whopping 42%. Compare that to a 5-8% chance a man gets a message from a woman on a dating app.
2. We Interview
Another thing that makes emlovz different than other matchmakers is we don’t match you with anyone without fully interviewing each and every potential candidate.
We give each candidate a written survey first, which is crafted specifically for your preferences. When their survey results look like they’re a match for you, we then set up a Zoom interview where we talk to that person first, 1-on-1.
We personally interview every candidate for many reasons. Mainly we want to make sure they are who they say they are. We also want to assess whether they have a personality that would be a strong match for you — and that is much easier to figure out face-to-face than on paper. Finally, the interview helps us make sure that the person we’ve selected will respect your time and not wind up flaking on the date.
Think of it as like being introduced by your friend — we get to know your match first before we set you up.
3. We Coach
In your search for matchmakers, you may have noticed one thing: Most matchmakers don’t have a coaching program. Among other things, that’s what makes emlovz different than other matchmakers.
emlovz was actually founded in 2011 on coaching. Not only do we offer our clients full 12-week coaching programs, but matchmaking clients get pre/post date coaching for every match.
What does this mean? It means we won’t just give you someone’s phone number and have you reach out to them yourself without giving you a little help first.
When you’re an emlovz client, we guide you on everything it takes to present yourself in a way that attracts others, build their interest, create sexual tension, and intrigue them enough to see you again. That way, you won’t waste time on dates that go nowhere. You’ll have the skills to make the most of every opportunity with someone who’s worth it.
To us, it just makes sense. Our goal is for you to find love as quickly as possible. We don’t want you to become a lifetime client.
Instead, we want you to be successful within the shortest timeframe you can handle so that you not only tell others about us but create the life you dream of (with a kick-ass partner by your side!).
4. We Incentivize Our Matchmakers to Set Up 5-Star Dates
In case you’re thinking no matchmaker is only motivated by the goodness of their heart, don’t worry: We pay our matchmakers bonuses for 5-star dates (based on your reviews), engagements, and marriages. That means they’re highly incentivized to work their hardest to find exactly what you’re looking for.
We’ve found that, when matchmakers aren’t incentivized in this way, their motivation is just to find any match that’s good enough. You might get stuck with people who meet your qualifications on paper but don’t really vibe with in person.
But for us, good enough doesn’t cut it. We aim for extraordinary, so we make sure our business model rewards our matchmakers for meeting those goals.
5. We Communicate
With emlovz, you’ll never be forgotten or lost in the shuffle. It’s not like you’ll sign up with us and never hear from your matchmaker again. We’re a small, hardworking team, and we develop close relationships with everyone we work with. We want to get to know you and your preferences on a deep level so we can go out there and find the exact person who we know you’ll be head over heels for.
To make this a reality, your matchmaker communicates with you weekly. They will let you know when they’re interviewing for you, scouting for you, or about to set you up on your next date. You’ll be well informed of exactly what’s going on behind the scenes every step of the way.
6. We’re Forward-Facing
Lots of matchmakers can be like Uber drivers, offering matchmaking services as a part-time income. You’ll notice their sites don’t actually have any images of the owner or their team. Likely, it’s their 5-8 p.m. side hustle.
But that’s what makes emlovz different than other matchmakers: We have a full team of coaches and matchmakers who spend 40+ hours a week matchmaking and coaching our clients.
This is our gig. It’s what we love to do and what we are skilled at. That’s why we’re not afraid to show you who we are. And when you’re talking about hiring someone to help you find love, you want to make sure that person is fully transparent. You don’t want to invest your time and money into a promise of a service that doesn’t have full expertise or isn’t legit.
7. We’re Experts — Check Our Content
It’s easy to spot an industry novice or someone who doesn’t keep up with current dating trends. You might get a lot of vague answers to your questions, or not really find much information on their site that helps you understand their philosophy.
emlovz is different than other matchmakers because we show you how our principles work in the real world of dating through our blog. Our articles, on everything from how to create a great Tinder profile to how to get her to choose you over another guy, describe our dating philosophies in detail and show you how to use them in different situations, step by step.
It’s a ton of information — which is why we post something new almost every day! It’s safe to say only experts could do this.
6. Everything We Do is Backed by Science
Our dating strategies at emlovz are based on a 100-date experiment I conducted back in 2011. I set out to find out what exactly caused success and failure in dating, by dating 52 men in a single year. You can read about my experience here.
After that experience, not only did I meet the love of my life, but I learned invaluable lessons about specific dating challenges, such as how to handle first, second, and third dates properly (which became my dating blueprint). The experiment also taught me important tactics of how to escalate sexual tension and avoid the friendzone.
I write about these topics in my blog and teach them regularly in my coaching sessions. As a client, you can feel comfortable knowing that these techniques are proven to work.
7. We’re Private
We don’t show photos ahead of time. This makes the candidates we recruit feel safe and willing to meet for a virtual date. Unlike dating apps, which force you to put yourself out there to the entire public, everything we do is private.
Our privacy also allows us to reach people who can’t be on dating apps (like celebrities, CEOs, and executives). Candidates feel more comfortable because they know our clients aren’t Googling them ahead of time or memorizing their social media profiles, etc. Because of this, we’re able to find high-quality matches that don’t want to be easily reached on dating apps.
8. To Us, You’re Not Just a Number, You’re Family
Working with emlovz is like getting an extended family. You aren’t just one of a million clients who sit stagnant in our database. We genuinely care about finding you amazing matches on a pretty rapid timeline, depending on your schedule.
Not only do you have your own individual matchmaker working for you, but I also oversee everything and work closely with you and our recruiting team to ensure you’re getting what you want.
9. Our MegaDating Philosophy
My 100-Date Experiment also helped me develop the idea of MegaDating, which is the cornerstone of our dating philosophy.
We believe that the key to a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship that lasts lies in the selection process right at the beginning. It’s important to not choose partners based on ease, or convenience. or loneliness, but on true connection and compatibility.
Comparing multiple dating options in a short period of time makes this possible. We believe that finding the perfect partner requires a good amount of experience first — otherwise, it can be too easy to settle for someone who’s not a perfect fit.
At emlovz, we send you on dates with several different people each month so you can compare and contrast the different matches. You’ll be exposed to a number of different options so can relax and build your confidence without putting too much pressure on each date. In that process, you’ll see who you really like, without getting “one-itis” or settling too early.
So, What Are You Waiting For?
Surely you’ve noticed the dating market can be overwhelming. From figuring out dating apps to first dates and everything in between, it can take a long time just to get comfortable with it all. You might go on a years-long string of dates that don’t fulfill you, all in an effort to “get it right” and find someone you truly click with.
After a while, you realize that you need a lot of information and expertise to succeed at dating. It’s practically another job if you want to do it well. Then comes the bigger realization: You honestly don’t have the time or desire to do all that work yourself.
But that’s where matchmakers come in. You have lots of choices when it comes to experts who claim to find you dates, but what makes emlovz different than other matchmakers is that our unique, real-world-tested approach can actually find you love.
If you’re looking for the love of your life — that ride-or-die partner who will make you give up your single status forever — reach out to us. We are dedicated to helping you find your dream partner, and it all starts with a phone call. Book an intro Zoom session with me or one of my colleagues today to find out more.